How many are straight acting closeted cocksuckers?

[Rest85]

It seems we all have the same appreciation, admiration, and desire to please other men's cocks.

I am just curious how many are straight acting and fully closeted about it, with no other person knowing that you enjoy pleasuring a nice hard dick?

I am totally closeted about my love of sucking cocks and I can't foresee that I ever will tell anyone, other than in forums or in conversations with those who I submissively orally pleasure.

I like it that way because, for me, I find it especially arousing and naughty to hide my intense desire to be a slut for another man.

I am straight acting. The one time I slipped up while cruising and came face to face with a guy who was acquainted with me through a customer/cashier connection, he kept saying, "I can't believe it. I never would have suspected you!"

Thankfully he was discrete. That was years ago and I've never seen him since, so I maintain my cover...my secret side.

[Fzmr9t]

Married over 40 years, been BI (closeted) for about 20

[tongueteaser]

I sucked for one guy only and no one knows or would realize it. I need to find another discreet guy to go down on weekly and discreetly. I will never be open about this

[jargon]

I am not an active cocksucker but, at 66 years old have come to embrace the bi-side that I suppose has been part of me since adolescence. These days I jerk off primarily to gay porn and get off on the idea of sexual exploration with another man. However, these desires are kept fully in the closet. I identify as a straight man and am still very much attracted to women but find this secret lust for men very exciting. So I absolutely agree with you, Rest85 about the arousing and naughty aspect. I am also very turned on by stories about married men secretly sucking cock, getting fucked by other men and carrying in a "naughty" way secretly.

[dicktrobing]

There are certain pleasures I enjoy in life that just do not want the whole world to know about, enjoy a hot arse slamming, cock sucking few hours with another man is one of them

[Kysquire]

I am not an active cocksucker but, at 66 years old have come to embrace the bi-side that I suppose has been part of me since adolescence. These days I jerk off primarily to gay porn and get off on the idea of sexual exploration with another man. However, these desires are kept fully in the closet. I identify as a straight man and am still very much attracted to women but find this secret lust for men very exciting. So I absolutely agree with you, Rest85 about the arousing and naughty aspect. I am also very turned on by stories about married men secretly sucking cock, getting fucked by other men and carrying in a "naughty" way secretly.
You and I get-off on the same things. I find hard cock so appealing and stimulating. These days, women, not so much. I am 75 and I think older men get more bi as they age.

[KDaddy23]

I find the term "straight acting" to be inaccurate since bisexual men are straight until they're doing something that isn't. Being able to act straight was a gay thing and understandably so since, at the time, they were catching all kinds of hell about being gay and the only way for them to avoid being singled out and persecuted was to act straight. The same with "being in the closet;" it was something used to describe gay men who were afraid to let their gayness be known and being in the closet turned into a bad thing to do and a very bad place to be and, yeah, that place to "cower in fear." Not everyone can come out - another thing originally associated with homosexuals - but a lot of men are amazing cocksuckers and can be without coming out or making themselves look "silly" trying to act straight when, in fact, they still are.

It is just my opinion that if you think in these terms, all you're doing is giving yourself some "issues" that you probably don't need. I suck cock. Don't much care who finds out that I do but I'm not going to "run around" telling everyone I come in contact with that I'm bi. I'm not "straight acting" because I am straight... until I start sucking your dick - but the act never defines the person. That's a "gay thing" to do and we've associated all kinds of bad shit behind it but, um, we're not gay. We are bisexual. Men and women (and never, ever "or"). Straight and gay sex works for us. Learn not to be your own worst enemy by using these terms and letting them fuck with you. Just be yourself. Own being bisexual. Not everyone needs to know that you are. As far as I know, you can't look at a guy and tell if he's bi or not - and it isn't because he's acting straight because, again, he is straight until he's doing something that isn't but, yep, even then, he's a straight guy who likes dick, too.

Finally, there are way too many people in the world who cannot tell the difference between a bi guy and a gay one. All they see is the gay stuff we do... and overlook the fact that it's not the only "stuff" we do. None of us here are straight acting closeted cocksuckers; we're straight, we suck cock, and we'd prefer that not a lot of people know that we do because who wants to listen to all that bullshit about not being 100% straight and being in denial of being gay? I sure as fuck don't and I'm sure you don't either. I understand why we think this way. We shouldn't. I don't because it implies that I'm not okay with what I am and if I'm not, that's the real problem. I beg you not to do this to yourselves. Just be you. Own being you. And give up this "straight acting" crap because it's not the reality of who you are since, um, you're both but neither think exclusively. We are not gay men - and I say this without any offense to gay men. We just aren't. We don't need to act straight because we are straight. Understand this.

[mtnmen2]

I'm totally in the closet. Have way too much to lose by getting found out, plus I like having my dirty little secret all to myself. Also the chance of getting caught adds to the excitement.

[cornholejoe]

I am discreet on what i do and with who i do it with i may have sex with a woman one week and a man the next week or maybe a 3 way with a man and a woman so its not anything i feel ashamed about its just no one business but mime

[B87cabj]

That’s me! I am a discreet cocksucker who is married.

[jem_is_bi]

I am more gay than straight.
I do not go out of my way to hide that I have sex with men, nor do I go out of my way to tell people I do have sex with men.
My primary sexual preference is the only thing that differentiates me from totally straight men.
Straight acting is the only way I interact with others.
I am totally comfortable being a straight acting mostly gay man.

[Warmnsalty]

Started sucking cock when I was married to wife #1, sucked for 15 yrs she never new anything. Got divorced, was single for about 10 years, dated several girls, still sucking as much cock as I could get. Was an active single M in the lifestyle, loving all of it. Told myself I wasn't getting married again unless I found a hot wife of my own. Found one, she knew I was bi, so is she. Married now, still suck as much cock as I can get while enjoying her pussy. No one in my "normal" life has any idea I'm a cock sucking cum slut.

[licyou69]

At this point still just a straight acting bi-curious wannabe cocksucker and cum swallower :(

[csreef]

I think there are more closeted Bisexual men and women then we will ever know about.

[Jozyxt]

I am completely straight with only a slight tendency to make self-inclusive homo jokes. That tendency predates my being a cocksucker or a feeder by several decades.

