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MrDan
Mar 2, 2006, 2:58 AM
Hey folks! Im a newbie here...

Im 20, and live in NorCal. I have a gf, whom i love. But, i am very orally curious with guys. I dunno why... just cant help it. Its odd, im not attracted to men at all... just the idea of going down on them. Weird? Anyone else familar with this fascination? I just love receiving head as well as even giving... im fairly in-experienced... only a couple gay adventures of blowing another guy.

Ask and ye shall hear the stories. Anways, make me feel welcome! Wats up?

searchingbrian
Mar 2, 2006, 6:06 AM
Welcome MrDan! I think you will find many people here similar to yourself. If it's weird then most of us here are "weird" The answer is I don't think its weird. The thoughts you have are very similar to mine and many others here. Most of us would be glad to chat with you about it. Try the chatroom and I think you will find a nice home with many friendly people. If you want, you can message me and we can chat. Again, welcome!

rumple4skin
Mar 2, 2006, 6:22 AM
Hey MrDan,
I do not think that is weird at all but then again I am bi so my opinion might be biased :). I agree with Brian. You should check out the chat room. You will find many people who feel the same way.
Welcome to the site!!!
Rumple

rupertbare
Mar 2, 2006, 7:09 AM
Welcome to the site!!!!!

Hope you find lots of new cyber-friends here - we're a friendly bunch.

As for your "oral fixation" - well have fun - but play safe!!

Rupe,
London, UK :)

cchalmer
Mar 2, 2006, 9:46 AM
Nothing wierd about that in my books...... I have no interest in having one-on-one sex with a guy....don't even look at other guys that way in my day to day life...but when I'm with a lady and a guy......watch out cause everything is fair game.

Welcome to the site and like everybody else has said...join us in the chatroom. We generally have lots of fun in there...topics range from serious to funny to wild to kinky.....as Forest Gump is famous for saying....it's like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're going to get!!!!

smurf111978
Mar 2, 2006, 10:16 AM
Welcome Mr Dan

I dont think your weird at all I tend to have similar thoughts to yourself although I am attracted to guys as well in general. Come and join us in the chatroom some time, as folks have already said we are a friendly bunch and always try and make new members welcome.

Best wishes
Smurfie
xoxox

ErosUrge
Mar 2, 2006, 10:49 AM
Hi MrDan,
There is nothing strange whatsoever about your desire for giving and receiving orally with men. After all these years of being bi I still am more interested in just basic sex with men and not the serious relationship journey with them. I want the serious involvment with a woman. So, I can relate. Welcome to the site....and as everyone has suggested, the chat area is a great place to visit.

scott_colo
Mar 2, 2006, 11:52 AM
Hi Mr Dan,

Welcome to the site! This is a fantastic site with a population of open-minded, considerate people possessing a wide range of viewpoints and attitudes. I've been on here for several months and have been very impressed with the quality of the members here. I'm sure that we're all better for having you join us.

Speaking for myself, my thoughts on sex with other guys aren't that different from yours. Giving & receiving blowjobs are a pleasure all their own. I don't see myself developing the kind of relationship with another man that would lead us to shopping for furniture together, but having sex with another man is a very exciting and pleasureable experience. We know things about each other right up front that women must learn through experience, giving us the same advantages that they enjoy with other women.

By being open to the idea of sex with other men, you've opened up your sex life for all sorts of possibilities. I sincerely hope that your girlfriend joins you on this journey!

Take care,

Scott

rupertbare
Mar 2, 2006, 1:21 PM
Hi Mr Dan,

Welcome to the site! This is a fantastic site with a population of open-minded, considerate people possessing a wide range of viewpoints and attitudes. I've been on here for several months and have been very impressed with the quality of the members here. I'm sure that we're all better for having you join us.

Speaking for myself, my thoughts on sex with other guys aren't that different from yours. Giving & receiving blowjobs are a pleasure all their own. I don't see myself developing the kind of relationship with another man that would lead us to shopping for furniture together, but having sex with another man is a very exciting and pleasureable experience.
Scott

Scott that has to be one of the lovliest posts I have ever read here. And I concur with you 100% on everything you have to say.

