View Full Version : Married/ straight- did anyone find mm sex to be better than they expected
Tag200
Jul 12, 2020, 6:17 PM
So my experience with men is super limited... wondering if the sexual chemistry and satisfaction I had with an x girlfriend could be found with a male partner.. understanding it would just be sex and friendship as I am already married (women) and it’s sexless.. see my x girlfriend satisfied me so well but the heart ache and pain and drama is too much to go that route again . Anyone find a guy and find the sexual satisfaction Or feel it’s impalpable as other than a cock I have zero attraction to men ..
delpark
Jul 12, 2020, 9:55 PM
I have found sex with men better than I expected. Introduced to sucking cock at 13, I enjoyed doing it. Chasing pussy shortly thereafter. Pussy was never as gratifying to me as sucking cock. One day I was on my knees giving a blow job and knew that is my role in sex.
Tag200
Jul 12, 2020, 11:42 PM
Thanks for the response... Sounds like at least for you sucking cock has satisfied you sexually which is great...
Bisexual765
Jul 13, 2020, 3:35 AM
Ah the stereotyping of females again. I have a lot of female friends who are sex crazed, and I'm surprised so many men haven't met anyone like them... but I guess it's not what the topic was about sooo
Footstep40
Jul 13, 2020, 8:31 AM
Very much so. I was 19, and had sex with a handful of ladies before I’d been with a guy, it was definitely an awakening to me to the point that I prefer having sex with men. Especially the kind where you spend all day naked in bed having fun and fall asleep exhausted and a little raw.
Tag200
Jul 13, 2020, 10:30 AM
Thanks for your response. It is not about Stearotyping women at all I am not sure whey you feel that way. I am simply asking does any feel or has anyone found that sex with men (when you are a man) when your only attracted to cock not anything else Can it be as great as when you have sex with women; in my case as good as my x girlfriend.
new day
Jul 13, 2020, 11:07 AM
I have very limited experience, but have these take aways. Sex with a man was much more natural than I imagined before doing it. In many ways it was no different than sex with a woman. The goal is to please and be pleased with your partner. Cock sucking was even better than I had thought, but I also liked the feel and difference of being skin to skin with a man. It was fun to enjoy the differences as well as the similarities. Taking nothing away from what a woman has to offer, there are great experiences you can have only with a man. I believe that with the right man, you can have similar chemistry to what you had with the ex gf, but it won't be exactly the same experience.
Gary2701
Jul 13, 2020, 11:10 AM
I used to work away a lot and maybe was pretty alone on the road. Endless hotels and hotel bars. I used to meet up with the same regular people male and female. Sometimes it could be two three weeks without sex with my wife. It would have been easy to pick up a women while away but steered clear although lots of subtle offers. It did not want to cheat on the Mrs as the guilt was I guess to much. Anyway used to meet up with a guy who travelled a lot in the same hotels. We became bar mates and dinner mates at the hotels. Alot of chat about work and family and home life. He told me it was frustrating while away for long periods and was fed up with the porn films the hotels provided to get the relief and able to sleep. Of course I understood this to well!! On this occasion we chilled out with a few shorts at a table in the bar chatting about sexual movies and women. The chat would give any a guy who was not getting any a boner and I was certainly puffing up in my work suit pants and suit pants tend to show a good boner and unable to hide. He was the first to say he had a boner and I laughed and said me as well. The guy peaked over the table and laughed and said I can see. I was abit embarrassed but he leaned back in his chair and pushed down on is crotch and it was my turn to laugh!!! He also said he could do with a movie and asked If I would join him. I was abit shocked but excited and buzzed from the alcohol. He said let's take some drinks to his room and watch some movies together. I agreed and we went up. Back in his room we both slipped off our jackets and ties and sat on the bed , put on the movie and started laughing nervously at what we were watching on TV. I could see from the corner of my eye the guy was rubbing his crotch and pushing down on it with his hand. I started to do the same and he looked at me. Think this gave him the signal to unzip himself and I could see his hard on silhouetting his white cotton boxers. I new I had started to leak in my boxers but I had never felt like this so excited and horny. I unzipped as well and played with my by now hard cock in my boxers. He leaned back against the headboard to get more comfortable. I waited then did the same . We both were staring at each other and we both kind of new what we wanted next. He looked down at my crotch and smiled and opened his eyes wide and nodded at by crotch. I just said go for it. His hand came across as I removed mine and he touched me. It was a like a bloody shock going through me. I did the same to him and he let out a moan. We ended stripping off and wanking each other off. To cut a long story short we met every time we could and even arranged our work to be in the same place at the same time. We progressed to sucking, kissing and staying in each others room over night so we would wake up at 6am and have fun before work.. I always found int exciting and fulfilling without the emotional ties and consider myself bi and love it.