[Rest85]

I am completely straight with only a slight tendency to make self-inclusive homo jokes. That tendency predates my being a cocksucker or a feeder by several decades.

Same here. It was commonplace when I was growing up to make all sorts of homo jokes. I played along but never was one to speak of 'queers' with disgust like some guys. I never understood the animosity some guys had toward gays.
Anyway, yes, my homo joking predated the beginnings of my curiosity about sucking dick. I don't hear many anti homo comments now, thank goodness, because I wouldn't laugh along with others. It was part of the times when I was young.

[jamier58]

I agree with you

[SilkyHoseLover]

I'll put a little bit different spin on this. To most people who know me or see how I appear in public settings, I would likely appear to be straight. But it's not an act, and I don't try to give that impression. It's just that projecting sexuality isn't part of my everyday life. I don't 'act' one way or the other. I'm just me. If I engage in private conversation with like-minded people in an internet forum or in-person, we can throw around the word bi or heteroflexible. Or even straight.

I like to crossdress. I like to suck cock. I like to have cock sucked. Labels, I'm not so concerned about.

I'm not 'in the closet', but it's not common knowledge that I enjoy these things. The people who have a right or the privilege to know -- such as my wife -- know. Anybody else can take a guess, but I would think not too many others care.

[KDaddy23]

"Homo joking" is, I think, just part of being one of the guys. Even I've done it but, unlike the other guys, I know what's really hilarious about getting some dick. Yes: To hear the hate from other guys just pisses me off but I learned to understand that they don't really know what they're talking about and all they're doing is repeating the same old dumb shit that has been around since forever. I stopped letting what other people think bother me and keep me from being the guy who loves to suck dick. The fella homo joke and I know that for some of them, they're really expressing their own inner fears and I long since learned that a lot of guys behaving like this could be hiding their own desires to have sex with a man - but image is everything and it's not so much "acting straight" but it is a thing of not being tagged as being gay... and even I will give you a piece of my mind if you accused me of being gay. Just how it is. I'm not gay. Well, like I said, not until I do something that we all know is gay but, in reality, it's just having sex. It's having sex in a way that, again, not everyone needs to know about. I maintain that if being in the closet is scary for you, it's because you've allowed others to make it scary for you; we tend to believe the horror stories more than we do the truth and I'd implore you to seek and accept the truth: You're not acting straight because you are and more than just that. You don't have to let everyone know this about you.

Don't overthink this. Don't buy into the "straight acting" nonsense. Don't accept the bullshit that being in the closet means you're cowering in fear and really understand that the more you try to "act straight," you just might get someone wondering what the fuck is wrong with you and they might start asking question you might not want to answer. Just be who you've always been since there's no real reason for you to behave any other way. You're straight and, really, even when you're throwing it down with another man. Understand this and do not let anyone tell you anything different. I'll say it again: The act doesn't define this and sucking dick, or topping, or bottoming doesn't mean you're gay because you damned well know that you aren't - so there's no need for you to "act straight."

Because you are. Duh. A lot of you became bi late in life and you were straight before you found this out about you and once you did, you're still straight - but you have a hankering for men. And that, my friends, is the only thing that's changed about you and, yes, given the hell you might catch from others, it's normal to keep this to yourself but that doesn't mean you have to be fearful over having to keep this to yourself and to the best of your ability. Not every guy who's in the closet gets outed but I will tell you that any time you're not being yourself, you stand a good chance of outing yourself. This is some real shit and I've seen a lot of guys out themselves... because they were trying to act straight. Think about this - seriously. Trying to do this can draw unwanted attention to you because you're behaving differently and if you're married, a wife who's paying attention to you will pick up on the fact that you're acting weird. Think about that, too.

You're a cocksucker. Great! You don't want everyone to know that you are. Understandable. You never have to act straight because you are but you have no issues with getting some dick when you can. This is the reality. I apologize to you all but this "straight acting" just bakes my noodle because it's some shit that gets imposed on us by others who don't understand what being bisexual means... and I gotta tell y'all not to let what others think fuck with you and get you thinking and behaving this way.

[marine20]

i am naturally a very masculine man. there is no acting for me . there are no friends or relatives that no my secret . when i grew up it was a mortal sin to be gay , or even bi. so i have been in the closet since i started at 25. that being said , i finally told my wife after about 40 years. she had no clue at all , because of the way i am. fortunately , she took it well. i think because i started doing it before i met her. that way , she new it wasn't because of her. so , she is the only person that knows.

[Rest85]

"Homo joking" is, I think, just part of being one of the guys. Even I've done it but, unlike the other guys, I know what's really hilarious about getting some dick. Yes: To hear the hate from other guys just pisses me off but I learned to understand that they don't really know what they're talking about and all they're doing is repeating the same old dumb shit that has been around since forever. I stopped letting what other people think bother me and keep me from being the guy who loves to suck dick. The fella homo joke and I know that for some of them, they're really expressing their own inner fears and I long since learned that a lot of guys behaving like this could be hiding their own desires to have sex with a man - but image is everything and it's not so much "acting straight" but it is a thing of not being tagged as being gay... and even I will give you a piece of my mind if you accused me of being gay. Just how it is. I'm not gay. Well, like I said, not until I do something that we all know is gay but, in reality, it's just having sex. It's having sex in a way that, again, not everyone needs to know about. I maintain that if being in the closet is scary for you, it's because you've allowed others to make it scary for you; we tend to believe the horror stories more than we do the truth and I'd implore you to seek and accept the truth: You're not acting straight because you are and more than just that. You don't have to let everyone know this about you.

Don't overthink this. Don't buy into the "straight acting" nonsense. Don't accept the bullshit that being in the closet means you're cowering in fear and really understand that the more you try to "act straight," you just might get someone wondering what the fuck is wrong with you and they might start asking question you might not want to answer. Just be who you've always been since there's no real reason for you to behave any other way. You're straight and, really, even when you're throwing it down with another man. Understand this and do not let anyone tell you anything different. I'll say it again: The act doesn't define this and sucking dick, or topping, or bottoming doesn't mean you're gay because you damned well know that you aren't - so there's no need for you to "act straight."

