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Withatwist
Dec 4, 2009, 11:47 AM
I have become incredibly obsessed with being with another man ... To savor the feeling of the velvety head of his penis in my hands, then my mouth. I check out all the guys around my age and size to see if there is any hint that they are feeling the same attraction toward my anatomy.
I envision myself stroking, sucking, fondling, and fingering until that warm load is released to my waiting mouth.
Is it really this good and enjoyable?, or are there regrets by those of you who have experience in this arena?
I understand that sometimes fantasies are better left unmet, then there is no disappointment. Thoughts?
FalconAngel
Dec 4, 2009, 11:58 AM
Reality is not always as good as fantasy, but it can be with the right partner.
Don't expect that all of your expectations will be met, but also realize that fantasy can become reality with the right partner and the right attitude.
Sadly, porn is not reality (more's the pity), so don't hold that as your standard for what will happen, but more for what can happen if everything works out that way.
Realist
Dec 4, 2009, 12:56 PM
My GF's marriage dissolved, when her husband couldn't accept that real life is not like porn...or even close to it. He never could grasp the differences between acting and reality.
When she tried to explain that people enjoy different interests, desires and techniques, and that the way he was attempting to have sex with her was NOT what she wanted, he indignantly replied, "Don't tell me, I've watched enough porn to know what sex should and shouldn't be!"
Geez!
One thing about it....his attitude certainly made it easy for me to come along and pick up the pieces!
onewhocares
Dec 4, 2009, 1:11 PM
One thing about it....his attitude certainly made it easy for me to come along and pick up the pieces!
Good thing you were there. The husband's attitude is certainly evident in that comment. While I think books, videos and the like give us an inspiration and such, I think it is the real connection and communication between lovers that make for a great sexual relationship.
Perhaps one day, when it is too late, the husband will wake up and see what he lost due to his own ignorance. She is most lucky to have you in her life. I have the feeling that you listen and communicate well with her.
Belle
onewhocares
Dec 4, 2009, 1:19 PM
No sooner did I read this thread when I saw another that couple help people with the above comments.
Check this out...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FV8n_E_6Tpc
What do you all think?
Her site http://makelovenotporn.com/main.php
Leave it to Miss Marie Delta to find the good links.
Belle
mikey3000
Dec 4, 2009, 3:47 PM
Reality is not always as good as fantasy, but it can be with the right partner.
Don't expect that all of your expectations will be met, but also realize that fantasy can become reality with the right partner and the right attitude.
Sadly, porn is not reality (more's the pity), so don't hold that as your standard for what will happen, but more for what can happen if everything works out that way.
I totally agree. It could turn out to be a disaster. If it ever happens for you, just go into the situation with no preconceived notions or expectations. That's what I did, and it was way beyond anything I ever hoped for.
handlebar
Dec 20, 2009, 4:32 PM
Fantasy can be better or worse. Depends on the partner. Straight sex with my wife is better than any fantasy could ever be yet even though I would love to find that RIGHT guy to have a male bonding relationship with, the results of such would NOT be good for my marriage.
Hence fantasy being good for me.
Jim
Captainnasty1st
Dec 20, 2009, 4:50 PM
I have become incredibly obsessed with being with another man ... To savor the feeling of the velvety head of his penis in my hands, then my mouth. I check out all the guys around my age and size to see if there is any hint that they are feeling the same attraction toward my anatomy.
I envision myself stroking, sucking, fondling, and fingering until that warm load is released to my waiting mouth.
Is it really this good and enjoyable?, or are there regrets by those of you who have experience in this arena?
I understand that sometimes fantasies are better left unmet, then there is no disappointment. Thoughts?
Oh, I love it when a man explodes in my mouth, the feel of him tensing up, and shooting that hot load..!!! I hope you enjoy it as much as me, but I only enjoy it when their is a woman involved...??? Man on man it does nothing for me, strange I guess..???