but how old were you when you lost your virginity???
With opposite or same sex.
I was just curious to know.
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but how old were you when you lost your virginity???
With opposite or same sex.
I was just curious to know.
13 I was molesteed but liked it.
With a woman... I was about 25 or so.
With a male... that is a matter of opinion. We were "playing" before anybody could climax. I don't think that quite counts.
Would it count (about 14) when I shot my first load with another boy?
Maybe later when another boy shot his load??
-Pat
I lost my straight virginity at 16, just a couple weeks shy of my 17th birthday.
My gay cherry, however... three days before Prop 8 got passed. Irony.
:bipride:
I was very young when I did something sexual with a guy who was a peer and we were friends at the time.
No it wasn't rape, molestation, and nobody was forced at all and I knew exactly just why I wanted to do this, and what we were doing.
with a woman...23...and knowing what I know now...I would be an absolute slut in high school if I could do it all over..
With a man...still looking
I was 14 when i lost my virginity with a woman.. she was actually a woman and not a girl.. she was 31.. my best friends neighbor.
I was 45 when i lost my virginity with a man, last weekend.
straight: 18 (not for a lack of trying from 14 on)
gay: depends on what you count...was 12 when a friend and I ould get naked and showoff, touch the other some, but mostly just looking...no cum...I was 22 before I gave my first blow job and tried anal
I was about 19 (that was almost 30 yrs ago), with opposite sex. I'm still looking forward to my first female.
With a woman, it was a prostitute. I was 17 or 18. I rode with an older neighbor guy to Braidwood IL (near Joliet). She sucked me until I was ready to cum, then I fucked her. The whole experience probably didn't last longer than a few minutes.
With guys it was kind of an evolution. I had a couple JO and suck buddies in 7th or 8th grade. We didn't cum in each others mouths. At 15 I had an "affair" of sorts that lasted for several weeks during the summer with an older (40s?).man. Most of the time he sucked me off to completion. I sucked him but he never came in my mouth. We tried anal once but I just wasn't ready. I guess you could say I was "molested" but I kept going back for more and remember it fondly.
I can't remember exactly when I started seeking out male partners, but by the time I was in my late 20s I had a few. My most active years were in my mid 30s/mid 50s.
At 14...I was seduced by an older male neighbor. He discussed it with me for some time before he asked me if he could teach me about sexuality. I thought I was ready and loved every minute I spent with him. I know that today it probably would have never happen........and probably shouldn't have.
I was too young and immature to understand the ramifications of having so much pleasure thrust upon me. It was some time before I understood that responsibilities come with knowledge like that.
Even more remarkable, when I was 15, his 40 year old married daughter was my first female. As far as I know, neither ever knew I'd been with the other; I certainly never told.
11 years old with girls and 14 with boys.
My first time with the oppsite sex was when about 14 - 15 maybe? I really can't remember for shure, but it was about then. I was in Junior High (now middle school) & this new girl moved to town & was in one of my class-es. I did not pay much attention to her then, but she looked good to me...:love:... But later I saw her at a convience store close to my house. We talked a bit & the next thing you know she was takin off my clothes...:love87:... We did screw quite a bit & while I did not realize this, she was screwing everbody. I don't think that girl could git enough. Rumors got around & the next thing you know she was Miss Red Bank Jr High. Then she got in a fight with a girl for steallin her b-frnd & when she got to the office, in order to git outta trouble, well you just could not guess what she suggested to the principal !!! Ah yes she was a nice one & I really did like her. She disappeared bout as fast as she showed up. Her dad in prison & her mom busted for prostitution, she got sent to a home. I can remember vividly the when & where of all our git togethers. Ya know I wouldin't mind doin it again........DAMM........WOW.......Hey I gotta have a B R B.:rotate:
Ahhhhh yessssss I'me back, sorry bout the interruption. Uhhhhhh where were we? Oh yes about your first time...:bigrin:
My first time with the same sex was when I was about 16. There was a funeral home close to home that sponsored a 24 hour ambulance service. during the day was business as usual. But at nite the ambulance guys would party down. They were all bisexual & or gay, drank a lot & were crazy as hell. (Especially when they got in the ambulance on a emergency call). I would see them occasionally, got to know them, & the next thing you know I was a regular there. For me first it was them givin me drinks, them blowjobs, then the next thing you know I was into the orgys with the rest of them. That summer I became a regular part time employee & ridding on emergency calls. We were'nt trained E M T's & we barely knew about basic first aide. And what we really were was a delivery service. This was in the late 60's before the time of real ambulances & real, trained EMT's Now I really feel sorry about some of the patents we took to the hospital. We were really just a bunch of drunken queers driveing a delivery wagon..:yikes2:.. I can even remember of a few times of wakin up after passin out in a casket there. I can remember vividly that adventure, the times, places, even the wild rides on the meat wagon... :wacko: ...that I I I I gotta, need-ta, gonna, just Jizzzzzzzzzzzzzeeeeeeeeeeeeddddddddddd in my pantys..:tong:...