Because you are. Duh. A lot of you became bi late in life and you were straight before you found this out about you and once you did, you're still straight - but you have a hankering for men. And that, my friends, is the only thing that's changed about you and, yes, given the hell you might catch from others, it's normal to keep this to yourself but that doesn't mean you have to be fearful over having to keep this to yourself and to the best of your ability. Not every guy who's in the closet gets outed but I will tell you that any time you're not being yourself, you stand a good chance of outing yourself. This is some real shit and I've seen a lot of guys out themselves... because they were trying to act straight. Think about this - seriously. Trying to do this can draw unwanted attention to you because you're behaving differently and if you're married, a wife who's paying attention to you will pick up on the fact that you're acting weird. Think about that, too.

You're a cocksucker. Great! You don't want everyone to know that you are. Understandable. You never have to act straight because you are but you have no issues with getting some dick when you can. This is the reality. I apologize to you all but this "straight acting" just bakes my noodle because it's some shit that gets imposed on us by others who don't understand what being bisexual means... and I gotta tell y'all not to let what others think fuck with you and get you thinking and behaving this way.

The way I see it, there are some folks who have replied that misinterpret the phrase 'straight acting'. It has nothing to do with acting in the sense of pretending to be something you aren't. All 'straight acting' means in this context is a person who doesn't seem gay with his mannerisms. It doesn't have anything to do with 'acting' a certain way that is not natural to your normal demeanor.

I agree with the notion of just being who you are. I don't attach anything negative to having what are generally considered to be gay mannerisms or any other way people naturally act.

There's no hidden meaning in the phrase 'straight acting'. I don't see anthing to be upset about in my original question/post. But, if you just want to be offended, go ahead.

[Veryoralniceguy]

I’ve been a bisexual cocksucker since I was a boy and no one would ever guess from the way I appear or act.

[CurEUs_Male]

I used to identify as straight, more likely as the default not-gay option?

Then in my 30's., while enjoying an open, swinging experience with my wife I started to question some attractions and assumptions of my like. I look back at my teens and 20's, and think "How did I miss that bi thing?", and I came out as bi-curious and eventually bi, to my wife. A few contacts across online quickly followed, and I strived to find other bi folks that were fun and supportive.

It's been a long 20 years or so since then. I have had a few experiences that make me sure I fit well between the endpoints of straight and gay on a scale. Middle, Slightly left or right... it does shift from time to time, but solidly bi. I share this more with new people I meet. Often I only focus to meet new people that are within the LGBTQ+ community, or adjacent such as kink and poly/open communities, as they are far more accepting than the general public.

So, I am not specifically closeted, though still not out to most family, old friends, and co-workers.

Am I straight acting? That seems to be something to ask of all the people that look at me to determine. I am, after all bi, and not acting, so I should be bi-presenting? If you look at some sites that show "This is what bi looks like..." It's all over the place. I do not think there is a bi 'look', honestly outside of stereotypes I do not think there is a gay look, nor a straight look... Sure, my cuffed jeans and flannel shirts may certainly fall into the bi look, but I would bet walking down the street with my wife would rule those, and most others would assume straight. That's on them.

[PickleRick]

First time poster here... Yes, closeted cocksucker. First time was about 10 years ago, in my mid 20's, I was a little curious after hearing that a college buddy and his friend used to suck eachother off. Somehow found the nerve to check Craigslist and reply to an ad about half an hour's drive. Met in his car, he was probably early 50's, soft spoken, though we didn't say much... He took his out and I went for it. He got a little pushy to see mine, but I wasn't ready for that and kind of chickened out.
Kind of suppressed the desire for a few years, then met with him again. Let him see mine but not touch, he came in my mouth in less than 2 minutes.
I met up with a few other guys since then, never finishing them off though unfortunately.
Have met up with the original guy as lately as a month ago.
We don't know eachothers names or much of anything about eachother, but he hosts, and I enjoy our occasional meet ups.
Aside from that...pussy all the way!

[Buck Naked]

I am not an active cocksucker but, at 66 years old have come to embrace the bi-side that I suppose has been part of me since adolescence. These days I jerk off primarily to gay porn and get off on the idea of sexual exploration with another man. However, these desires are kept fully in the closet. I identify as a straight man and am still very much attracted to women but find this secret lust for men very exciting. So I absolutely agree with you, Rest85 about the arousing and naughty aspect. I am also very turned on by stories about married men secretly sucking cock, getting fucked by other men and carrying in a "naughty" way secretly.


This could have been me writing, same age, same desires, and would love to have a secret suck buddy

[jimmy1664]

I am straight acting and love cock!

[nephillyguy]

I love sucking cock, but not attracted to guys at all other than their cock.

[SuckerMC]

I am a straight guy and am a curious cocksucker. No one knows about my curiosity.

[rascal2014]

I'm a 70 year old closeted bisexual. Been married forever lol. As some others have stated that I became interested in cock around 60. Now I prefer sucking a cock over pussy. Although I won't turn it down lol. I'd like to find a younger guy for a regular fwb. I once had a regular guy that only wanted me to suck him nothing more. I really enjoyed that very much. Hope to find another guy like him.

[Rest85]

I'm a 70 year old closeted bisexual. Been married forever lol. As some others have stated that I became interested in cock around 60. Now I prefer sucking a cock over pussy. Although I won't turn it down lol. I'd like to find a younger guy for a regular fwb. I once had a regular guy that only wanted me to suck him nothing more. I really enjoyed that very much. Hope to find another guy like him.

Good luck to you. We have that in common, the love of sucking with no recip. It's my favorite turn-on, the perspective that I am being used as a cocksucker for anoither man's pleasure and nothing more.

[Rest85]

First time poster here... Yes, closeted cocksucker. First time was about 10 years ago, in my mid 20's, I was a little curious after hearing that a college buddy and his friend used to suck eachother off. Somehow found the nerve to check Craigslist and reply to an ad about half an hour's drive. Met in his car, he was probably early 50's, soft spoken, though we didn't say much... He took his out and I went for it. He got a little pushy to see mine, but I wasn't ready for that and kind of chickened out.
Kind of suppressed the desire for a few years, then met with him again. Let him see mine but not touch, he came in my mouth in less than 2 minutes.
I met up with a few other guys since then, never finishing them off though unfortunately.
Have met up with the original guy as lately as a month ago.
We don't know eachothers names or much of anything about eachother, but he hosts, and I enjoy our occasional meet ups.
Aside from that...pussy all the way!

