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masterdsygn
Dec 5, 2007, 2:03 PM
Spit or Swallow? and why?
Not2str8
Dec 5, 2007, 2:14 PM
Swallow. Because it's an act of intimacy with, and total acceptance of your partner. Spitting him out just seems tacky, and a bit insulting.
pasco_lol_cpl
Dec 5, 2007, 2:55 PM
swallow (if I am sure of the person) simply because its a way of me showing how much I care.
naughtycouple40s
Dec 5, 2007, 3:05 PM
Actually a nice cum kiss where you BOTH swallow is NICE
paladin181
Dec 5, 2007, 4:01 PM
Swallow.. Nothing feels quite like a huge load sliding down.
The Barefoot Contess
Dec 5, 2007, 4:28 PM
If I swallow accidentally, no big deal, but I prefer not to swallow (don't like the taste). And that says nothing about whether or not or in what degree I respect or love the other person.
DiamondDog
Dec 5, 2007, 4:55 PM
Neither!
I only swallow my own and I am not into swallowing other men or having them ejaculate in my mouth.
pasco_lol_cpl
Dec 5, 2007, 6:15 PM
Actually a nice cum kiss where you BOTH swallow is NICE
Yep, I completely forgot about that and have to say that we both enjoy that as well.
ambi53mm
Dec 5, 2007, 6:29 PM
GULP!....cuz it's there
Ambi:)
ihavapa
Dec 5, 2007, 6:36 PM
yes, depends on the situation.
Stargazer1417
Dec 5, 2007, 9:03 PM
Swallow, unfortunately. I hate the texture. Ick. But I do it for two reasons.
1. My husband really likes it.
2. I hate having to go spit right after.
So, it takes about 2 seconds, and then I can relax and I've got a happy man. Can't ask for a whole lot more than that. :tongue:
capNC07
Dec 6, 2007, 12:38 AM
Swallow
It's kinda a power rush :bigrin:
JimHa
Dec 6, 2007, 1:30 AM
Put it in the freezer and make spermsicles.
CD_Samantha
Dec 6, 2007, 2:01 AM
I have to say Swallow, as I have been enjoying my own for years. Am Very Much into the flavor of My Lover! Be Safe and have Fun!:bipride:
RIfitbiguy
Dec 6, 2007, 3:05 PM
nice friends swallow!
Studley2000
Dec 6, 2007, 3:35 PM
Swallow....such a waste to spit!:tong:
innaminka
Dec 6, 2007, 4:18 PM
With my husband - swallow, maybe after as one writer suggested sharing a cummy kiss. Its just the completion to an act of intimacy.
With other partners, I tend not to have them cum in mouth so not really an issue.
prefer_6
Dec 6, 2007, 4:18 PM
Swallow as long as I am completely confident in the health of my partner.. If not confident, then there isn't even a chance for either.
Aravanww
Dec 6, 2007, 6:59 PM
Swallow, nothing like driving a man crazy by continuing the pressure of a good BJ as you swallow his cum.
I don't like the texture or taste either, but the pleasure it gives a partner is well worth a few seconds of dis-cum-fort.
jem_is_bi
Dec 7, 2007, 1:27 AM
Riding my bike, mouth open for extra airflow and a bug flies in, I spit!!
Riding my bike through clouds of nats on a cool evening, I swallow a few.
They don't taste bad.
JEM
savbaby
Dec 7, 2007, 1:48 AM
Swallow.... nobody likes a sticky floor or ashtray.
goldenfinger
Dec 7, 2007, 3:28 AM
If you suck on a strong mint lolly, not only does feel good for the person getting a bj, but also, you would never taste anything. Fishermens Friends are really good. I'm sure you have them over there.Try it and report back here. It truely makes two happy people.:love1:
dtindh
Dec 7, 2007, 9:30 AM
I prefer to swallow. Love a good load going down. Althought there are some guys that have nasty tasting cum and I want out of my mouth ASAP. If I am comfortable enough to have them cum in my mouth, might as well swallow. If it is disease you are worried about spitting isn't going to help, in fact it is probably in your mouth longer if you are going to spit. Your stomach acids will kill anything once it goes down, the problem is when it's in your mouth.
warmpuppy
Dec 7, 2007, 10:13 AM
Swallow, of course. It's only 18 calories, and high in protein. However, if he's had a jelly dougnut recently, I don't think Dr Atkins would be happy.
mikaelandheather
Dec 7, 2007, 9:19 PM
swallow but i dont really enjoy the texture or flavor so its not to pleasurable to me but he just loves it
Curious43sum
Dec 7, 2007, 10:32 PM
Spit or Swallow? and why?
I swallow my own, I'm looking forward to meeting someone that I can enjoy the difference!