JimmyPlays
Jul 13, 2020, 11:21 AM
That is a great question and there are at least 100 million different answers. Myself, I found m2m sex to be vast and much more involved than I expected. It took me a good number men and more than few months to get my head around the possibilities of what two men can accomplish when they have sex together. In short, I feel there is no less pleasure and no less satisfaction with m2m sex verses m2w sex. For me they each have a world of wonderful things to learn and experience. I'm married to a woman, for 40+ years now and yet men are becoming more valuable in regards to their hidden secrets. My only regret is to have waited so long to get into men. My fault and our society get some blame too. Bit I ani't dead yet. Jim
Tag200
Jul 13, 2020, 11:21 AM
thanks for the response , good info to consider .. in my limited experience with men I know I was excited and stimulated for sure lol but still did not have that feeling or chemistry like my x girlfriend yet.. I hope I can
I have very limited experience, but have these take aways. Sex with a man was much more natural than I imagined before doing it. In many ways it was no different than sex with a woman. The goal is to please and be pleased with your partner. Cock sucking was even better than I had thought, but I also liked the feel and difference of being skin to skin with a man. It was fun to enjoy the differences as well as the similarities. Taking nothing away from what a woman has to offer, there are great experiences you can have only with a man. I believe that with the right man, you can have similar chemistry to what you had with the ex gf, but it won't be exactly the same experience.
Tag200
Jul 13, 2020, 11:23 AM
thanks for the response . Does your wife know? Mine does not. Do you still have sex with your wife? I do not ... I too have started too later and started and stopped too often and wish I didn’t but here I am in hibernation now waiting for the time when I can try again
That is a great question and there are at least 100 million different answers. Myself, I found m2m sex to be vast and much more involved than I expected. It took me a good number men and more than few months to get my head around the possibilities of what two men can accomplish when they have sex together. In short, I feel there is no less pleasure and no less satisfaction with m2m sex verses m2w sex. For me they each have a world of wonderful things to learn and experience. I'm married to a woman, for 40+ years now and yet men are becoming more valuable in regards to their hidden secrets. My only regret is to have waited so long to get into men. My fault and our society get some blame too. Bit I ani't dead yet. Jim
Tag200
Jul 13, 2020, 11:25 AM
Thanks for reply. That’s what I want sexual satisfaction without emotional ties
KDaddy23
Jul 13, 2020, 2:02 PM
Every time I've given a guy his first experience, they've said things like, "That wasn't as bad as I thought it would be!" or "I don't know why I didn't do this before now!" Societal norms wants to hide this form of pleasure from everyone by pounding it into our heads that, say, guys blowing guys is such a bad, terrible, and very nasty thing to do so when a guy gives in to the urge to check this out, they tend to find out the truth: It really isn't as bad as you thought it would be or, really, as bad as you were told it would be. A lot of this has to do with what one thinks sex is and what it's supposed to be like; so many of us are of a mind that sex without an emotional connection is, well, pretty fucked up and many don't know why they think this way - and they do because this is pretty much how women are about sex. While some will give up the pussy without needing that emotional connection, it's pretty much their MO... and one that has been put on men as well. I'm not ever going to say that a man isn't going to want and need that connection with another guy but the truth is it's not needed - and men have always had the bad rep of being able to have sex without any emotional connection involved.