It's nice to see a first time poster. Welcome. Hope to hear more from you. Just wondering, when the guy you connected with came in your mouth, did you like it from the first time?

[guywholikesboth]

It's nice to see a first time poster. Welcome. Hope to hear more from you. Just wondering, when the guy you connected with came in your mouth, did you like it from the first time?
First cock was at 13 dated girls but sex was sucking and getting sucked buy guys at 18 got my first taste of pussy fucked her at night came back next morning and fucked her 3 times that day married but still sucked cock on the side no sex with wife for ten years so its sucking cock for me and getting sucked no one knows but the guys I have sucked

[guywholikesboth]

had my first cock at 13 sucked and got sucked by guys till 18 had my first pussy fucked one night came back next day and fucked her 3 times married but still sucked and got sucked by guys wife gave up sex 10 years ago so I now just suck and get sucked by guys and fucked and fuck guys only the guys I suck know I love cock and cum been doing it for 64 years

[rascal2014]

Good luck to you. We have that in common, the love of sucking with no recip. It's my favorite turn-on, the perspective that I am being used as a cocksucker for anoither man's pleasure and nothing more.

Yes there was something very satisfying about servicing another man's cock. He was always coming over when my wife was gone. He did enjoy me topping him too but mostly just his cocksucker.

[Veryoralniceguy]

No one would ever guess I like to suck cocks and swallow cum. I look like and act like a ?normal? guy. I?ve been sucking cocks since I was eight years old. Been married fifty years and my wife has no idea I like to suck cocks. I never was really in to guys sucking my cock, always liked to have a girl suck my cock. I loved to eat Pusey and I?ve had my share when I was young. Now I get a rare guy or two, once in awhile. Most guys don?t want to meet up with older guys, so I go to rest stops and parks to score a cock. Seems that they are so horny when they go to parks and rest stops, they let anyone suck their cocks, even an old guy.

[Closet-peeker]

Exactly this. I love the thought and risk that I might be found out. Especially being caught in the act.
to all my friends and family I am completely straight. Nobody has a clue that I meet strangers with the sole aim of sucking their dicks and getting their cum on my face. In contrast, I would think it’s highly likely that I’ve been spotted in my local town by someone who I’ve sucked off (I’ve spotted them too) and they’ve said to their friend “that guy sucked my dick”.

[Opportunist]

It seems we all have the same appreciation, admiration, and desire to please other men's cocks.

I am straight acting. The one time I slipped up while cruising and came face to face with a guy who was acquainted with me through a customer/cashier connection, he kept saying, "I can't believe it. I never would have suspected you!"

Thankfully he was discrete. That was years ago and I've never seen him since, so I maintain my cover...my secret side.
I hope he was saying that while you were sucking him off.

[foundpuppy]

I am out to my wife but not to anyone else. My biggest fantasy is to run into one of my friends, sucking his cock. Seems to me that it may be the start of a beautiful friendship. My only ‘tell’ is an ear stud.

[Jazminedress]

I dont think I can claim straight acting at this point

[Johnny o]

I?m here in eastern Massachusetts and looking for a clean person
im shaved very hygienic very discreet non smoker
looking for the same
pm me
Be well all

[mewanturcum]

I am except my wife found out by my own stupidity. I have been hiding ever since but do want to suck some cock again. I'm not sure if I would even classify myself as "Bi", I only want to suck! I'm not into kissing or nipple play, etc. I do think I would like a cock in my ass though, I like to fuck myself with dildos.

[Cum1st]

I assume that 'gay acting' would translate to effeminate. Most gay men I've known socially or otherwise are/were not effeminate. I'm not effeminate, but I really have enjoyed having a man to play with.

I'm not out, and certainly wouldn't want to be targeted by individuals that are convinced that homosexuality is dragging the country/world down. I've got too much going on to fruitlessly argue with the nonthinkers.

So, I be me. The me people see is the real me. I don't think many acquaintances see me as being 'light in the loafers'.

Totally unrelated:

"I ain't hooked
It's users are losers
Suck your flopper for a five pound note."

[Rest85]

No one would ever guess I like to suck cocks and swallow cum. I look like and act like a ?normal? guy. I?ve been sucking cocks since I was eight years old. Been married fifty years and my wife has no idea I like to suck cocks. I never was really in to guys sucking my cock, always liked to have a girl suck my cock. I loved to eat Pusey and I?ve had my share when I was young. Now I get a rare guy or two, once in awhile. Most guys don?t want to meet up with older guys, so I go to rest stops and parks to score a cock. Seems that they are so horny when they go to parks and rest stops, they let anyone suck their cocks, even an old guy.
That's hot as hell that you suck at parks and rest stops. I started sucking dick at a rest stop close to me and spent a lot of time there for a couple years. I still love sucking dick in a car because of those days.

[Rest85]

I hope he was saying that while you were sucking him off.

I actually can't recall what he was saying. I wish he had been saying, "yes, I can see you love sucking that dick, don't you, slut? Get ready for a nice warm load."

[Rvdude05]

I'm a married, closeted, discreet cocksucker. I've never met a cock that I disliked, in fact I can't get enough.... I suck 'em all, and swallow their man juice.

[Havasmoke]

My wife doesn’t know, but I feel the same way you do. I want to suck a cock! Don’t know if I’ll like it, but I want to try. I often fantasize about getting fucked in my ass, also.

[happystick]

Yup. my dirty secret

[doodatt]

Straight acting but addicted to cock now. I might come out of the closet one day as bi but lm starting to wonder if lm gay. I only cum to men now. Another clue is viagra. I needed it to get erect for my ex but l have no erection issues with men. Has any other guy noticed this?

[doodatt]

If you do get to suck on a cock, you will be hooked.