CMack
Dec 7, 2007, 11:53 PM
I would saaaaaay..... swallow. I mean, if you're going to let the guy cum in your mouth you might as well. I would only allow that if I trusted him to be safe though.
flbimale4cpl
Dec 8, 2007, 2:29 AM
Swallow. Cleaner and more erotic and most of all, I love the taste!!! :)
mannysg
Dec 8, 2007, 3:26 AM
I've only had a guy cum in my mouth once, and I spit because the taste and texture was unexpected. If I ever get teh chance to give a BJ again, I plan to swallow know that I know what to expect.
anteak
Dec 8, 2007, 9:08 AM
Over the years I have learned to swallow and now enjoy it. Years ago when I was experimenting with cock sucking I let a guy cum in my mouth to see what it was like, later on I swallowed, again to see what it was like. Sometime later I was trading blow jobs with a guy and went down on him, his cock slipped in my throat as he shot his load. I could feel his cock pulse as he came. we both enjoyed it a lot. So I made it a practice of deepthroating the cock when he says those magic words "I'm cumming" My latest play buddy swallows me and I swallow him, sometimes deepthroating, sometimes holding it in my mouth, showing him I have it then swallowing and showing him it's gone. I can;t say I would swallow every cock I suck any more than I would suck any cock I see.
Keep on strokin, suckin & fuckin :-)
thefinecrystal
Dec 9, 2007, 1:16 AM
If I ever get the change to go down on a guy I hope to be able to swallow. (Giving clean hygiene of course)
biwm08
Dec 9, 2007, 12:51 PM
Definately swallow with my steady fuck bud. He has a great load and he gets off on feeding it to me. And I view his cum as my reward. It wouldn't be right no spit it out and waste it.
I don't do casual and I wouldn't even consider swallowing with a stranger.
swans
Dec 10, 2007, 11:28 AM
Both and more! Spit, swallow, dribble, swap, eat and share.
I LOVE cum. The more the better!!!
Sirramm
Dec 10, 2007, 12:14 PM
I love to swallow cum! My wifes boyfriend (long story) will cum in her and let me eat it out of her or I'll suck him and swallow it makes no nevermind to me! The best however is when my wife sucks him or me and then kisses me with her mouth full! She hates to swallow which is good for me! God what a turn on to have her kiss me with a full mouth, tasting his cum or mine knowing she just had a cock in her mouth...O god what a turn on!!! :flag4: :male::male::female:
hillwalker54
Dec 10, 2007, 1:05 PM
Just had my first cum kiss recently, and that was nice! Kinda hot too! My guess is swallow now!
a_boy_toy_for_u
Dec 10, 2007, 1:58 PM
I agree with the writer about the intimacy thing - to me, if I've decided I want to suck on a man's penis, I want to take his cum in my mouth and swallow it. Only once in my life did a girl spit it out, and I felt rejected because of it.
I know the man being sucked loves it when his partner swallows it, and it's a reward for me for all my hard work! Taste and texture don't bother me, and even if they did I'd still want to swallow it. Doesn't seem complete without it!
i23tboy
Dec 10, 2007, 2:18 PM
I swallow. My girlfriend does too. She and I share very hot cummy kisses. My guy fuck buddy swallows and shares cummy kisses. My wife doesn't swallow.
bhg08054
Dec 10, 2007, 2:23 PM
A few thoughts.
First, I would never take a penis in my mouth if I wasn't prepared to enjoy what came out of it.
Second, I'm surprised no one has mentioned "snowballing", or similar pursuits somewhere between just spitting and swallowing!
Third, if I wasn't going to share the man's cum (see above), I'd certainly be swallowing it!
atxbi
Dec 10, 2007, 4:10 PM
For me the object of sucking cock is recieving a nice hot load. I enjoy the the act of making a cock cum in my mouth so much that I dont even notice the taste. Then I will either swallow or if someone wants to share it with me in a kiss, I will happily do so.
lilme
Dec 10, 2007, 9:01 PM
if i really like that person, yes i will swallow. it is so much fun to have it shoot in your mouth.
afterdark75
Dec 10, 2007, 11:13 PM
swallow, why not?
ohbimale
Dec 11, 2007, 3:25 AM
I Swallow. I enjoy the texture and taste of my man's cum...when I have one. Plus you can not beat the feel of his cock pulsing in your mouth as he is about to cum. And it is equally pleasurable to continue to hold his cock in your mouh after he cums and stimulate it gently until he pleads with you to stop because his cock is so sensitive. Puts a smile on my face every time.
:bipride::male::male:
DiamondDog
Dec 11, 2007, 5:33 AM
swallow, why not?
Not everyone's into it?
Not everyone likes the taste of their own semen, let alone someone else's?
It's not the 1970s/very early 1980s anymore?
Not everyone wants to wind up Poz (HIV+), or with a non-fatal but non-curable STD or any STD at all?
Some people find the taste/texture of semen to be disgusting?
Some people find swallowing to be degrading?
They'd rather see the semen shoot on their body or feel it go on their face instead?
They're not into taking ANY fluids/semen into their body?
They view swallowing/felching/snowballing as being all very high risk and dangerous (which they can be.)?
Because real sex isn't like porn?
Because they'd rather wear semen on their face or in their facial hair?
