fiancee bi

[300mr2]

Me and my fiancee have been toghetor for 6 years and have has 2 beautiful sons toghetor,
3 days ago she told me she think shes bi because she find girls very attractive, and she would love to have a 3 some with me and another girl

shes telling me that iam the only man she wants in her life,
and she would love to have 3 some with me and another girl, and on occasion just her and a girl one on one sometimes,
she said for a long time since she was 14 years old that she felt she was bisexual,

iam very happy that she came to me and told me about it, iam very very turned on by it,, should i be worried about anything?
we have not had a 3 some yet nor have she been with another girl yet,
shes 22 and iam 25.

[rigamatorboy]

man you are one of the luckest guys alive and no i dont think you have a thing to woory about go with the flow and let her have her fun i wish i was a gal and could play with you two:):)

[300mr2]

man you are one of the luckest guys alive and no i dont think you have a thing to woory about go with the flow and let her have her fun i wish i was a gal and could play with you two:):)


a few people i talked to about this are telling me i have to be worried about her replaceing me with a girl,

so i talked it over with my fiancee and she said iam the only man she ever want in her life and she would never replace me with a girl or anyone else

this is a whole new ballpark to me, i just want to make sure i know how to play ball :)

[Skater Boy]

so i talked it over with my fiancee and she said iam the only man she ever want in her life and she would never replace me with a girl or anyone else


If you trust your fiancee, then there is no problem. Enjoy yourself and have fun! ;):)

[300mr2]

now we just have to find another girl , lol

[brunette]

i wish i lived close, i'd jump on it (haha)

be careful and honest with whoever you choose for a partner. make sure she knows that you guys are in love and do not want her to come between you two. trust me, that can be very bad.

good luck and have fun.

[Herbwoman39]

If it would help you feel more comfortable, pick up a book called "The Bisexual's Guide to the Universe". In there are guidelines that you two can pick and choose from that will help you both define the parameters of any outside relationship or even adding a third person to your bed.

The most important thing is to keep the lines of communication open :)

[300mr2]

check out her myspace page :)
iam on her #1 :)

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=230253902

[300mr2]

Thanks for the info, last night we had a 2 hour talk about everything,
its certian that she is 100% dedicated and in love with me and
she very happy in our relationship, but at the same time she has lust for other girls :) she also made it clear that she will not replace me with the other girl, she just want to have some fun.

now when where drivin around town we both check out girls toghetor, lol
so at this point where going to take our time and eventually we will find another girl that is into the both of us and she has to understand our situation, and she cant be a random girl, we want to get to know a girl for while and get comfortable with eachother before we engage in any type of sexual activity.:three:
we would also like to just have another girl around for company
and do things like cuddle, watch movies, dinner things like that :)
Where thinking 3 somes off and on and sometimes just her and the other girl one on one. she agree to let me know when thay want to have there alone time toghetor, she also want me to let her know if i want my alone time with the other girl also, this way we can keep a open line of communication



this is a whole new world for me

[scorpio9]

Keep in mind that she is trusting you not to get sidetracked by a new girl also. (I've been in 3-way fun and living arrangments . .never lasted very long). As long as both of you stay honest with yourselves and each other, it'll be great.

[300mr2]

"HUGE THANKS" to everyone for understanding the situation and helping:tongue:

[the sacred night]

I'm glad you're so open about this. My ex fiance had a hard time trusting me after I came out to him. I commend you for realizing that bisexual doesn't equal cheater.

[300mr2]

By her comeing out really improved our relationship and sex life by 100000000000000% we cant keep our hands off eachother now, lol

[Tingly_Tickles]

HHAHAHAHAHA yea you'll get that sorta reaction from that my wife and I now
have a third which we both just consider her to be our wife as well so it's all
good and as far as ground rules well I'll say now that it just depends on the two
of you and how your relationship is.

I know I'll never leave my wife and I know she'll never leave me that's just how
close we are together and how we feel but we also have so much love for our
girl who basically lives with us and is part of our family.

One piece of advice keep your head straight (that's funny) and treat them both
with tons of respect and they'll love you forever.


