Back in my 30s I was seeing guys behind my wife's back. A few years ago she found out about me and we started seeing men together. After doing many MMF 3ways, it became apparent that I wasn't getting everything I needed from the guys we were banging. My wife suggested I find a suck buddy that I can see without her involved. That was many months ago. I had not taken her seriously that she would be cool with me seeing someone without her. When we first started seeing guys, one of them asked if I would be interested in meeting him alone sometime. He asked this in front of my wife. She was a little hurt that he wanted to see me without her there. I explained as best I could and she agreed to let me see him so we set a date. I noticed as the date approached, she was getting nervous and I knew why. I cancelled the date a couple days before we were to meet and I never brought it up again. It came up again awhile back when I was expressing a problem with a 3way we had. Then, every time I answered a personal ad or talked about someone, she would ask me, "Is this guy for you or for us?". I finally decided to take a chance since I had seen an ad from an interesting sounding guy. We started e-mailing. He is married as well but to a very conservative woman. He has not had a blowjob or his ass played with since this marriage started and he is getting antsy. My wife has been really cool so far. She has been supportive and has asked a lot of questions. I have a date for our first face to face meeting in 3 hours over coffee. Hopefully I will be able to update later.
To start off I should explain that me and my boyfriend are 23 and we have been together for almost 6years now with a few breaks in the middle. He truly loves me and I have felt from the beginning that he is my true soulmate. He is a good man and I have shared and created more happy memories with him than anyone else in my life. I found out that he has been going on craigslist and emailing men in the men4men section. I found a text between him and another man where he said he's a dominant top and wants to meet up, they started to plan to meet up but it was clear that my boyfriend never ended up actually going through with it. To back track, about 2yrs ago I found similar craigslist emails with him looking to get oral from guys and couples, this was when we were together and it seemed like he never actually meet up with anyone, they were just emails. When I confronted him about it he told me he was just horney and was looking for head and the easiest way for him to get it was from a guy. He admitted to me that he had accepted head from a guy once before when we weren't together and that when it happened he closed his eyes and thought about a woman and it felt good. He told me he didn't have feelings for men in that way and he would never want to be with a man he wanted to be with a woman. At the time I broke up with him for a while but then after it seemed like everything in my life, or fate if you want to call it, was pointing me back toward him. He came back to me begging to get back together and promised me he wouldn't do anything to hurt me ever again. after a lot of internet searching I read a statistic that 30% of men have sexual encounters with other men and many of them go on to be completely strait. From what he was telling me it seemed like this was the case and so I choose to forgive him and put it behind us. I also felt that it was partially my fault because for the first 4yrs of our relationship I didn't have sex with him because I was waiting to do it when I finished college, I did oral and was still very sexual with him I just didn't have intercourse because I didn't want to get pregnant before finishing school (something that has happened to my entire family). So now here I am in our relationship which has seemed perfect lately with great sex and everything and I see this text and it seems to me that he is interested in being with a man sexually and its not just about receiving head. I don't think that he is actually cheating on me but it is difficult to deal with the fact that he has sexually urges toward men while at the same time telling me that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I am trying to be open minded because I am very attracted to women myself and have done sexual things with them in my past, I still see women as attractive but just never act on it because at the end of the day I only want to be with a man. I haven't confronted him yet but I know that he is going to say that he loves me and me only and that he never actually went through with meeting any of these guys and it's not what he wants. I don't know what to do because he is my best friend and cutting off all ties with him would completely crush my life due to the fact that we have pretty much all of the same friends. Is it possible to work things out with him? This man is my soul mate and I want nothing more in my life than to grow old with him and spend every day with him. Is it possible to just be friends with him after this if I decide to end it? FYI I was just laid off from my job last week and my best friend who I live with is moving out this week to live with her boyfriend, please be kind on your responses I'm going through a tough time in life and I don't feel there is anyone i can talk to about this. If anyone has any experience with marrying a man who is bi I would really like to hear from them, or advice from older men who can speak from the other side of things.
Is it normal to be straight and have a sexual attraction to men. I think about men sometimes when I masturbate but a lot of the time it's women. Am I bi? I'm married and love having sex with my wife. Also I've never wanted to be with a man in real life it never seemed to turn me on the thought of actually doing being with a man.. Is this normal or what...?