Because they have no desire at all to swallow?
Because they tried it once or had someone cum in their mouth once and hated it or found it to be nasty?
Because they don't want to get into the dangerous habit of swallowing other people?
They can't cum from having their cock sucked?
Because not all men can cum from having their cock sucked?
Because they're not into giving oral sex?
Because they're not into reciving oral sex?
Because they don't want to wind up sick with HIV and other STDs?
Because if they were ever going to do it to someone they'd only do it to a boyfriend/husband only?
They find it to be disgusting or just plain nasty?
Because they're not into having other people ejaculate in their mouth?
Because they'll just spit it out and rinse their mouth out with water, hydrogen peroxide, or mouthwash afterwards?
Because they have self control and aren't into thinking with their dick, libido, and hormones?
Because they don't want to imitate a Damon Dogg or a Drunk on Cum porn which are made by a bareback porn company?
Because they're VERY picky about just who they give oral sex to and just happen to not be into swallowing?
Because they're in an open relationship and are fluid bonded to someone and don't exchange fluids with anyone besides that person/people?
Because they're not into semen?
Those are the reasons why myself and my friends aren't into it, and other reasons why I've seen for people not doing it or why they don't swallow.
jay_1981
Dec 11, 2007, 6:11 AM
i swallow, i love the taste, im a willing mouth,,lol
jeancarleo
Dec 11, 2007, 7:43 AM
I've only swallowed my ex-bf. I wouldn't swallow because it's very dangerous and you have to make sure that person is clean and I knew my ex was clean so that's why I did it with him. In order to do it to another guy first I gotta make sure he's clean and I would do it for love in a relationship not just a one nite stand.
hornyashell
Dec 11, 2007, 9:53 AM
i prefer to have it run down my chin and then have my other lick it off and give me a nice big creampie
heaveng87
Dec 11, 2007, 11:48 AM
I prefer to swallow. I love showing my hubby that I care, love, and respect him enough to take his load in my mouth and let it run down my throat.:bigrin:
bensonmum65
Dec 11, 2007, 7:27 PM
I've never had a guy cum in my mouth but I've been snowballed by a couple of girlfriends and eaten a couple of creampies. The taste doesn't bother me but the texture does. It's like having a mouth full of snot. Yuck. I prefer to have the guy tell me when he's about to shoot and I jack him off the rest of the way.
Falke
Dec 11, 2007, 8:59 PM
If I find someone who I am comfortable with I would swallow.
mannysg
Dec 12, 2007, 12:08 AM
I love to swallow cum! My wifes boyfriend (long story) will cum in her and let me eat it out of her or I'll suck him and swallow it makes no nevermind to me! The best however is when my wife sucks him or me and then kisses me with her mouth full! She hates to swallow which is good for me! God what a turn on to have her kiss me with a full mouth, tasting his cum or mine knowing she just had a cock in her mouth...O god what a turn on!!! :flag4: :male::male::female:
You just mentioned many of my fantasies in one short paragraph. :) My wife & I have agreed that she can have a fuck-buddy as long as I get the creampie afterwords. She hasn't found anyone to help with this fantasy. She's not actively looking, but hasn't ruled out it ever happening.
micheief_maker
Mar 17, 2008, 9:25 AM
i haven't had the pleasure of a cock in my mouth yet so i don't know..
i can say I love being snowballed....as a matter of fact I was sucked and snowballed during work the other night....
the mage
Mar 17, 2008, 10:44 AM
Well, if we were at the cummin in the mouth part I figure I'm doing anything he wants at this point, so I do as he wishes me to do..with pleasure..
sometimesitbethatway
Mar 17, 2008, 11:34 AM
I've only been on the receiving end, but I prefer to be swallowed. Sounds tacky or shallow but it adds to it (I didn't think it would make a difference, but it did)
Eddie altamonte
Mar 17, 2008, 1:42 PM
I swallow I remember the first time someone shot thir load down my throat i didnt even notice it...It a great way to do a BJ if you dont like the taste ...Me i dont care I like the taste of cum
rock-g'sguy
Mar 17, 2008, 3:17 PM
Swallowing is I think the reward to a job well done, To be honest if you going to suck someone off, you might as well finish the job right, to be half ass is to be a whole ass ,I have been told. When I start something I finish with a reward in mind, whether it is my work, or a blow job. At work you get a pay check at the end of the week, with giving a blow job you get your mouth full of some Hot Cum, Swallow your teasty reward.. Another thing is if you spit, please dont take me wrong, but if you do, that is rude. Hasn't your mother told you that spitting is rude and in some states it is against the Law, So dont spit, and Please Swallow, you are doing your part in making someone fell gooooooddd......
pasco_lol_cpl
Mar 17, 2008, 6:18 PM
i haven't had the pleasure of a cock in my mouth yet so i don't know..
i can say I love being snowballed....as a matter of fact I was sucked and snowballed during work the other night....