[CockHummer]

This is a big question for me, because I tried coming out to the most important other person in my life. That was my wife of 30 odd years at the time. Things were not as out in the open in general as they are now, and I felt guilty about fantasizing about sucking cock, and listening to recommendations from a radio counsellor and a psychologist I was seeing at the time for another reason., I decided to share that uncomfortable side of my being with her. The funny thing was, I told myself I felt guilty because it was like cheating on her in my mind, but I never cheated on her in fact, and I could jerk off to fantasies about other women and not feel guilty at all, so I think it really was still, at that time, a matter of me feeling guilty for having homoerotic feelings.

The crazy thing is that I really don't get turned on by men at all--it's just the idea of sucking a nice hard cock and firm balls, but when I am in public and look at other men and think about approaching them for sex, it just turns me off. If I look at porn photos or videos, I don't want to see a man in the image, and it is not a guilt thing--it just takes the erotic feelings right out of it for me. My favorite videos are watching lesbian porn, because I love the female body, and there are no men in the pictures, but I suspect I would go crazy if I could find a tranny that looked very convincingly like a female who just happened to have the wrong, right sex organ. Photo images of big, fat, cut white cocks turn me on intensely, but i must put them in a photo app where I can select the cock and separate it from the male body it's attached to for it to turn me on. For ages, I've gotten off on creatively pasting the cocks I get like that on images of beautiful nude women, in a way that makes it look almost like they belong there. I've gotten tired of that, though, and it's so unrealistic that it can never lead to anything more than fantasies, and I really want to try to have a real, erect penis throbbing in my mouth while I'm still alive on this earth and can enjoy it.

I'm at a point where I would love to find a guy that I get along with who is similarly interested in cock-focused sex and just see what happens. Folks here have tried to convince me that once I get a nice one in my mouth and entice it to feed me, I won't find it so hard to find guys attractive anymore, and I'm trying to get there, but getting back to the question at hand...

I told the woman I loved with all my heart, whom I'd been faithful to for most of my adult life at the time, and with whom I shared a marvelous sex life, that I fantasized when she and I were not fucking about sucking dick but did not find men attractive and would never cheat on her. The radio personality and psychologist both purported, that given the love and trust we had shared for so long, it was a shame she did not know everything about me. Well, as it turned out, she felt that that alone was like me cheating, never mind whether she was troubled to find I had a homoerotic side, and we've been divorced now for it will be ten years in another week. So, depending on your social circumstances, I would suggest it's probably not ideal to come out regarding this side of your life unless you are pretty confident that the people in your social circle are progressive minded enough to get it, and I do know there are plenty of people for whom that is where they live, and their bisexuality is out in the open. I don't particularly get off on feeling naughty about hiding this side of me, but I just don't see how putting it out in the open, unless I finally got out there and found myself actually falling for another guy, where we found that we both wanted to share in a long term, love relationship, would be worth the potential risk. I don't see it as highly likely that that would happen, but if I felt in love with another guy, and we had a monogamous, loving and sexual relationship, that is not something I would want to hide. As you might imagine, though, given that I don't find men physically or personally sexually attractive, and I have almost never had a romantic feeling toward another man, the likelihood of that happening is somewhat minute.

I must be honest, though, getting off topic, while I respond to something else you have said. While, of course, I would be happy "to please other men's cocks" in a sharing sense, I am more looking forward, perhaps a bit selfishly, to pleasing myself by getting other men's cocks in my mouth and erotically enjoying like hell sucking their gorgeous organ. I don't have any thoughts of wanting to be "a slut" for other men. I would not be sucking their cock passively for their benefit, in any sense. I would be absurdly turned-on to feel a hard dick in my mouth and would be doing it very actively, without any passive or self-belittling nature to the act whatsoever.

[Blondeblowjob7]

I’m a closeted cocksucker. Many men say that I’m pretty straight acting. I’m athletically minded. I enjoy all sorts of outdoor activities. I’m also attracted to women. With men for me it’s honestly all about worshipping their cock and cum. I’m actually not very attracted to men. However, some feeders have said that there are certain things about me where they could tell that I was obviously a cocksucker. They said that my personality, and the way I hold myself, pegged me as a cocksucker. I’ve even had some feeders tell me that the food I love eating, and the type of clothes I prefer to wear pegged me as an obvious male cocksucker to them.

[DLazguy]

I would say that I am straight, not straight acting. I know many people will say that if I do anything with another man, that makes me gay or bi. For me, it's just physical pleasure. Whether it's with a man or woman. My desire to suck dick comes from my desire to completely let go and be able to enjoy the pleasure of being with a guy without any hang-ups. I've been pleasured orally by men and now I'm learning to return the favor. Then I want to be able to enjoy a guy fucking me. Then we can just be fuck buddies. No different than a male/female fuck buddy arrangement. Just enjoying another body, mouth and hole. Filling, being filled and swallowing multiple loads.

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[redngoldpride]

I now have a very married and very closeted guy who just by chance we got together and when he got me hard and started sucking he was so good at it and when I told him so he stated that it had been so long since he had a chance to act on it , he had given up on the idea of ever doing so again , after about two months of him enjoying our times together we run into each other at a private get together and I can see his panic as he is with his wife so when the host brings him to meet me and I shake his hand I notice how wet(sweaty) his hand is I tell the host that we know each other as he came to my shop looking for a specific type of part , he introduced me to his wife also whom I said I never met and played if all very discreetly which put him at ease and he was so turned on the next time that he did not just suck me for a big creamy load but made love to my cock like never quite before , he told me that his wife told him that she ran into me a week after the get together we just said hello asked how things were with each other like good friends do and he said it excited him like crazy and he could not wait to be together again

[friesbaconnekkid]

I no longer hide. I'm out. WAY out! Ric Carter, Somers, Montana.
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[Odge1]

I am a closeted cock sucker. My wife has no idea. She has very little interest in sex now that we are getting older. I love to go down on her. She seems to enjoy that as well as penetration. Just not often enough for my liking. I like making people feel good. There is nothing better than the feeling of a cock head swelling in my mouth just before he lets his cum shoot down my throat. I truely enjoy giving guys that relief. More cock and cum please!