In preparation for HIV testing at our county health center, the counselor asked some very personal questions. Have you had unprotected anal sex? No. I've had anal sex but only with a condom. Have you used a codom during oral sex? No. Have you swallowed semen? Yes. How many sex partners have you had? There I had to stop and think and I brought back some great memories. Jim - playmates since infancy, classmates we sucked each others cocks from age 13-22. I can't begin to say how many times. If we had a moment alone we were fondling and sucking. Charlie - off and on suck buddies through high school. Lorna- I was a 21 year old hetero virgin and she was a horny 29 year old divorcee. Sue - best friends, we've been married 47 years. We made out like crazy before marriage but didn't have sex. On our wedding night I found out how sexually repressed she really is. Still friends, still married, but our sex life ended years ago. Loretta - cute, tiny blonde coworker. We had 4 years of lunchtime suck/fuck sessions together. Jan - slightly older redhead coworker. We had one good fuck in the cab of my pickup with her sitting on my cock. Peg - one hot NSA lunchtime blow job. Lee - little guy, maybe 5'5", but muscular with a beautiful cut 6" cock. We had two suck sessions and his was the first cum I swallowed. Sheila - she had a PhD. Had worked her way through school dancing nude and making porn. We had one hard, athletic, NSA fuck in workplace rest room. Pam - beautiful, six feet tall, blonde, big firm breasts and a gorgeous ass. Her husband was out of town a lot and we made good use of their bed when he was gone. She was strong enough to control the action and I was happy to let her. Carol - pleasantly plump red haired coworker. We had many pussy licking, cock sucking fuck sessions. Sheryl - had the sweetest, wettest pussy I had ever been with. I would stop by her place on my way to work in the morning, shortly after her husband had left for work. More than once I found that I was sucking his cum out of her pussy and that just made things even hotter. Marilyn - little, cute, dark hair and eyes divorcee with a sweet, natural, Bettie Page like sexiness...loved sex! I actually separated from my wife for a while during my time with her. Twenty some years later we're friends and email each other regularly. Dick - met through Craigslist. We've sucked/fucked many times over the last 12 years. He's 82, in great shape and stll gets hard and stays that way untill he cums. Tobi - met him through Dick for a 3some. Total bottom, he eventually wanted to have what was almost a wedding ceremony where he would become my exclusive "bitch." Too kinky had to get away. Bruce - had a couple of 3ways with him and Tobi. Unfortunately, one of those guys who, once he got off, just ignored you. John - nice big cock, but he couldn't keep it up. However, he gave good head. Ed - nice, big cut cock on a beautifully ripped body. Said he had never been with another man...just trying it, but he kissed passionately and gave me a good BJ. I sucked that nice cock and wanted it in my ass but he couldn't keep it hard. He decided he would stay hetero. Donald - Chinese giy with a small uncut cock. We had only one session where he fucked me hard. John - another one. Total bottom with a tiny cock. He had bad personal hygiene so I dropped him like a hot rock. Phil - latino with a nice cut cock. I sucked him until he came, swallowed and kept sucking and got another load to swallow. No recip though. Phill wanted a Daddy to give him BJs. Butch - he has severe ED but loves to suck and host. Have been in 3somes and 4somes there. Roger- nice cut cock, oral bottom. Will probably meet again at Butch's. in fact, Butch will be hosting a week from today. Who knows who I might be adding to this list. BTW, the HIV test was negative.