Social norms say that this isn't the way it's supposed to be done but, yeah, that's not the real truth of things and a lot of guys find that when they have sex with a guy, it can be just as satisfying as having sex with a woman can be - just with the added thrill of knowing that you shouldn't be having sex with another guy. Many learn that it really is "just sex" and having that first experience with another man can sometimes change a guy's view of what sex is and how it can be done - with or without the emotional connection and just because having sex is still so very satisfying. Then there's the relative "ease" of having sex with guys; you usually don't have to go through all the hassles you do with women but I have a sense that this is starting to change. Just get the dicks out, get them hard, make them soft again. No promises. No commitments. Not getting into anything more involved when you might not - or cannot - be so deeply involved. Look at it like this:
When we jerk off, we usually don't need a reason for it other than having the need to do it and while it connects you with yourself, yeah, it's really all about satisfying yourself in that moment. And truthfully, the only reason you need is that you can get yourself off. Extend this to sex with guys and it just works: You need to have sex and there's this guy with a hard dick who's willing to accommodate you and in whatever way you want to be accommodated. Maybe it's a one-time thing; maybe it becomes more than that - but the real point is that you understand that sex with men is really "better" than believed and realizing this takes a lot of weight and pressure off a guy's mind to know that if he wants his dick sucked (and wants to suck some dick) they can get with another guy and not have to worry about becoming boyfriends if they don't want to. Sex is... better without the pressure of being emotionally attached or otherwise committed to the other person because at the end of the day, most of us just want to bust a nut without a whole lot of hassles like begging and pleading and the like - and if this makes sex with men better than expected, it just is what it is.
Tag200
Jul 13, 2020, 4:26 PM
Thanks for the detailed reply and good insight. Thanks I think it helps a lot ...
cuttin2dachase
Jul 13, 2020, 9:17 PM
I didn't expect anything the 1st time a man sucked me and I returned the favor. It was my wife and his wife encouraging us. But more than that, I didn't expect that I'd enjoy it. But man, I did! Wifey and I were swingers and had done almost everything we could do together and in 4 somes. Up until then I'd had physical contact with our male 3some and couples male half. But the 2 things I'd never done or imagined doing was to feel a man's lips and mouth on my dick and then to return the favor and lick and suck his dick. It was an epiphany for me. That's when I realized I was missing out on half the sexual pleasure afforded me in life !
jem_is_bi
Jul 13, 2020, 11:03 PM
Ah the stereotyping of females again. I have a lot of female friends who are sex crazed, and I'm surprised so many men haven't met anyone like them... but I guess it's not what the topic was about sooo
I was young and dating women in the 1960, 1970,1980's.
Totally, missed finding those women.
The ones I meet were more oriented toward a long-term relationship.
I was not enthusiastic about that at that time in my life.
There are a lot of men that feel the same way.
Check out the personals on this site, you will find a lot of desire for a friend with benefits adds.
The actual act of having sex with either sex can be extremely enjoyable.
But, for a lot of women and men an emotional attachment is required before they can enjoy sex.
My experiences lead me to the conclusion that more men than women can enjoy sex without an emotional attachment, that includes sex with other men.
Tag200
Jul 13, 2020, 11:29 PM
good observation of you can get sexual pleasure groom both sexes it opens up a lot more opportunity for fun and satisfaction
I didn't expect anything the 1st time a man sucked me and I returned the favor. It was my wife and his wife encouraging us. But more than that, I didn't expect that I'd enjoy it. But man, I did! Wifey and I were swingers and had done almost everything we could do together and in 4 somes. Up until then I'd had physical contact with our male 3some and couples male half. But the 2 things I'd never done or imagined doing was to feel a man's lips and mouth on my dick and then to return the favor and lick and suck his dick. It was an epiphany for me. That's when I realized I was missing out on half the sexual pleasure afforded me in life !
Tag200
Jul 13, 2020, 11:31 PM
well I know I enjoy both even though men has been real limited ... but I never came so easily or as hard than when I was sucking cock
I was young and dating women in the 1960, 1970,1980's.
Totally, missed finding those women.
The ones I meet were more oriented toward a long-term relationship.
I was not enthusiastic about that at that time in my life.
There are a lot of men that feel the same way.
Check out the personals on this site, you will find a lot of desire for a friend with benefits adds.
The actual act of having sex with either sex can be extremely enjoyable.
