How long does it take for you to cum?

**mtfromlv** · Dec 13, 2024, 6:28 PM

I just met another older gentleman, we?re both 70. He?s new to being with another man. I guess bi-curious about the whole thing. He says he wants to suck my cock, and to my surprise, cum in his mouth. But he expects me to cum within a minute or two. Not happening ?.. He gives up, I suck him and he?s done within a minute or two, gets dressed and leaves. He feels he?s not a good cock sucker cause I didn?t cum fast enough. I try to explain that I?ve been doing this for a while, and sometimes a little bit of time playing around to get worked up enough to cum. He?s alone and horny and cums almost instantly. What can I do or say to get him to chill out and take some time and enjoy the situation. I?m not talking hours here, just maybe 15 minutes. How long does it take for you guys to cum?

**remington12369** · Dec 14, 2024, 2:39 AM

I rarely cum from oral. It's worse after turning 65. I just don't have the sensitivity that I used to. Nothing at all negative towards the giving person!

**Johnyonenut** · Dec 16, 2024, 6:50 AM

From what little experience I have had I have never cum from oral alone. It requires some hand jacking along with it, either by me or the giver.

**BackyardShaman** · Dec 17, 2024, 2:58 PM

I cum when being sucked and it varies depending on several things, usually maybe 10 minutes or so, maybe sooner if he messes with my balls and butt.

**Maxxine** · Dec 21, 2024, 2:19 AM

For me pretty fast specially if I am getting my ass eaten out! I have a new FWB partner and he loves to eat me good! I have to tell him to stop so that I am able to pace myself and not cum too fast and spoil the fun.

**chongster** · Dec 21, 2024, 12:32 PM

I can cum fairly quickly if I want but I like to make it last awhile. The last time I fucked my bottom friend I went a little to long and he got sore, had to finish me with his mouth.

**marine20** · Dec 21, 2024, 12:43 PM

these days , it takes a very long time for me to cum. i think it has to do with my blood pressure medicine . maybe with a combination of age thrown in. i can cum while fucking , but blowjobs are out of the question.