Where do you work and how do I put in a job app? :bigrin:
Bopit4Ever
Mar 17, 2008, 8:53 PM
I think swallowing and letting it run out of my mouth are equally hot-especially when its done to me!;)
capricornx22
Mar 17, 2008, 9:59 PM
I haven't had the chance to try it , but I do eat my own to try the taste and it's not bad. I'm just concerned about my partner be it of either sex and I think that's a main thing today. I am waiting to try with the right pearson.
needalittle05
Mar 17, 2008, 11:00 PM
Hi, have to say I like to watch when a guy cumms, on my lips,chest,belly anywhere. its not the taste, I just like to see him swell and explode.
micheief_maker
Mar 18, 2008, 9:32 AM
Where do you work and how do I put in a job app? :bigrin:
;-) at a bar......good times
getsum83
Mar 18, 2008, 9:39 AM
Actually a nice cum kiss where you BOTH swallow is NICE
i have to agree. sharing is very sensual indeed
**Peg**
Mar 18, 2008, 2:55 PM
excellent list DD... meateater's is just downright nasty... vegan's is sweet. Never met a man I was willing to die for and so I spit. I don't have to prove anything to my lover, he loves me for OTHER reasons. *s*
**Peg**
Hephaestion
Mar 18, 2008, 3:31 PM
Paraphrase from the TV series "2 pints of lager & apacket of crisps please"
Blonde girl
"It says in this magazine that if your man eats lots of bananas his cum tastes of them. My man must be eating rotten haddock"
augnovice
Mar 18, 2008, 3:33 PM
Sry to say it, but I'm a spitter. My husband has cum in my mouth a lot of times and I've swallowed a few, but I just don't like the taste. For some reason it makes me gag, but I make sure that I get it all before I spit it out so that there's no mess let behind.
bi_bear39
Mar 20, 2008, 12:11 AM
Swallow......from the cock, in a creampie, or snowballed......MMMMMMMMM!!
MistressLiz
Mar 20, 2008, 1:03 AM
MMMM Swallow!!!
Nothing better for breakfast that a mouthful of cum to start your day, on top of that he's got a smile... not bad for lunch... or dinner... cum to think of it I'll take it anytime.
:bigrin:
-M.L.
RockGardener
Mar 20, 2008, 7:51 AM
In twenty years with my ex husband, I probably swallowed once and that was by accident. I couldn't stand the the taste of his cum, it gagged me.
In six months with my boyfriend, I 've swallowed more times than I can count. It just seems like the natural thing to do, and a whole lot easier than getting up to spit. Although, I don't swallow it all, he likes me to kiss him with cum still in my mouth, and share it with him. :tong:
Rock
lonelygirlintx
Mar 20, 2008, 10:13 PM
swallow, most of the time, because he loves it and i agree with what was said earlier. it is good to make your partner happy even if you have a few seconds of discomfort.
gfofbiguy
Mar 20, 2008, 10:20 PM
Swallow.....I love 'Newbie's cum.....mmmMMMMMMMMMM!
My ex-husband, not so much - ick
ambiSextrous
Mar 22, 2008, 4:01 AM
Mean people suck...nice people swallow (a bumpersticker that I saw)
Swallow and share with my partner. Cum kisses are fan-f*ing-tastic!
Hephaestion
Mar 22, 2008, 5:06 AM
Not everyone's into it?
Not everyone likes the taste of their own semen, let alone someone else's?
It's not the 1970s/very early 1980s anymore?
Not everyone wants to wind up Poz (HIV+), or with a non-fatal but non-curable STD or any STD at all?
Some people find the taste/texture of semen to be disgusting?
Some people find swallowing to be degrading?
They'd rather see the semen shoot on their body or feel it go on their face instead?
They're not into taking ANY fluids/semen into their body?
They view swallowing/felching/snowballing as being all very high risk and dangerous (which they can be.)?
Because real sex isn't like porn?
Because they'd rather wear semen on their face or in their facial hair?
Because they have no desire at all to swallow?
Because they tried it once or had someone cum in their mouth once and hated it or found it to be nasty?
Because they don't want to get into the dangerous habit of swallowing other people?
They can't cum from having their cock sucked?
Because not all men can cum from having their cock sucked?
Because they're not into giving oral sex?
Because they're not into reciving oral sex?
Because they don't want to wind up sick with HIV and other STDs?
Because if they were ever going to do it to someone they'd only do it to a boyfriend/husband only?
They find it to be disgusting or just plain nasty?
Because they're not into having other people ejaculate in their mouth?
Because they'll just spit it out and rinse their mouth out with water, hydrogen peroxide, or mouthwash afterwards?
Because they have self control and aren't into thinking with their dick, libido, and hormones?
Because they don't want to imitate a Damon Dogg or a Drunk on Cum porn which are made by a bareback porn company?
Because they're VERY picky about just who they give oral sex to and just happen to not be into swallowing?
Because they're in an open relationship and are fluid bonded to someone and don't exchange fluids with anyone besides that person/people?
Because they're not into semen?