[Tag200]

Like some on this thread I consider myself straight for the most part . Internet in men is secret. Not interested or attracted to men but only their cock. I have very little experience ; sucked two cocks and never had a guy blow me yet. Interested in women mostly but sexless marriage so like to find FWB male to suck and be sucked by

[SAW1969]

I'm married to a woman and I love sucking cock! She has no idea that I absolutely love cock....

[Montesa]

I'm 75 and feel the same. Even though I have always known that I love my own and other men'd cocks, I had years of great, passionate sex with my wife. But, as time went on, it seemed to me she was using sex to get what she wanted in other areas of our life. After 25 years of marriage and 5 years without sex, because I stopped playing the "You need to do this" game, I divorced her. She couldn't believe it, she didn't think I would ever go through with it. She was asking me to reconsider and admitted she had pushed me too far. But, I was done. After that I was in relationships with 3 other women and finally decided it was too much work for me to keep giving in for sex. Even though I married again, we've been together 24 years, I really don't want to be sexually involved with a woman again. My thoughts have shifted entirely to being with another man.

[Grumpygrandpa]

Acted straight for most of my married life. Now am in my 70's and don't have to prove anything to anyone. Perception is what you think you see, not what it is. Would like to suck cock as well as eat pussy. It's been a long time since I've done either. What comes across my path will be enjoyed by all. Dicks or clits all the same to me!

[wifekinky4husband]

Soooooooo many wives missing out on this. :( but I understand the caution. Much easier for a woman to come out to a man than the other way around. I hate it for you guys. I truly feel for guys like cockhummer, what a bummer of a wife. So much for better or worse...

[julyguybill]

I am also a closeted cocksucker. I began sucking men when i was 33. When i would suck one i wanted another right then too. I am now in my mid 60s. I desire a cock daily but its been a couple years . My wife has no idea of my activities. If she found out i would be divorced with very little left. If something happens with her i would suck guys every chance i could.

[Grumpygrandpa]

The part I really hated was sneaking around. The 2nd ex accused me of infidelity what she didn't know, I was sucking dicks at the local adult book store. Naturally I had to have a couple of beers to cover the cock taste. When I finally got home, she was usually watching some Hallmark movie about unrealized love. I often called it She Porn because the set ups were totally unrealistic. After all I picked her up in a bowling alley!

[bithunder]

Reading through the posts on this thread I can't help but notice how sensitive we cocksuckers are as a group:
1. Sensitive to the sight of an erect cock.
2. Sensitive to the smell and first taste upon insertion.
3. The only thing about this I am NOT sensitive to is being called a "cocksucker".
4. I'm closeted too.

[jjourneyman]

Like others have posted on this thread, I started having MM sex at an early age. Having willingly sucked my first cock and lost my butt cherry at the tender age of 14, I was cautious about whom I had sex with. Over the years, I have maintained a closeted bisexual lifestyle due to professional reasons.

Several years ago, however, I had a regular FWBs relationship with an older married man whom I'd met online. He would come over to my apartment once or twice a week for oral sex or "relief" as he called it. It seemed that his wife had cut him off in the sex department, which seems to be common among older married couples. Then one day, out of the blue, I got a call from his wife. It seemed she had been going through his emails and his phone and saw where he had sent me a few dick pics and some explicit emails. She was furious! She threatened to out me, and even said she was going to call my boss. After several minutes of listening to her rant, I calmly told her that if she had been taking care of business at home, he never would have strayed, and then I hung up. I immediately blocked her number and then called my friend to give him a head's up that his wife had called me. He thanked me and assured me that he would take care of the situation. Apparently he did because I never heard from either of them again.

I guess the moral of the story is... even though you may think you can be safe in the closet, it's not foolproof.

[Fzmr9t]

Also closeted. I?ve been having M2M sex (mostly BJs) for about 20 years. Sounds like a long time, but in actual experiences it?s more like 2 years. They are that few and far between

[Rest85]

I?m a closeted cocksucker. Many men say that I?m pretty straight acting. I?m athletically minded. I enjoy all sorts of outdoor activities. I?m also attracted to women. With men for me it?s honestly all about worshipping their cock and cum. I?m actually not very attracted to men. However, some feeders have said that there are certain things about me where they could tell that I was obviously a cocksucker. They said that my personality, and the way I hold myself, pegged me as a cocksucker. I?ve even had some feeders tell me that the food I love eating, and the type of clothes I prefer to wear pegged me as an obvious male cocksucker to them.

That's interesting. Did anyone ever elaborate of what they perceived as the signs that you are a cocksucker?

[jjourneyman]

That's interesting. Did anyone ever elaborate of what they perceived as the signs that you are a cocksucker?

Aside from the obvious like responding to a posting, I do think there are both subtle and not so subtle signs. I have hooked up with guys based on subtle glances, such as one might do in the gym, or while guiding a conversation while sharing drinks with another traveling businessman in a hotel bar. A lot depends on the circumstances and surroundings. The key is to be a good listener and be observant. I once met a really nice older couple on a cruise from Miami to the Bahamas. The first night I was seated at their table, along with two other couples and a much older woman. After introductions and dinner, he (Harold) and I went to the casino while the other couples and the lady went back to their cabins. The next day, his wife caught up with me while I was sunning beside the pool.

She ordered me a drink and sat down on a lounge chair beside me. After I thanked her, the first words out of her mouth were, "Are you gay?" I chuckled a bit then I assured her I wasn't, but I added that she was half right. She was almost comical in her approach. "So you sleep with both men and women?" she persisted.

I told her yes, thinking that maybe she was attempting to set up a threesome. "You don't have any diseases or anything do you?" I told her no, that I was very careful about whom I had sex with and that I regularly tested and practiced safe sex.

"That's good," she said. Then I asked her why she was so interested in my sex life? She said, "Oh, no reason except that I would like to give my husband a surprise for his birthday, but I don't do that kind of thing anymore. I've never liked it, but he does. He asks for it all of the time."

I said, "Okay, can you be more specific? Are we talking about oral sex? Anal sex?" Clearly, that question made her uncomfortable, but she said, "Well, both actually, but the oral part is really what he likes. But I don't want him getting it from just anyone."

