I?m dating a woman that I really like but I?m hesitant to tell her. I?ve had sex with a few guys even recently.
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I?m dating a woman that I really like but I?m hesitant to tell her. I?ve had sex with a few guys even recently.
When o returned to the dating world after my first wife died I decided I wouldn’t hide anything. I wasn’t going to suppress an aspect of myself so I had to find a partner who accepted me and all that defined me. When I met my now wife, we spoke openly about our past marriages and the issues. That went well and we then talked about or sexual interests. In that conversation the idea of a threesome came up. She wasn’t into other women so an FFM wasn’t in the cards but, I told her I’d be cool with another guy. That led to me telling her of my first experience with another guy. She was very turned on by it.
I was relieved and felt freer than I ever had. No worries about it. It’s led to an even better sex life with her and me being able to openly enjoy the company of men. That didn’t happen right away but after she went through menopause. We had a monogamous marriage, by choice, for 16 years. Now we have an open agreement, by choice, that works for both of us.
Most women are turned off at the thought of two guys having sex, there are the exceptions. I would be very careful if you care about her. Pay attention to her reactions when she sees gays on TV or in public. I dated a really sexy bi girl a few years ago and I almost brought it up until she told me about a guy she had dated, she found out he was bi and never let him touch her again.
i think it's 50/50. some women love it , and some women hate it. a few years ago i was having sex with this married couple . the wife had seen us sucking each others cock and liked it. however even though she knew i had fucked him in the past , when she watched me fucking him she was put off. i guess she didn't want to see the man she loved look like another mans bitch. in adult theaters , i have sucked cock ,and women loved it . so it all depends on the woman. now ,my wife knows that i'm a cocksucker , but she doesn't want to see it. she knows when i go out for cock and doesn't mind, but she will not watch me . go figure.
Most women don't find it a big turn on ,I been with a bunch and once they find out you are bi most bale.
Depends on how open minded she is, but in general it’s a turn off, so be careful
My wife craves watching me with another guy. Most of my Ashley Madison conversations immediately stop when I mention my bisexuality. A few become more interested.