Those are the reasons why myself and my friends aren't into it, and other reasons why I've seen for people not doing it or why they don't swallow.
Well meant, however, bullet point No4. suggests a breakdown in logic
Sex partners should know whether any of them are HIV +ve or whether they are harbouring any STD's. If there is ANY uncertainty then it would be more logical to advocate that no sexual activity should be indulged in whatsoever until confirmed clear. This is called adult responsibility (care and concern?) and stopping the spread of communicable disease rather than being egocentric, attracting critcism, causing misery, and loading society with yet another burden.
Condoms and other dams are not infallible and of course, resistence to treatment does not occur and all diseases are curable.
DiamondDog
Mar 22, 2008, 7:51 AM
Well meant, however, bullet point No4. suggests a breakdown in logic
Sex partners should know whether any of them are HIV +ve or whether they are harbouring any STD's. If there is ANY uncertainty then it would be more logical to advocate that no sexual activity should be indulged in whatsoever until confirmed clear. This is called adult responsibility (care and concern?) and stopping the spread of communicable disease rather than being egocentric, attracting critcism, causing misery, and loading society with yet another burden.
Condoms and other dams are not infallible and of course, resistence to treatment does not occur and all diseases are curable.
Some people are into swallowing random people who they have no idea about at all, as based on the replies in this topic here so far.
It's one thing if you swallow a partner who you're in a LTR (long term relationship) with who has been tested clean and who you know; but not eveyone is into this, cares about their own health/their partner's health, and by swallowing you are taking semen into your body.
Also, how many people can actually say that both they and their partner have only been with each other and nobody else sexually at all ever for their entire lives?
I've seen people rationalize and justify swallowing random people (on here, other sites I'm on, and from what people themselves have told me why they swallow random people) with the idea that if they don't that it's "rude" or offensive to their partner (If your partner is that much of an asshole you shouldn't be having sex with them), how swallowing makes them submissive, or I've been told that LMAO "swallowing semen is a 'mystical' act!".
Who says that sex has to be logical? Or that people have to be honest? Or that people even know that they have HIV/STDs because they get tested?
In a perfect world people would be honest and open about if they have HIV or other STDs but it doesn't work that way.
I've seen examples from friends where the person who they swallow/have sex with is HIV+ and either flat out lies about it when you can tell they have side effects from HIV meds, tells them they're poz after they've had sex and swallowed once or multiple times, the person learns the other person's HIV/STD status from someone else, or the person does not tell the other person who is giving them head that they're HIV+ at all.
Then there are people who have death wishes and who are bug chasers and who don't care if they get HIV once or get multiple strains of it that kill them and reinfect them and fuck up their liver/vital organs, or if they get other STDs too and spread them to others.
Yes you can get HIV from swallowing or letting someone cum in your mouth.
People will blatantly deny it, say how the person really got fucked bareback and didn't just have only oral sex, or say how it's really very hard to or impossible to become poz this way and that you're more likely to die in a car wreck than get HIV from giving head; but yes it does happen.
MistressLiz
Mar 22, 2008, 11:50 AM
In light of the questions that have arisen in this thread...Let me clarify my answer, yes boys are yummy, I like cum for breakfast BUT I would never just blow some random man to get some. I am VERY picky about who is in me, on me etc... Safety is #1 ALWAYS, which is complicated by a latex allergy... So I need to KNOW that someone is safe... but I don't do random hook ups anyway, the thought of having a stranger in my mouth makes me want to vomit. the gift of the blow job is reserved for those I love and trust.
BronzeBobby
Mar 22, 2008, 12:22 PM
There are a wide range of opinions on the oral sex/HIV question. But if you read up on all of them and then try to infer the most reasonable conclusion, you'll probably conclude:
1) Oral sex is low risk, but not no risk.
2) Oral sex without ejaculation is very close to no risk; so it's better not to let someone cum in your mouth.
3) If someone does come in your mouth, "Swallow or spit, but don't let it sit." The risk comes with letting infected semen stay in your mouth, where the virus can get into sores or cuts that may have resulted from brushing your teeth, cold sores, or scratched gums.
4) Swallowing is safer than letting the cum sit, because once it gets into your stomach, the acids in your stomach kill the virus. In that sense, it may even be safer than spitting.
5) Spitting is safer than letting it sit, because if you get the cum out quickly, it doesn't have the time to float around near any sores or cuts in your mouth.
6) There is a chance with any of these scenarios that you could get infected with HIV, but the chance is very small. Without ejaculation, they calculate the risk is about 1 in 10,000 or less, and that's when it's absolutely certain your partner is HIV+. With ejaculation, the risk is something like 1 in 2,500 at most.
7) If your partner is HIV+, the risk increases if he was recently infected, if he is in the late stages of AIDs, or if he is not taking his meds properly. This is because HIV+ people are most contagious when the virus is at its largest quantities in their bloodstream. The virus is most plentiful in the first 60-90 days after infection, because your body hasn't developed antibodies to keep the virus in check, AND many years later, in the final stages of AIDs, because at that point your antibodies are losing the war against the virus and the virus is multiplying.