Damm this has been quite a adventure for me whewwwww To much been said allready, gotta go, I'me tired, think I'll go to sleep for a while.
So BI BI Everbody, see ya all in the funny papers.
Your friend.......Doggie.........:doggie:........:flag3 :
I was 16 with a girl and 23 with a guy.:bibounce:
I was molested by an old next door neighbor guy when I was about five. He felt me up and sucked me. A few years later when I was 7 or 8 a kid from across the block and who was a year older than me talked me into a game of show me yours and I'll show you mine. We felt each other up and sucked each other. It was many years later that I realized that the old molester probably nailed my friend too. It probably started us down the same path. I had another friend who hung out in that neighborhood. We also had some play sessions later in grade school. I wonder how many of my friends that old guy got to, and I wonder how many might be bi now because of it.
I was 18 and in college when I had sex with my first girl, across the front seat of my 69 Mustang. I was kind of shy in high school.
WOW!
Thanks for all your responses.
I was molested at 7, that's probably why I still never had real sex.
With a girl: 17
With a guy: N/A
I was nine with a boy, but you could hardly call it sex. We could not penetrate one another's little bottoms. I was eleven with two girls and we did get into one another's tops and bottoms. And I was thirteen when I learned even more about sex with an older woman who was forty. All my experiences were absolutely wonderful. I wish I could re-experience them now.
G
Good question, actually! You know, most of what Freud said is outdated or just plain wrong, but he did observe that children go through a homosexual phase befire they hit puberty/heterosexuality. Nearly every boy I know went through a period of boy on boy exploration, even if they were driven towards girls, since for most of us, girls were just unapproachable. I don't think it has any bearing on later life. Otherwise, every man in the world would be gay.
I remember always being powerfully sexual from an early age, and always powerfully attracted to girls, but until they girls were ready, the sex-energy occasionally clicked with another boy and led to a little exploration. Oddly, I was much less interested in bisex than most of the other boys, and yet I'm the one on the bisexual chatlist. From puberty on, I was totally consumed (whenever possible!) by girls. Only after I hit my late 30s, still powerfully in search of sexual adventures that i started to consider what several of my girl friends had been begging for--my considering exploring cock. It's been more of a conscious reprogramming of myself than a natural desire, but I'm really enjoying what little I've expereinced.
..its in forums sumwer else..but wos 14 2 me then bf..'e had 2 hav 2 goes fore 'e cud manage.. an then it wos so amazin an wondaful.. 'e didn get a 3rd an became an x bf...
A friend and I would masturbate together though never tried anything. I know wish I would had. I did make his cousin and date her for 5 years. I was nearly 17.
At 21 I had a guy knock on my motel door. doing repairs. Long story though he asked if he could stay and watch TV for a while. He climbed into bed than began stroking me, I didn't rufuse. Then I went down on him. I did not have another experience for 20 years.
Now I love sex, male and female. I love the fact you know when a male has a good time. So to speak. Women sometime fake. I love the thought of a guy filling my mouth not only with a hard cock, though the pressure of cum against my tounge is to me a real turn on. Oh well, theese are my thoughts today
16 with a girlfriend
25 with a guy (only 2 of them so far)
20 with the opposite sex.
With the same sex, I had a teenage fooling-around experience with a guy (16 maybe) and one in adulthood.
17 with the opposite sex...
With a guy - 18
with a woman - 29.
I'm now 47
I lost my straight virginity at 15, and my gay one at 16
When I was about 13 a friend's parents went on vacation so he invited a few friends over to the house to raid the liquor cabinet. We got totally drunk and I slept in the same bed with another guy. We felt each other up and I gave him a blow job but there was no cum. I don't think he remembered the incident the next day. At least we never spoke of it.
At 16 yrs old I traded blow jobs in a bus with a guy I met on a greyhound bus from NYC to Boston. At 18 yrs old was the first time I was penetrated by another man...that first time was very unpleasant.
I still haven't been with a woman but I am looking forward to that first experience.
I know its kinda crazy now that I think about it, but I had to be about 14 when I started trying things out with my friends that were boys. I was 16 or so when I was with a girl. The boys were fun. We'd play truth or dare or something similar to get each other off. THAT was alot of fun.
My first time with a guy (same gender) was 12.
My first time with a lady (opposite gender) was 17.
Irony: I didn't actually consider myself "bisexual" until I was 23, even though I'd had more experience with guys than with women by that point. Go figure....
Peace
My first time with a girl was when I was 18, with a guy it was at 35.