I told her, "Well, every man deserves a blowjob on his birthday. I wouldn't mind taking care of that for you... I mean him. But you might want to give him a heads-up first. Some guys aren't into that sort of thing, and besides he will know it's all right with you."

"Oh my god, thank you for the offer!" I gave her my cabin number and told her to ring me if he was interested. Later that afternoon when I returned to my cabin, there was a message on my phone. "Yes, he would like that very much," she said. "Tonight, after dinner, I'll excuse myself. You boys have fun."

That evening we were seated at different tables, but we bumped into each other at the bar. I asked him straight up if he was up for IT and he assured he was. After a few hands of blackjack, we excused ourselves and went up to my cabin. He was very clean and well groomed. I lowered the lights and poured us both a drink. I could tell he was nervous, but I did my best to make him feel relaxed. "You know I've never done anything like this before, but man it's been so long." I said, "No, I get it. but hey it's your birthday. Just lean back, relax and I'll do the rest. It's cool. What happens on a cruise stays on a cruise."

I said lets start by getting rid of these slacks and shoes. In a flash he had his slip-ons and trousers off. "You know, when my wife told me you were bi, I never would have believed it." By that time I was reaching into his boxer briefs and pulled out his cock (which was an impressive 7 inches half hard). "Well, one never knows," I said. The I leaned in and took him into my mouth. I felt him shiver a bit as I began to suck him to full hardness. "You know my wife used to do this for me, but for some reason, she just stopped." I told him I wish I had a quarter every time I heard that, and we both laughed.

I told him to lay back on the bed and pretend I was anyone he could imagine. It only took a few minutes of sucking before I could feel his climax beginning to build A few moments later, he let loose his first stream, followed by three more. It was obvious that it had been a long time since he'd had a good bj.

After he'd finished, I cleaned him up with some warm washcloths, he quickly got dressed. Before returning to his cabin, he tried to slip me a $100 bill, which I politely refused.

The next morning, I ran into his wife on the mezzanine. She came over and gave me a big hug. "Thank you for last night," she said. "Harold loved it! He's like a new man today." I just said it was my pleasure.

That was our first and only encounter during the trip. But, I will say, all of my drinks were complimentary during the rest of our voyage.

[jimkimball]

I am ,a lot of people think I am and only a few know for sure.

[Justaguy325]

It seems we all have the same appreciation, admiration, and desire to please other men's cocks.

I am just curious how many are straight acting and fully closeted about it, with no other person knowing that you enjoy pleasuring a nice hard dick?

The one time I slipped up while cruising and came face to face with a guy who was acquainted with me through a customer/cashier connection, he kept saying, "I can't believe it. I never would have suspected you!"

Thankfully he was discrete. That was years ago and I've never seen him since, so I maintain my cover...my secret side.

I didn?t slip up, I stepped into a booth looking to suck cock and spotted a good acquaintance. My heart stopped beating I am sure. I immediately turned and hustled out of there although HE CALLED my name! In hindsight, I should have gone back in!

[BiKleinGuy]

100% in the closet? Sex life at home is stale. Sissy hypno porn got me back into craving cock. I hadn?t sucked clock since I was a teen trading porn and playing truth-or-dare with my neighbor. Now in a sex-less marriage, watching porn led to sissy hypno, and I ended up wearing my wife?s lingerie, shaving my body completely smooth, and finding guys that would host so I could suck their cocks and get cum sprayed all over my face. More recently I?ve enjoyed receiving head rather than giving it. First from a CD/Sissy that let me fuck her in the ass on business trips, then a guy at my gym that blew me in the steam room when I decided to lay in there naked. Somewhere along the line I felt like hooking up with another woman would be cheating on my wife, but that bi/cock play was just a little guy fun on the side. I?ll never tell anyone (I enjoy the taboo), and if you can keep a secret then let?s have some fun!

[TRICK6969]

I am 67 and married to a good women. But she does not want to have sex anymore. So i started to look at gay porn and now love to see hard cock ass ass fucking cock sucking. I dream of them all no one knows about me and i hope never will especially my wife. Lets just say some day i hope to have a cock in my mouth and in my ass. Untill then it will be porn jack porn jack.

[Take.it.Easy]

I definitely am, I love sucking cock and swallowing cum

[Orgasmus]

I guess I'd qualify. I've been married going on 29 years, and actively exploring my bi side for around 18 years. Have been with about 15 guys in that time. Have gone oral with a few on only a few of them, but when the mood was exactly right, I have thoroughly enjoyed enjoyed the experience of having a cock in my mouth.

[GentleFreak]

47 y/o, partnered for 7yrs. Been bi-curious most my adult life. I haven't engaged in sex with guys though. My girl knows I thought about testing the waters and is ok with it.

[Spininmywheels]

I definitely fit into this category.

[sissyjackie]

I been sucking cock since 1972. Only the ones I been with know I love sucking everyone else thinks I am straight. Been married for over 40 years not even my wife knows I love cock. The last 10 years I love to bottom. Over the years had many steadies I use to play with. I love sucking and don't care if they don't want to recip.

[Cautioud]

Straight guy but anytime I licked pussy for longer than an hour and multiple orgasms, if the girl was really into it and we continued longer then after when we were done, well that night, week or month all I do is view bj gifs and look for my right first cock. I wish I could share this desire with the girl and go back and forth all night my first time.

[licyou69]

I've been a cocksucker now for 2 years and no one knows except for the numerous men who's cum I've now swallowed. I'm completely straight acting, but have found great enjoyment in inviting men over to my place to use me for their sexual release.

[friesbaconnekkid]

I don't think it's so much being closeted in my area, it just isn't an area where flamboyant fags are in evidence.

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[nu2curious]

Same goes for my area, no one would ever think I'd suck cock by looking at me though !

[4_oral_fun]

I'm a masculine type, very discreet. Nobody knows and would be shocked. I haven't sucked a cock in about 10 yrs, difficult to find someone here unless you go to the abs. I prefer to find a regular buddy or a man/woman couple to play with. I do think more guys are doing it, especially as they get older.

[BigAlNYC]

Yeah me. Very masculine presenting and have been quite hetero for long periods, but I'm also very bottom with men.

