View Full Version : How many of you have a close by or local play partner for quick meets
tongueteaser
Sep 25, 2021, 8:25 AM
I have posted on other sites before trying to find one safe and clean partner I could meet in small time frames locally and suck him off. Like on the way home from work or go over before bed time and suck them off so they can sleep. I never was successful. I always get replies on the other side of town or beltway. Also like high tolls to get there and too long of time frame to travel 45 minutes or more to suck cock and drive home. I keep posting for a local guy but no luck. You all have any luck with a fast meet partner like a guy or a girl. Plus there are married people that say they are going for a walk or trip to the store and getting a fast BJ. I cant seem to find someone yet. Maybe you all know local sites that are free to search
Waylon
Sep 25, 2021, 10:18 AM
I used to have a cocksucker that lived nearby and when wifey would go out for an errand he would come over and suck my cock. He loved to be humiliated and begged for my cum to swallow. Unfoturnately his wife found pics of him sucking cocks and that was the end of his availability.
Rest85
Sep 25, 2021, 11:54 AM
I have posted on other sites before trying to find one safe and clean partner I could meet in small time frames locally and suck him off. Like on the way home from work or go over before bed time and suck them off so they can sleep. I never was successful. I always get replies on the other side of town or beltway. Also like high tolls to get there and too long of time frame to travel 45 minutes or more to suck cock and drive home. I keep posting for a local guy but no luck. You all have any luck with a fast meet partner like a guy or a girl. Plus there are married people that say they are going for a walk or trip to the store and getting a fast BJ. I cant seem to find someone yet. Maybe you all know local sites that are free to search
That would be a wonderful scenario!
Jazminedress
Sep 25, 2021, 12:26 PM
Kind of did, but, we were never sexually sympatico. I kind of want one thing, he wants another. We tried to compromise, but he would always resort back to what he wanted only
needalittle05
Sep 25, 2021, 1:37 PM
Hi, been trying to find one for a long time and haven't given up yet. would be real nice to be able to call and say "feel like sucking each other off?" hasn't come true yet.
michael95404
Sep 25, 2021, 10:22 PM
Kind of did, but, we were never sexually sympatico. I kind of want one thing, he wants another. We tried to compromise, but he would always resort back to what he wanted only
You tried just with that one guy?
Jazminedress
Sep 25, 2021, 10:23 PM
You tried just with that one guy?
No, he was just someone that was a , hey watcha doing, wanna mess around for an hour person
michael95404
Sep 25, 2021, 10:26 PM
No, he was just someone that was a , hey watcha doing, wanna mess around for an hour person
You're looking for something more regular? FWB, LTR?
happymouthandtongue
Sep 26, 2021, 7:29 AM
I’ve had a number of close by hookups over the years. When I was a boy, I’d blow the guy that lived next door. In my middle age, I had three guys within a block of me that enjoyed giving and receiving. When I got past 55, I moved to a retirement development and had several guys in walking distance.
SlowNEZ
Sep 26, 2021, 8:23 AM
When I got past 55, I moved to a retirement development and had several guys in walking distance.
Cool.
Curious about techniques. How does one inform guys that you are bi and interested and willing to provide them blow jobs?
A touch of the thigh or arm while talking? A noticeable glance at his groin? Come-hither eye contact? Chatting about porn interests?
Please share your tried and true approaches.
Jazminedress
Sep 26, 2021, 12:15 PM
You're looking for something more regular? FWB, LTR?
FWB's are always the best
Jazminedress
Sep 26, 2021, 12:35 PM
Cool.
Curious about techniques. How does one inform guys that you are bi and interested and willing to provide them blow jobs?
A touch of the thigh or arm while talking? A noticeable glance at his groin? Come-hither eye contact? Chatting about porn interests?
Please share your tried and true approaches.
Thats changed over the years, and how I am dressed makes a big difference. If I go to a club (Straight or whatever) dressed as a female, make up all done, I don't have to worry about it. I can usually tell the "Newer" bi guys as they try to talk to me, get very nervous. It's not me, it's the whole they know they are trying to have sex with a guy. When dressed as a guy at a primarily gay club, being smaller, I usually attract the more alpha males who approach me easier...............but this is a bi forum
most of my flirting is done "dressed" so yes, if out and I see someone who glances my way I would like to meet, I watch. They go to the bar to order something, it's an opening to go order something myself, and while doing so chat ( this works dressed both ways). I even have a line,"Damn, i want to dance, do you think they will play slow songs tonight". More than once a guy has gone and bribed the DJ, then comes up to me and says, I got you one. Most times they still wont ask me to dance, but I tell them, then you have to be my partner.
Hotel bars are easy, traveling guys will just come up to you..............usually they ask questions about the way you are dressed which is an opening. I find when dressed male, jokes about pron or messing around seem to work and break the ice to see which way someone swings. Dressed as female, it is a change to the arm touching, smiling, and best of all, not having to pay for a drink
Tight1-4u
Sep 26, 2021, 1:43 PM
I being sub bottom guy and serving mostly married men yes I always seem to have 1-2 guys around close to play with.. but sometimes time and the wife get in the way., I usually like to keep at least 1 single guy around to hump when my married guys are busy,, presently I have a guy that lives just across the street and one a couple doors down that I service very regularly.. they seem to kinda compete to see who is here the most.. so I have been quite busy keeping them happy!! Which makes me a happy boi..