My approach is to give head as much as I like, but I'm careful not to brush my teeth within 4 hours before or after oral sex. I try not to let the other person come in my mouth. If someone comes in my mouth, I immediately try to swallow it, to get it out of my mouth and into my stomach where the acids will kill the virus. I find spitting is harder to do the job, because some bits of come still linger in your mouth.
I always ask partners if they are HIV+, but I have to assume that some people will lie, especially if it's anonymous sex, so I get tested every 3-5 months. If I have had unprotected oral sex of any kind, I use a condom when making love to my wife, until I've gone through the appropriate window period of 42-50 days and tested negative for HIV. If I'm in a stage of making love to my wife without a condom, I refrain from any unprotected oral sex with men.
I also inform my wife of what's going on, so she knows about it.
Educating yourself and figuring out all the risks is an important point of enjoying oral sex, at least for me.
Some people are into swallowing random people who they have no idea about at all, as based on the replies in this topic here so far.
It's one thing if you swallow a partner who you're in a LTR (long term relationship) with who has been tested clean and who you know; but not eveyone is into this, cares about their own health/their partner's health, and by swallowing you are taking semen into your body.
Also, how many people can actually say that both they and their partner have only been with each other and nobody else sexually at all ever for their entire lives?
I've seen people rationalize and justify swallowing random people (on here, other sites I'm on, and from what people themselves have told me why they swallow random people) with the idea that if they don't that it's "rude" or offensive to their partner (If your partner is that much of an asshole you shouldn't be having sex with them), how swallowing makes them submissive, or I've been told that LMAO "swallowing semen is a 'mystical' act!".
Who says that sex has to be logical? Or that people have to be honest? Or that people even know that they have HIV/STDs because they get tested?
In a perfect world people would be honest and open about if they have HIV or other STDs but it doesn't work that way.
I've seen examples from friends where the person who they swallow/have sex with is HIV+ and either flat out lies about it when you can tell they have side effects from HIV meds, tells them they're poz after they've had sex and swallowed once or multiple times, the person learns the other person's HIV/STD status from someone else, or the person does not tell the other person who is giving them head that they're HIV+ at all.
Then there are people who have death wishes and who are bug chasers and who don't care if they get HIV once or get multiple strains of it that kill them and reinfect them and fuck up their liver/vital organs, or if they get other STDs too and spread them to others.
Yes you can get HIV from swallowing or letting someone cum in your mouth.
People will blatantly deny it, say how the person really got fucked bareback and didn't just have only oral sex, or say how it's really very hard to or impossible to become poz this way and that you're more likely to die in a car wreck than get HIV from giving head; but yes it does happen.
:tongue::tongue:
tomtommylee
Mar 22, 2008, 3:45 PM
Swallow, unfortunately. I hate the texture. Ick. But I do it for two reasons.
1. My husband really likes it.
2. I hate having to go spit right after.
So, it takes about 2 seconds, and then I can relax and I've got a happy man. Can't ask for a whole lot more than that. :tongue:
That shows a great wife, wish mine did!!!!!
sterculius
Aug 5, 2008, 5:10 PM
I like to swallow my own, and when I used to suck my friend's cock, I would always swallow his, and I enjoyed the taste but then again I had no one else's cum to compare it to.
parkerbi
Aug 7, 2008, 6:39 AM
it depends on the situation and the person. I swallow only if the person i know very well.
coffyx
Aug 7, 2008, 7:34 AM
I prefer to swallow because I love to let my partner know that I love them and their body.
BiRanc
Aug 7, 2008, 12:18 PM
When I started sucking cock I would always swallow. Lately I've been enjoying having guys cum on my face or lips and haven't had any complaints. :tongue:
kyguy149
Apr 8, 2010, 7:02 AM
yum yum yum give me the the cum,i swallow cause i love the taste.An old g/f years talked me into sharing a cum kiss with her and been hooked on the taste every since. :tongue::bigrin:
69luvr
Apr 8, 2010, 3:53 PM
Actually a nice cum kiss where you BOTH swallow is NICE
I completely agree with this statement. In fact I love it! lol
indenver_indenver
Apr 11, 2010, 9:57 AM
Not only swallow, but let his cum slip slowly down your throat so you feel his essence going into you. My partner loves that I swallow his cum. It's a big part of his pleasure. Before he visits me he tells me how he wants to shoot his load down my throat and have his cum become a part of my body. - even to make my own cum to shoot into my wife.
His cum is thick and creamy and his loads are big. His cum tastes mellow. I find that when a man's cum tastes bad it is usually because he smokes. He loves sometimes to pull out of my mouth as he begins to climax and watch as his cock spurts its pearly treasure into my open mouth. And I love feeling his warm drops splash on my tongue.