[MNBiGuy]

There are certain pleasures I enjoy in life that just do not want the whole world to know about, enjoy a hot arse slamming, cock sucking few hours with another man is one of them
Yep this

[Racer86y]

I sucked for one guy only and no one knows or would realize it. I need to find another discreet guy to go down on weekly and discreetly. I will never be open about this
I got 3 under my belt.Only one shooter.Looking for a older man that needs to be serviced once a week.

[Racer86y]

I don't think it's so much being closeted in my area, it just isn't an area where flamboyant fags are in evidence.

62443 I could do that any day <3

[Racer86y]

Now for me thats a dream come true.I would have licked him clean though.Teasing for another round...lol

[Racer86y]

My exact thoughts and desires.I need one in Lake Texoma area :bigrin:

[macbi60]

It seems we all have the same appreciation, admiration, and desire to please other men's cocks.

I am just curious how many are straight acting and fully closeted about it, with no other person knowing that you enjoy pleasuring a nice hard dick?

I am totally closeted about my love of sucking cocks and I can't foresee that I ever will tell anyone, other than in forums or in conversations with those who I submissively orally pleasure.

I like it that way because, for me, I find it especially arousing and naughty to hide my intense desire to be a slut for another man.

I am straight acting. The one time I slipped up while cruising and came face to face with a guy who was acquainted with me through a customer/cashier connection, he kept saying, "I can't believe it. I never would have suspected you!"

Thankfully he was discrete. That was years ago and I've never seen him since, so I maintain my cover...my secret side.

Totally with you... Except my wife knows that I want to suck cock and she talks dirty to me in hand job sessions. And yes I love it. I think she would like to watch me suck a big cock to completion and have him cum in my mouth!

[macbi60]

Aside from the obvious like responding to a posting, I do think there are both subtle and not so subtle signs. I have hooked up with guys based on subtle glances, such as one might do in the gym, or while guiding a conversation while sharing drinks with another traveling businessman in a hotel bar. A lot depends on the circumstances and surroundings. The key is to be a good listener and be observant. I once met a really nice older couple on a cruise from Miami to the Bahamas. The first night I was seated at their table, along with two other couples and a much older woman. After introductions and dinner, he (Harold) and I went to the casino while the other couples and the lady went back to their cabins. The next day, his wife caught up with me while I was sunning beside the pool.

She ordered me a drink and sat down on a lounge chair beside me. After I thanked her, the first words out of her mouth were, "Are you gay?" I chuckled a bit then I assured her I wasn't, but I added that she was half right. She was almost comical in her approach. "So you sleep with both men and women?" she persisted.

I told her yes, thinking that maybe she was attempting to set up a threesome. "You don't have any diseases or anything do you?" I told her no, that I was very careful about whom I had sex with and that I regularly tested and practiced safe sex.

"That's good," she said. Then I asked her why she was so interested in my sex life? She said, "Oh, no reason except that I would like to give my husband a surprise for his birthday, but I don't do that kind of thing anymore. I've never liked it, but he does. He asks for it all of the time."

I said, "Okay, can you be more specific? Are we talking about oral sex? Anal sex?" Clearly, that question made her uncomfortable, but she said, "Well, both actually, but the oral part is really what he likes. But I don't want him getting it from just anyone."

I told her, "Well, every man deserves a blowjob on his birthday. I wouldn't mind taking care of that for you... I mean him. But you might want to give him a heads-up first. Some guys aren't into that sort of thing, and besides he will know it's all right with you."

"Oh my god, thank you for the offer!" I gave her my cabin number and told her to ring me if he was interested. Later that afternoon when I returned to my cabin, there was a message on my phone. "Yes, he would like that very much," she said. "Tonight, after dinner, I'll excuse myself. You boys have fun."

That evening we were seated at different tables, but we bumped into each other at the bar. I asked him straight up if he was up for IT and he assured he was. After a few hands of blackjack, we excused ourselves and went up to my cabin. He was very clean and well groomed. I lowered the lights and poured us both a drink. I could tell he was nervous, but I did my best to make him feel relaxed. "You know I've never done anything like this before, but man it's been so long." I said, "No, I get it. but hey it's your birthday. Just lean back, relax and I'll do the rest. It's cool. What happens on a cruise stays on a cruise."

I said lets start by getting rid of these slacks and shoes. In a flash he had his slip-ons and trousers off. "You know, when my wife told me you were bi, I never would have believed it." By that time I was reaching into his boxer briefs and pulled out his cock (which was an impressive 7 inches half hard). "Well, one never knows," I said. The I leaned in and took him into my mouth. I felt him shiver a bit as I began to suck him to full hardness. "You know my wife used to do this for me, but for some reason, she just stopped." I told him I wish I had a quarter every time I heard that, and we both laughed.

I told him to lay back on the bed and pretend I was anyone he could imagine. It only took a few minutes of sucking before I could feel his climax beginning to build A few moments later, he let loose his first stream, followed by three more. It was obvious that it had been a long time since he'd had a good bj.

After he'd finished, I cleaned him up with some warm washcloths, he quickly got dressed. Before returning to his cabin, he tried to slip me a $100 bill, which I politely refused.

The next morning, I ran into his wife on the mezzanine. She came over and gave me a big hug. "Thank you for last night," she said. "Harold loved it! He's like a new man today." I just said it was my pleasure.

That was our first and only encounter during the trip. But, I will say, all of my drinks were complimentary during the rest of our voyage.

Thanks JJourney you made me run a batch!

[BackyardShaman]

I?m discreet about my bisexual side.

[DLazguy]

I am married to a woman and very DL. The only people that know that I enjoy cock are the guys that I've met up with.

I am very straight, other than when I'm playing with a guy. I love women and pussy, but there's something about a good looking, hard cock. Just the thought of a cock in my mouth gets me hard. I love to think about my wife whenever I suck dick. I think of her for a few reasons. 1) If she knew, she'd kill me. 2) I know that I suck better than her. 3) I imagine her walking in on me and I don't stop.

I want to do what I can't do with my wife and that is suck dick and getting fucked. To me, it's just physical pleasure and I want to enjoy it all.