We all have our personal tastes and standards when it comes to who we want or don't want to have sex with. These include non-physical attributes and there are many of these that affect our personal hot buttons for who is or isn't fuckable. But this post is only about physical appearance and the specific physical characteristics that make another person either more or less sexually appealing to me. I am bisexual like all of you who read this, so I have standards for woman and also for men, which of course are completely different but are based on the same perspective on my views of what turns me on and what turns me off. This post is about my sexual attraction "hot buttons" for men only. I will post a similar one that apply to women soon. Here we go: There is one physical trait that matters to me when it comes to what makes another man sexually appealing to me - is the size of his dick. That makes me a size queen and I'm fine with that. My dick is pretty big. 8 inches, thick and gorgeous all over. And my 8 incher is also the line that separates a dick that is big enough to get me on my knees and open my mouth for, and a dick that almost never gets me hot enough to try to suck. Sorry but that's how they made me and there are many times I wish I was different because I'd have much more cocksucking experience without my size queen obsession. And 8 inches is the minimum and not what I prefer when I'm in a cocksucking mood. I prefer a dick that's between 9 and 10 inches and any dick bigger than 10 that comes my way is fine with me as well. And a big dick also affects my vision. Always makes me miss things I usually catch. Here's what I mean by this. A 10 inch dick on an otherwise average looking guy makes him look like a hottie - to me. A 10 inch dick on a guy who doesn't meet my sexual minimum standards might or might not make him hot enough to reach or pass those minimum standards and makes him fuckable to me. It depends on what exactly is below my minimums and by how much. I've had to make this decision a few times in my life and I've decided both ways and I made the right choice each of those times. A 10 inch dick on a guy who's a hottie everywhere else is in my "I want him and me naked right now" club. There are lots of guys out there who could join my special club, and also a handful of men who not only are members but also members I had hot sex with as well. There are some experiences in my past that pushed me in this direction but that's for another time not now. The rest of my fuckability hot buttons are all flexible and none of them alone can decide if a guy is or isn't fuckable to me. And all of them are also totally subjective since what I think makes a guy cute or not isn't the same for me and you and anyone else. Here are some that usually matter to me more than the others do. Is his face cute enough for me to want to kiss? And if or when I do kiss him - french kiss of course - will it make me really hot and will I want to kiss him all the time? Does his body ring my bell? I don't have any one or two body types that turn me on much more than all the others, and tall short gym rat swimmer runner bodies all are nice if nothing is there to turn me off too much. A long lean body with a round ass big enough to look at twice or more and firm enough to stick out is fine by me. Flabby drooping bodies or flat small butts turn me off. Race is irrelevant to me in my non-sexual life and I'm the coolest and mellowest white male in this racially fucked up country we live in. But when it comes to sex my attraction to black guys who have dark smooth brown skin turns me on a million times more and gets me a million times hotter than virtually every other guy out there who don't. Zero racial hangups behind this and just 100% pure physical gay lust!!!! Which means that Gay Me is goes out to hook up with guys who look like that and since I'm a pretty cute and hot guy myself I usually find one who is as hot for me as I am for him. But I've hooked up with a few white dudes to and one Asian cutie pie which makes sense too since cute beats race by a mile, big dick beats everything else by 2 miles, and big dick plus cute together is my gay sex jackpot... Hope you all enjoyed this and sorry for my rambling on in a few spots. And think about writing down your hot buttons for fuckability. Boy or girl or both you'll enjoy thinking and writing about yours and we'll enjoy reading them all. T
I have this fantasy that I would like to masturbate on a cock and then eat my own cum of his cock until he blows his load. I also want to eat out a girl that I just blew a load into. Is it weird?
I've had a great sex life but there are so many things I still haven't experienced even once yet. Here are the ones that bisexuals do together. And anyone out there who's interested in doing one with a cute and sexually talented bisexual rookie, write to me! And don't be shy or scared - I'm a nice normal cute man who loves great sex and who has the skills and horniness to make great sex happen. Here is the list: Bisexual MMF threesome with any mix of specific sexual acts Bisexual FFM threesome with any mix of specific sexual acts Sucking a nice big cock together with a beautiful woman who can be either my partner or his Taking a man's load of cum on my face - alone or sharing it with a woman right next to me Spit roasting a woman from the front or the back Giving a facial to one woman Giving a facial to two women at once Giving a facial to a guy or to a guy and a girl together Double penetrating a woman in either opening Participating in any group sex having 4 or more people of any gender mix Gay MMM threesome with any mix of sexual acts Gay MMM threesome with two guys doing me in every way Having 2 dicks in my mouth at once Sucking a dick while stroking another dick Being fucked by a guy with another guy's dick in my mouth at the same time (I know the last few are MMM threesome stuff and not technically "Bi" but I might get some response from folks on this site) Having gay sex with a guy with his or my girlfriend or wife watching but not participating Watching a guy fuck my girlfriend or wife but without me participating at all A MMF threesome (bi and not bi I haven't done either one yet) with my girlfriend or wife Fucking another man's GF or wife with him watching it all but not participating Fucking a guy's GF or wife together with him So any of you fellow bisexuals out there who are willing to show a total bisexual sex virgin what it's all really about - and any of you who get turned on by having sex with a newbie (and this newbie is cute, well endowed and a really hot fuck too), then write to me and let's go from there.
Need help with situation. I have seen some of my wifes txt. To my sons gf where they have fooled around. My question is how do I get them to do it with me present to watch or get to join in
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