I love sucking his big cock and swallowing his cum makes the act complete.
inquisitive13
Apr 11, 2010, 2:32 PM
I would love to swallow. anyone offering? lol
Volley
Apr 11, 2010, 6:54 PM
Both. It depends at the time. But mostly swallow!!:tongue:.
TwylaTwobits
Apr 11, 2010, 8:05 PM
I do it a bit differently, I generally swallow almost all and save the rest for a nice cummy kiss with my wonderful LDD :)
Miehm
Apr 12, 2010, 2:02 AM
I swallow. I love the taste of my own, even if I've never gotten to taste another man.
Lady_Passion
Apr 13, 2010, 3:40 PM
An FYI for those interested :.) Semen contains vitamin C, calcium, chlorine, cholesterol, citric acid, creatine, fructose, lactic acid, magnesium, nitrogen, phosphorus, potassium, sodium, vitamin B12, and zinc.
MrDeville
Apr 30, 2010, 10:45 AM
I didn't start sucking cock til I turned 40, which was 11 yrs ago. If you've read my profile, that's when I discovered my bi side. Over the last 11 yrs, I've sucked numerous cock but always chickened out on swallowing, even though I had every intention of swallowing the person's load. It wasn't until about a year ago that I met another married guy, who I knew was clean, and began sucking his cock as he sucked mine. I still chickened out in the beginning when it came to swallowing but one day just decided that if I was ever going to go through with it, I just needed to "get off the pot", so to speak. So when he said that he was going to cum, instead of moving my mouth away and jacking him off, I just kept my mouth on his cock and swallowed that nice creamy load. Damn, I was glad I did. So I was 50 before I swallowed my first load. Any of the other readers, how old were you when you swallowed for the first time?
NakedInSeattle
Apr 30, 2010, 11:31 AM
Yes! and why not?
ErosUrge
Apr 30, 2010, 12:51 PM
Swallow most definitely; for his pleasure and also for mine. Like others that I've read, I would not swallow for years. I had tried on a couple of occasions and hated the taste with the ones I'd tried it with. It was foul with them and I just couldn't believe that anyone could enjoy it. But from discussing it with certain girlfriends who would swallow mine, the response was that my cum had a slightly salty taste but mostly sweet. And they also told me that different guys had different tasting semen. This made me wonder since both guys I had tried it with had bitter tasting cum and I had been under the impression that all cum tasted the same because of my negative experience up until that point. So finally, I decided to give it another try instead of jacking the guy off to completion onto my chest or wherever else he wanted to shoot his load. And the next time, I truly enjoyed staying with it and experiencing that moment where his orgasm flowed uninterrupted. It was a major turn on to feel the incredible swelling and intense hardness and the moans of pleasure as the release happened. I was hooked after that and still is why it turns me on still.
ready5858
May 3, 2010, 2:48 PM
Swallow for sure not doubt. Its just not right too waste any unless you have a better use for it
Sue34C
May 3, 2010, 6:59 PM
Swallow, of course. The power and the protein - what a rush! I think it tastes good, too. There is nothing sexier (so I've been told) then letting my man cum on my stomach and I run my hand over my cum-covered belly and lick it off my fingers. Mmmm!
foreverbi
May 4, 2010, 1:31 PM
I would never insult a man by spitting out his cum. I only suck off married men as I am PRETTY sure they are clean. The feeling of him throbbing & spurting into my mouth is such a rush for me, plus I love the taste, texture & scent of cum. :male::2cents:;)
gimmiemore
May 4, 2010, 1:32 PM
OMG, the best part of giving a hot, willing man a blow job is to swallow his steamy cum!! I find it to be a HUGE turn on to milk his cock totally dry and savor the sweet tasting cum all the way down!!
Bi2Talk
May 4, 2010, 11:33 PM
Swallow, it just doesn't seem complete for me without.
Trek7200
May 4, 2010, 11:53 PM
swallow. my mother taught me spitting was rude.
CatRocks
May 5, 2010, 12:08 AM
swallow...its amazing the connection between your partner if you do that
ohbimale
May 5, 2010, 3:07 AM
Swallow. I always swallow. Not only do I like giving head, but I love the texture and taste of a man's cum. :male::male::bibounce::male::male:
Beautiful_DirrtyRich
May 5, 2010, 8:04 PM
spit, just cant stand the taste, makes me feel sick.
foreverbi
May 6, 2010, 1:32 PM
spit, just cant stand the taste, makes me feel sick.
Since you don't like the taste will you PLEASE use my mouth as spit receptacle? This offer is in affect for all of those people that don't like the taste (I can't imagine that) as I DO love the taste & texture & I will swallow all of your mess for you.:tongue::male::bipride:
lilme
May 6, 2010, 4:47 PM
I said it before, give it to me and I will take it all. I must admit some don't taste as good as other, it all depends on what he eats and drinks.
HornyGraceCouple
May 31, 2010, 12:33 AM
Swallow every time. The more cum the better.
