Originally Posted by
mannysg
When it doesn't include the guy's approval, then it isn't nice. It is grounds for divorce.
I suspect that without approval is probably more common then with approval. HOWEVER: cuckoldry often DOES include the guy's approval. There are many guys who are faithful and enjoy sharing their wife.
If I were given the choice of 1-me having sex with someone else (M or F), 2- having a foursome with my wife and another couple, or 3-watching her have sex with another guy and see him making her orgasm, I would choose #3. There are thousands, if not millions, of guys who would make the same choice as me.