then buy a couple pairs of crotchless pantie hoseOriginally Posted by Seamlesssensation
then buy a couple pairs of crotchless pantie hose
I'm very much into it. I started with just wearing a basic thong (felt very silly that first time) and gradually progressed to dresses, heels etc. I only dress at home and my wife doesn't know. That severely limits my opportunities to dress. I really love the feeling of freedom (and self conscious when wearing a shorter skirt and and wondering how women feel when they wear something like that and be self conscious all the time in public places) and feel sexy, although i am not in any way convincing. Just thinking of dressing makes me horny. I am not into male virtual partners, a male as a male is not in any way attractive to me as I need something femme, even if it's only wearing panties (that is hot anyway). Too bad there are so few webcam communities, because I would to cam with likeminded dressers.
I don't fully CD, but I do enjoy wearing panties. Slipping on panties before giving my mouth or ass to a man makes me feel feminine.
You should add stockings to your play time. Then maybe heels. Each addition enhances that feminine feeling.
I was living with my boyfriend at the time in the early 2000's. We were enjoying some post coital glow, and he asked me if I had ever experimented in cross dressing. I really hadn't at that point, beyond playing Dr. Frankenfurter in my college's production of Rocky Horror, but I told him I was open to trying, could be fun. I forgot about our conversation as I was barely awake at the time.
Our work schedules were odd at that time, I'd get up early, leave, and he would be about 4 hours later, and at night I'd be back early, he'd roll in about 4 hours later. A couple of days later I came home to find a little bag laying on our bed, I opened it up and it was a black teddy, which is about like a woman's one piece swimsuit. I called him up, asked him about it, he said it was a gift for me, and him. Ohhh got it. I put it on, it wasn't as uncomfortable as the costume I wore for the play was, quite opposite really. I felt a little excited, like I was doing something a little taboo, I checked myself out in the mirror, I wasn't turned on by seeing my hairless body, trying to fill out something that wasn't made for me, but, it was what it was. I waited for Nick to come home and greeted him at the door, the look on his face was worth every second of my thinking I looked weird to me. I like my men, rugged, and masculine, but Nick, didn't. We had some amazing love making that night, didn't even make dinner.
Every few weeks or so, I'd come home from work to another surprise, or I'd buy a piece of lingerie for our exploits, some were very comfortable, some of them were like trying to figure out a puzzle and a little painful, squished bits isn't fun. Those usually didn't get moving into the rotation. I had a co-worker that told me that she would sometimes greet her boyfriend home from work in front of the door on her knees dressed in something sexy, or nothing, I started doing that and Nick had a look on his face like he won the lottery, I still do this one for my husband, although now I need a pillow for my knees.
Nick and I eventually broke up and I ended up blindly throwing them in a box, the ones in the laundry were left behind. I would get some out to wear as they were just so comfy, and made me feel attractive when that's not the case after a break up. Sometimes, I'd wear them for some of the men that visited my bed. When I married my ex wife, I put them in a plastic container and put them in our storage unit, or up in the garage attic. After our divorce I grabbed a bunch of items out of storage and had totally forgotten about them, washed them up and put them in a drawer. I dressed up for a few guys here and there, they enjoyed it. When my now husband moved in with me, he had no idea until he was making space in a drawer for his things. He thought at first that they were something the ex left behind, I showed him that they weren't, some were a little tighter than they used to be, but that's ok, it gets Darryl going.
I have been expanding what and when I wear women's clothing beyond lingerie. I wore a very nice, simple silk and short white dress, had a bit of makeup, jewelry, and my hair was perfect when we got married in October, I felt like myself, and my husband loved it, the only odd part of that day was that I was wearing white. I've worn a dress to a work event I had, around the house, out to dinner, and on our 2 week honeymoon in Zipolite, I only brought two sets of "men's clothing" for travel days, out hotel was nude, as was the beach, so really a little linen summer dress, or cover was all that was needed most of the time. Am I passing? Probably not 100%, but nobody cared there at all, I got asked where I got a dress I was wearing, The one night we needed to dress up a little, the outfit that I had on was killer, split to the hip on both sides, and backless, my ass looked great!
I got groped, a few drinks and more than a few offers.
I have found that leaning into dressing this way helps my husband and I with the roles that we have in our marriage, he calls me his wife, and I love that, not to mention that it adds a little fun and excitement to our sex life. I've honestly never felt so comfortable in my own skin in a long time.
I tried dressing when I was a young man, I liked the feel if the soft clothes on my skin. But that was a long time ago.
However, I do like, I prefer, any male partners I play around with to wear some sexy woman's clothes. I convinced several to try it for the first time. If they can't buy or keep the clothes, ill buy them something I like and have them dress up for me. Then I stash it for their next visit.
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