Afterdark1975
May 31, 2010, 2:23 PM
SwAllow without a doubt, every drop
KoolKouple2009
May 31, 2010, 9:39 PM
Swallow! There is nothing more exotic than the giver swallowing the prize he/she has worked for. Seems like a waste to spit out that which has taken you time to accomplish.
love269
May 31, 2010, 10:00 PM
Love to swallow - the taste, texture, the whole experience is so erotic. Especially love to share a snowball!
sterculius
Jun 1, 2010, 11:54 AM
I always swallow!! I love the taste and the texture, but even more importantly, as a cocksucker, I love what it represents!! When I feel the warm and pungent semen spurting onto my tongue, I know that it's the proof of the climax that I caused him to have in my mouth. By swallowing all his cum, I'm ingesting and absorbing the erotic energy of his orgasm. I can't imagine why anyone wouldn't want to swallow.
69luvr
Jun 18, 2010, 4:36 PM
I always swallow!! I love the taste and the texture, but even more importantly, as a cocksucker, I love what it represents!! When I feel the warm and pungent semen spurting onto my tongue, I know that it's the proof of the climax that I caused him to have in my mouth. By swallowing all his cum, I'm ingesting and absorbing the erotic energy of his orgasm. I can't imagine why anyone wouldn't want to swallow.
I agree!
just4mefc
Jun 18, 2010, 7:26 PM
=== burp ===
I'm sorry what was the question :tongue:
the10krunner
Jun 19, 2010, 1:36 AM
It hasbeen a long time.....but to swallow and savor the taste is the best,,,,also snowballing can be very erotic! Then again as I said...it has been a very long time.....would love to do that again real soon!!!!!
rutemptedalso
Jun 19, 2010, 12:11 PM
Defininatly swallow - it just wouldn't be finished without swallowing. Some people just can't do it. I guess maybe it's that I get so turned on and into it.
Stroker90803
Jun 19, 2010, 2:33 PM
Swallow -- -without a doubt. I love the taste. (I swallow my own!) And whne tha cum shoots out and I hear him moan or scream, and his extra thrust, which I throat, there is no better feeling than to know you've really "done your job" and there will be more.
IndyBiFun
Jun 19, 2010, 7:57 PM
Honestly, it depends on who it is.
If it's someone I've known and trust I will glady swallow. Ever drop down my parched throat as my lips wrap around his delicious head.
Mmmmmm.......few things better than putting my mouth around a wonderful cock.
ivanthemonkey
Jun 21, 2010, 8:45 PM
I Swallow, however it is also fun to share it with my partner.
SunGoddess
Jun 21, 2010, 9:04 PM
Swallow for sure!! It always give me a turned on feeling when I receive their cum in my mouth and look up into their eyes to see the pleasing look on their faces. That's Super Sexy!!!!
jc8933
Jun 29, 2010, 12:02 AM
swallow a nice cum kiss is the best but i like to play with it in my mouth first:flag2:
freezeplay
Jun 29, 2010, 10:23 AM
I definitely love to swallow. I love when my lover hasn't came for awhile. This way when he does come, he explodes. I love feeling him explode, his cock tenses and I can feel his whole body get tensed up.
ph1ll1eguy04
Jun 29, 2010, 11:47 AM
I agree a few earlier posters. If you know you're partner, know he is absolutely clean, and are already letting him cum in your mouth, why wouldn't you swallow, there's no tastebuds in your throat or stomach and if you're spitting the cum is sitting on your tongue long enough for you to taste it so what's the point in spitting?!
Unless of course you're spitting to your partner. The bad taste thing is a poor excuse though, just make sure he drinks plenty of pineapple juice throughout the day. TRUST ME!
Curiouscourier
Jun 29, 2010, 6:31 PM
I would love to suck cock. But unfortunately I have not found that right situation. I am married and it would have to be with my wife's approval. I did suck my bff's cock when I was young. I loved it.
biinlou
Jun 30, 2010, 11:07 AM
I like it on my face and lips!
gimmiemore
Jul 2, 2010, 4:59 PM
I only swallow and am seeking any and all takers in Bartow, Southern California area.
BiByNature
Jul 2, 2010, 5:10 PM
After your partner cums in your mouth, lick under the head of his dick, avoiding the sensitive head. After a minute or two, swirl the whole juicy mess all around the head for a couple of minutes to give him that extra bit of pleasure while he gradually gets soft in your mouth. Then swallow.
A very drunk girl in Scotland did exactly that to me, and I have fantasized about me doing it to another guy ever since.
chgodad
Jul 2, 2010, 5:29 PM
If I am going to be intimate with another man, it will be all inclusive and that includes swallowing and cleaning up his cock and balls with my tongue and a soft towel.
Any man whose cum I won't gladly swallow, will not be getting head from me as it is. :bigrin:
rtmac
Aug 2, 2010, 3:04 AM
swallow..but only after keeping and tasting his cum for a couple of minutes and to make sure he is finished...don't want to lose a drop
donnchristie
Aug 2, 2010, 8:42 AM
Oh definately swallow, the white creamy cum erotically slides down your throat and if your lucky you will get several chances to swallow!