With love and peace to you and yours

Ron (aka Rupe/rupe) :)

mrplayfuluk
Mar 2, 2006, 1:41 PM
Along with Rupe, I agree.. a great reply, Scott; love the bit about the furniture! I for one feel the same as you Dan. The great thing about this site is that you get a sense of calm as you get to realise others are thinking the same thoughts that you have kept secret and knew no one to discuss them with until now....

Cid87
Mar 2, 2006, 2:25 PM
Finally someone my age... Hope you'll like it here.

rupertbare
Mar 2, 2006, 2:52 PM
Good point Cid!!!

I've noticed that there are (as yet!!! lol!!! :) ) not very many "young" folk on the site - lots in the 30-40 age group and a fair number (like me :bigrin: ) in our 50's and early 60's.

So (((((((((())))))))))) to both of you "youngsters" (!! :) ) I clearly remember being 20 - a fantastic time!!!!

Ron (aka rupe) :)

Daviecurious
Mar 2, 2006, 5:51 PM
Welcome, MrDan, from another newbie! Thanks much for your post, and thanks to all who have replied; it is very comforting to know others feel the same way I do. You have all made my day! :bigrin:

scott_colo
Mar 2, 2006, 5:55 PM
Rupertbare and MrPlayfulUK,

Thank you both for the kind compliments regarding my post. It's easy to say things like that when they also happen to be true, and require no embellishment. I think this is a terrific site, and appreciate the quality of people that make up the membership here.

Scott

texasman6172003
Mar 2, 2006, 5:59 PM
Hi Dan,Its nice to meet you. Ihope you get to achieve what you set out to do when you joined the site. Come to the chat room and meet the gang. There are a lot of good people here. See you later,Charles,,,,Tex...

corbeau
Mar 2, 2006, 6:24 PM
:tongue: So...welcome, i'm quite new me too and what i can tell to you is that you'll enjoy yourself to talk with the marvellous members of this site. I'm Finally happy to begin to see younger people, lol, (but old ones are also good!! :tong: ). ALL THE BEST, bye ;)

corbeau
Mar 2, 2006, 6:32 PM
So...welcome, i'm quite new me too and what i can tell to you is that you'll enjoy yourself to talk with the marvellous members of this site. I'm Finally happy to begin to see younger people, lol, (but old ones are also good!! :tong: ). ALL THE BEST, bye ;)

sorry, i've send it twice!!!

rupertbare
Mar 2, 2006, 7:01 PM
corbeau - I am rofl!!!! at the second!!!!

This is turning into a really nice thread!

I really enjoy coming back to it. :bigrin:

An ever expanding family/community - call it what you will. It reminds me of "Cheers" the TY comedy drama - "A place where everybody likes to meet" - a warm, friendly and accepting place to be.

with love and peace, I hope I catch up with all of you "newbies" soon!

Ron (aka Rupe) :)

MrDan
Mar 3, 2006, 3:16 AM
Wow, what nice replies! Im really impressed...you all seem cool as hell. So, the general age range here is upper 30s i hear? Interesting... thats ok. Always had the "young boy being taught by older man" fantasy kinda...hehehe. Anyways, hit me back guys...anyone wanna chat privately sometimes lemme know.

Blah.. im bored and horny... but whats new right?

funtimebiman47
Mar 3, 2006, 9:28 PM
Howdy and welcome Mr.Dan, Daviecurious, Corbeau...and all others. It seems the thought of sucking a cock is very normal for most of us here. Whew...and i thought only i fantisized of doing that...lol. Whomever invented the gloryhole was a genious. You get to see a glorious hard cock without any of the other trimmings that might or might not be desired. Does anyone have a map where those holes are located... :bigrin: Im still waiting for my fantasy to cum...intended pun...true. Ill see u all in the chat room sometime. Good luck to everyone.