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[300mr2]

i have been thinking about going to the toy shop tonight and getting something else for our collection,

http://store.sex-superstore.com/cgi-bin/toys2.cgi?af=3930&ecode=9062922N&init=strap-on&fam=&letter=&last_list=&first_list=&dozen_list=1&text=&criteria=&init1=

i think she might get enjoyment out of it just as well as i will

[rigamatorboy]

sure would be cool to see myspace pics lol but cant unless added

[NjbiGuy01]

Take good care of her. She's a gem, and you guys should really enjoy yourselves. Let her have a special female friend. Enjoy it as a threesome, give her the space she might want to enjoy her friend alone as well. You sir, are a lucky man.

[tora_tigermama]

This is just my opinion, but as a bi girl myself who is in a relationship, all I have to say is this.

As long as you are both open and honest, things can be amazing. Never forget that she may want to do this every once in a while, but you are the one she is choosing to stay with.

Good luck!!!! And shoot her a line my way. ;)

[nudistharry]

a few people i talked to about this are telling me i have to be worried about her replaceing me with a girl,

so i talked it over with my fiancee and she said iam the only man she ever want in her life and she would never replace me with a girl or anyone else

this is a whole new ballpark to me, i just want to make sure i know how to play ball :)

That's a possibility. My ex-wife decided she was bisexual, then ended up deciding she is a lesbian and we divorced becasue of it. HOWEVER.... that is NOT the norm. I was devastated (to say the least) that we divorced since I loved her so much. We are both better off & happier this way though. If she doesn't explore her bisexual side, she will be frustrated (I know I am since my current wife won't let me explore my bisexual side), so let her explore if you can feel comfortable with it and you feel that you can trust her. I wouldn't worry about her leaving you for a woman though. Like I said, that's not the norm.

[12voltman59]

This is an odd thread---never saw it when it was new--but why resurrect a posting from someone who hasn't been here in over three years and hardly ever posted much else but stuff on this one????

300mr2 sure did need to go back to take a basic "grammar class" in elementary school as well---it is one thing to go and misspell harder words---but to misspell words like "together" and "coming" along with not using proper captialization, punctuation, etc. is pretty poor grasp and use of the fundamentals of the English language.

You really have to wonder if posts like this one were legit or just troll trash.

I would hope that someone as an adult who says they are an American, Canadian or anyone else whose first language is English who would come here even for a short time would have the basics of grammar down by now!!

[tora_tigermama]

This is an odd thread---never saw it when it was new--but why resurrect a posting from someone who hasn't been here in over three years and hardly ever posted much else but stuff on this one????

300mr2 sure did need to go back to take a basic "grammar class" in elementary school as well---it is one thing to go and misspell harder words---but to misspell words like "together" and "coming" along with not using proper captialization, punctuation, etc. is pretty poor grasp and use of the fundamentals of the English language.

You really have to wonder if posts like this one were legit or just troll trash.

I would hope that someone as an adult who says they are an American, Canadian or anyone else whose first language is English who would come here even for a short time would have the basics of grammar down by now!!

Wow. Who the hell pissed in your Wheaties? For one, even if this guy hasn't been on in that long someone else may come across the thread and see all of our advice and put it to good use so this thread is not useless. As I posted earlier I am a girl who is bi with a fiancée and this helps him to understand.

Second, so what if he can't spell.... it's not that big of a deal!!! Some people just are bad at that sort of thing like you are bad at manners. It's people like you that annoy the hell out of me.

[Realist]

Volty,

I notice spelling, too. It often distracts me when I attempt to read something that's more than a few typos. I often think, "How can anyone misspell THAT?"

But, I'm also dyslexic......I transpose letters, or often spell phonetically, and have to double check everything I write. It takes me twice as long to put down my thoughts.

Having said the above, I have a friend who is brilliant; he designs aircraft components, is a wizard with mathematics, and breezes through technical aspects of computers with amazing dexterity and skill.

But he can't spell SHIT!

Fran's way of writing makes much more sense than his does...and that's BAD!

300...............as for you, the best you can do, as far as I'm concerned, is to allow your fiancee to be herself and follow her own dreams. Hopefully, she will love you and be thankful that you will allow her to learn and grown at her own pace!

Good luck, it can be a beautiful life if you let it!

[12voltman59]

One of the reasons I got "upset" over this post----it seems to be the way that one brand of troll we have on here posts up things---what makes me think it might have been--the fact that he had a number of posts done in a relatively short period of time--then PPOOOFFF!!! He was no more--and its been over three years now since this person's last visit.

I'd wish that if we are getting "trolled"--at least they could spell stuff half way decently!!!!