Rest85
Sep 26, 2021, 3:26 PM
I’ve had a number of close by hookups over the years. When I was a boy, I’d blow the guy that lived next door. In my middle age, I had three guys within a block of me that enjoyed giving and receiving. When I got past 55, I moved to a retirement development and had several guys in walking distance.
Nice!
Rest85
Sep 26, 2021, 3:32 PM
Cool.
Curious about techniques. How does one inform guys that you are bi and interested and willing to provide them blow jobs?
A touch of the thigh or arm while talking? A noticeable glance at his groin? Come-hither eye contact? Chatting about porn interests?
Please share your tried and true approaches.
Good questions! I'll take all the tips I can get about this.
I live in a rather small town and I don't think any of the local hotels have bars. My understanding is that there can be some success chatting with guys who are visiting on business but I'm very cautious about 'crossing the line' with some guy I don't know. I'd love to be sitting at the bar chatting with some guy who starts complaining about how his wife no longer sucks his cock, then him looking me over and asking if I'd like to come up to his room, telling me he can be trusted to keep secrets. MMMM. So far it's just a fantasy. I need to check out what towns close by have hotels with bars.
Jozyxt
Sep 26, 2021, 4:19 PM
I have been looking for a FWB for a while. Ideally I would like to find a man that I could be personal friends with and could host for some mutual sucking once in a while.
Secondarily, I'd like to find a reliable hosting cocksucker. One that lives close by and does not have roommates to schedule around so I can drop by for a quick relaxing orgasm after going out to the gym.
I have two guys that love sweaty cock. One lives a 45 minute drive away, so I can only get there when I ride near his house on the weekends. If he lived closer, I'd be there every weekend.
The other would set a time, but then wouldn't be ready when I got there, then make me wait outside for way to long. Despite his great service dn beautiful body, I gave up on him because he kept pressuring me to fuck him.
Every guy I meet on DL or A4A seems to be a pretender. Or perhaps an A4A bot.
SlowNEZ
Sep 26, 2021, 4:26 PM
Serious question:
Is the following approach too direct with guys?
When you see someone attractive to you you say: ?Here?s my number, if you?re ever in need of a blow job, give me a call.?
Personally I think that?s what most bi guys would like to hear and say.
In other words, you?re attractive to me, so I am available for you. Call me.
Tight1-4u
Sep 26, 2021, 5:20 PM
[QUOTE=SlowNEZ;359088]Serious question:
Is the following approach too direct with guys?
When you see someone attractive to you you say: ?Here?s my number, if you?re ever in need of a blow job, give me a call.?
Personally I think that?s what most bi guys would like to hear and say.
In other words, you?re attractive to me, so I am available for you. Call me.[/QUOT
This is a very direct approach.. and yes I have used it a few times but only on guys that I was sure were open to m2m.. I find that in public like at a bar or restaurant that if a guy catches my eye that direct eye contact is my first move.. kinda stare at him.. if he stares back you have made first contact.. if l notice him glancing at me then I might make a gesture to join me.. or me him.. at that point being A little more direct is on the table.. compliment him tell him he interested you.. most guys will tell you if they are interested..
michael95404
Sep 26, 2021, 9:50 PM
FWB's are always the best
Well, I'm not that far from you. ;-)
Jazminedress
Sep 26, 2021, 9:51 PM
Well, I'm not that far from you. ;-)
only a full days drive
Into_it_all
Sep 27, 2021, 6:44 AM
I have a close by suck & fuck buddy. Who lives about 20 minutes away from me. When he’s free we get together and have an Awesome time together. We make out passionately, stroke each other, suck, love licking his balls & making my son feel good. I’m his daddy and he loves my cock. Sometimes I bend him over and fuck I am really good
Rvdude05
Sep 27, 2021, 12:05 PM
Yes, indeed! I live in a collage town, and rent a room to a male student. We had a long talk, and he mentioned that the was bisexual. We have an agreement, we play two or three times a week, and he gets the room free. We frequently have cum shared breakfasts....
loves oral
Sep 27, 2021, 2:33 PM
I think the majority of guys on here would be thrilled to find someone close by with the same interests.
michael95404
Sep 27, 2021, 8:31 PM
only a full days drive
Ah. I turned around the two words in the name! The other is only about an hour or so away. Too bad! Would you consider moving? ;-) (Damn, you're cute.)
Jazminedress
Sep 27, 2021, 8:52 PM
Ah. I turned around the two words in the name! The other is only about an hour or so away. Too bad! Would you consider moving? ;-) (Damn, you're cute.)
only out of California......lol, getting way too expensive to live here
Calismooth
Sep 27, 2021, 9:46 PM
Not at the moment but looking!
michael95404
Sep 27, 2021, 10:51 PM
only out of California......lol, getting way too expensive to live here
It's been too expensive here for a long time. Come to think of it, most places one might live where they can walk out the door and find a dick to suck are probably too expensive. :( Damn. I wish I was living in San Francisco right now!