Have I Reached my Prime ?

[GreenEyedLady(GEL)]

I know that some people reach their sexual peek at different ages, some in their 20 , 30s and I've heard life begins at 40. Myself, I turned 34 in November , I can't tell you exactly when it started after my birthday, but i can say these last couple of months, my vagina has literally been doing flip flips on a regular basis, causing me to feel the need to get off not once but sometimes 3 times a day. More if im about to start my period. Now anyone that knows me, knows how much I love women, and often times speak not so nicely about men. When I say that , what I am referring to is the idea of having sex. Its always been somewhat painful, due to the fact im not real big down there lol The mere idea of giving a blow job , made me want to blow chunks, and ive been this way for quite a long time now. Basically stopped dating men, or id date but not want to give up sex in fear of having to perform any type of sexual activilty with them despite the fact I love every other aspect of being with a man.

Now ...heres the kicker....Recently the only thing I want is what I would describe as none other than a royal fuck, with a man. Im not even concern with receiving oral sex, just as long as someone is pumping me in a fierce kind of way lol I dont know of anything else that could come remotely close to quenching the urge for sex that I have today, besides what a man could offer. Ive honestly never felt this way about sex. Ive ruined so many relationships because I didnt want to become intimate. Kissing was great, petting was even better, but to have a roll in the sack and give a blow job , forget it , were breaking up now. Sad really. Now I need sexual penetration.

So , Im just curious, is this what it feels like to hit your prime ? And if so is it possible that I might be well on my way to experiencing the BIG "O" as well.
Any thoughts on this would be much appreciated it. Thanks
GEL :)

[TaylorMade]

I'm 24, and I've gone through the same thing, in a milder form.

Until about two years ago, sex just seemed kinda painful but I wanted to enjoy it - - was the opposite of you on blowjobs, though.

Then about late last year, as much as I loved women, I started craving the cock crazy style.

Mabye you're hitting your prime, though that would mean that I peaked early, or that I am gonna be very uncontrollable when I hit my forties...LOL

*Taylor*

[Curmudgeon]

:male: At 40, you are only approaching your prime. My wife and I met when I was 40+ and she was about 30. Over the years we had many good times by ourselves and with others. She especially enjoyed sex during her periods as a relief for cramps. Now approaching 80 and 65, we still enjoy sex even though we have had to find new ways to play.

[jem_is_bi]

Hi GEL

Being a male, I am not knowledgeable of all the changes in sexual functions and desires women experience with age. However, I don’t believe this is necessarily age related. I am 59 years old, so 34 seem really young with even the hint of significant physical change many years into the future.
Rather, I think you are experiencing what most everyone who is a regular on this site has experienced. You have a basic orientation, but sometimes that just does not satisfy. So for you, occasionally, the urge for sex with the opposite sex will be overwhelming.

While I am almost the complete opposite of you, occasionally, I have significant desires for sex with a woman. The person I like best in the whole world is a woman. (I am a male and like sex with men more than women. The thought of oral sex with men turns me on and with a woman turns me off.)
So, you must be bisexual like me. Well, you are sort of like me. Well, I guess we are the same even though we are completely different.

JEM

[innaminka]

OK, I'm in my 40's. Am I in my Prime? (I am not Jean Brodie!!!)
I don't know.
What I do know is that each decade seems to make me a more encompassing person.
The 20's was all involved with marriages and having babies and learning what an adult was about.
30's was an awakening of my potential as something other than a baby-maker, nappy-changer, kinder-mum etc etc. I found I had a natural head for business, I started to become the person i am today. I "discovered" my bisexuality.
40's - It just gets better. I know my place in the world. I am at ease with my sexuality and have a wonderfully, fulfilling bisexual sex life. I look the worlsd in the eye.
Now if only someone could take 2 teenage girls off my hands for a few years.......... :bigrin:

[jem_is_bi]

OK, I'm in my 40's. Am I in my Prime? (I am not Jean Brodie!!!)
I don't know.
What I do know is that each decade seems to make me a more encompassing person.
The 20's was all involved with marriages and having babies and learning what an adult was about.
30's was an awakening of my potential as something other than a baby-maker, nappy-changer, kinder-mum etc etc. I found I had a natural head for business, I started to become the person i am today. I "discovered" my bisexuality.
40's - It just gets better. I know my place in the world. I am at ease with my sexuality and have a wonderfully, fulfilling bisexual sex life. I look the worlsd in the eye.
Now if only someone could take 2 teenage girls off my hands for a few years.......... :bigrin:

Just had my memory refreshed about a significant factor in my desire for sex with women when I was a young man. At that age, the desire to have children was very strong. I was not just looking for sex. I wanted a life long partner to have and raise children with.
Maybe, you desire for sex with a man is part of an innate desire for children that assures your genetic survival.

JEM