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HardRockClimb
Mar 16, 2008, 3:16 PM
Partner and I are looking for some classy erotica -- something that actually has a plot, takes its time with sexual tension and build up, and follows with scenes that aren't afraid to be explicit and push boundaries.
Our experience is -- great plot and tension, but drops ya there with nothing remotely close to explicit.
OR -- explicit stuff that pushes the boundaries- - but leaves nothing to any kind of build up or plot.
Erotica/porn that has pathetic acting where one second the couple just meets to literally the next second they're going at it ---- makes us laugh more than anything. Definitely not a turn on.
MF, MM, FF -- it's all good.
We're especially interested in couples with other couples.
Any advice or suggestions?
Sex in Words
Mar 16, 2008, 4:04 PM
I would check into the Vivid line of movies. They treat pornography as if it were filmmaking. Don't get me wrong, it is still porn with some definitely hot scenes, but it is of a higher quality in terms of something you can actually watch all the way through.
One note though, that disappoints me in Vivid's films, is that they use very typical Barbie-type actresses. They're just not my taste. And it is also very straight.
Good luck, and please share anything good you find!
12voltman59
Mar 16, 2008, 8:23 PM
If you are into reading erotica instead of watching it--each year, Susie Bright edits a collection of what she and other's consider to be the best erotic short stories of the year--it is not hard to find these books--they are readily available at bookstores like Borders and Barnes and Nobel.
DiamondDog
Mar 16, 2008, 8:50 PM
There's tons of erotic fiction for free online at Nifty.org and other sites.
What sort of boundaries do you want pushed?
coyotedude
Mar 17, 2008, 1:55 AM
Great online site is the Erotica Readers & Writers Association. Literary erotica (not visual) by some very good writers. Also discussions on what makes a good writer, what makes good erotica, etc. Well worthwhile for the thinking horny person.... :bigrin:
http://www.erotica-readers.com/
Peace
alaskacouple
Mar 17, 2008, 3:07 AM
Another good web site for written erotica is Literotica.com (you can even post your own if your so inclined, and they too have a forum where authors can chat and get advice)
We enjoy the written type, but have to agree about the disappointing quality of the video/dvd stuff and it would be nice to have something decent to watch sometimes.
HardRockClimb
Mar 17, 2008, 12:19 PM
Yeah, we're definitely looking for something to watch. LOVE all of those other sites mentioned for written erotica.
I hear ya about stereotypical barbie doll types. Doesn't the erotica industry know that REAL women and REAL guys would be hotter than the barbie and ken types?
Anyway - thanks for the suggestions and keep brainstorming. There's gotta be something out there (or maybe we should just all create our own?).. hehehe
Bopit4Ever
Mar 17, 2008, 9:47 PM
I'm currently checking out the so called Classics from the golden age and so far they aint living up the memories.
The ones I liked so far are with acting, plot, etc
Amanda By Night
Satisfiers of Alpha Blue
Barbara Broadcast
I rent from Xrent and am waiting to get "Story of Joanna", Aunt Peg Collection and some others.
I cant stand stuff from Wicked. Brad Armstrong couldnt write act and direct for crap IMO.
I am also waiting for Pirates, Emperor and a few others that are supposed to be good., and Paul Thomas stuff just bores me.
alaskacouple
Mar 18, 2008, 1:47 AM
Yeah, we're definitely looking for something to watch. LOVE all of those other sites mentioned for written erotica.
I hear ya about stereotypical barbie doll types. Doesn't the erotica industry know that REAL women and REAL guys would be hotter than the barbie and ken types?
Anyway - thanks for the suggestions and keep brainstorming. There's gotta be something out there (or maybe we should just all create our own?).. hehehe
I was just having this conversation with a friend of mine (BTW, we have written and posted a couple of bisexual stories on Literotica - if your interested, PM me and I'll set a link or tell you how to find them)
Bluebiyou
Mar 18, 2008, 3:24 AM
The 'Ann Summers' store of Britain carries porn more palatable and appealing to women; some stuff by Anna Span.
While I've never seen any of it, supposedly it has more plot and emotional appeal. Of course it still has the graphics us visually-oriented-males commonly desire.
I remember reading about a female director back in the 90s (article in Playboy, I think)... who made her erotica films especially for women... with X and XXX cuts of the same film. I can't remember who that was, but I think it was Anna Span.
Cherokee_Mountaincat
Mar 19, 2008, 3:42 PM
Drop me a line at : Cherokee_Minx@yahoo.com and I'll jet you a couple of mine. :}
Cat.
DiamondDog
Mar 19, 2008, 8:28 PM
www.tlavideo.com has lots of good bi/gay porn and you can even preview it and see scenes from it.
The bi porn is in the het section since there's pussy in it.
wutheringheights
Mar 23, 2008, 11:13 AM
Check out Kit Ball's 'Viruses are Dreaming'. It's probably intensely hard to find if you live outside of Australia, but there's boundary pushing going on there...