But, for a lot of women and men an emotional attachment is required before they can enjoy sex.
My experiences lead me to the conclusion that more men than women can enjoy sex without an emotional attachment, that includes sex with other men.
CharlieCam
Jul 14, 2020, 12:17 AM
My first experiences having sex with men were not the best, I guess it was because I felt insecure and confused, but then I decided to try live webcams and experiment with men on the web until I had the confidence to try again to suck dicks and well, now I really like it.
Tag200
Jul 14, 2020, 12:35 AM
Thanks for sharing your experience ... so you also have sex with women still? What did you try , figured out and learn by cam that helped you ?
Basin_Bouy
Jul 14, 2020, 9:11 AM
I find M2M sex better by far!
sisboy
Jul 14, 2020, 5:38 PM
The old saying that there is nothing like a good man is really true.His cock does not have to be huge but a nice size and if he can control it and does not cum as soon as he gets in you it can be fantastic! I have had a good bunch of cocks and some bad ones who were super alpha males that just want to "fuck you to death" just about.But that guy who can use his cock right is an OMG experience.You will go back for seconds and thirds I promise!
Tag200
Jul 15, 2020, 1:26 PM
Do you still have sex with women sisboy?
BiSNJGuy
Aug 7, 2020, 1:32 PM
Myself. It took a long time to make the move and be with another guy. When I was 17 or so I started going to a local adult book store. I would spend each trip in a video booth. Alone and jerking off. Back then all booths had holes to the ones on either side. Long story and multiple times of cocks and fingers showing through the holes, I reached down to touch one. The guy mentioned he would come to my booth. He did he was older and just took my cock and sucked it. I came so quick. After that night it was like the ice was broke. It wasn’t long before I started enjoying the cocks that were offered. Once I had my first experience with a guy at his house it was now just normal for me to seek men. I married and had great sex with her. But I knew that being with men was really good. Now I’m 61 years old. Fit and healthy. At this stage in life I find myself constantly thinking wanting a man. I like it and seek it as often as possible. While sex with a woman still happens at times. It is more often with men And I am very happy with it.
Bi-Rõnin
Aug 7, 2020, 4:24 PM
Having been in the same boat as you. I've had amazing sex with women. The kind you wanna brag in a locker room to your buddies. However, when it comes to men. As a bottom, nothing compared to a couple of the men I've slept with. Not only was it amazing sex, but it left me in that orgasmic blissful euphoric high for what seemed like hours afterwards. None of them actually made me cum, or so I thought. It was prostate orgasms, and they kept going after we were done. At the time, I didnt know that was even a thing. But over a half hour after the fact I'd still just randomly start shaking and feel waves of pleasure radiate from my core all the way to my toes and finger tips.
Rvdude05
Aug 10, 2020, 1:56 AM
I travelled during my career, and frequently ran into others that had I met before. Simular to your story, we got th the stroking part quickly, and after a session, it would turn to sucking. Made my trips more enjoyable....
NjbiGuy01
Aug 10, 2020, 11:47 AM
Honestly, I started out with friends in my mid-teens, simply exploring. Just a bunch of horny guys watching porn, jerking-off, and then, eventually more. We sucked one another and me and one of my friends spent a summer sucking, fucking but not kissing, cuz that would be gay....Meanwhile he's sticking his moms dildo's up my ass and sucking and fucking in the shower and all over his house...lol
I discovered sucking and getting sucked, and eventually anal. It wasn't until I was older, when I had serious encounters as an adult, with experienced adults, and in groups, that I fully came to realize how good MM sex could be. I truly loved MFM along the way for most in my life, but I had some scenes with a couple of guys in a MMM threesome that were pretty damn amazing. One couple I played with wanted another guy, so it was MMMF...and she wanted to sit back and watch the guys while she got off with her hand and toys, eventually joining us.
With the RIGHT partners, any kind of sex can be amazing, but sex with males (for me at-least) was just another menu item on the sex menu UNTIL I had experiences that made me realize how hot and powerful this kind of sex can be ! It's been awhile, and now I have half a had-on at my desk...I may need to send some e-mails out ....lol.
RisingBi
Sep 23, 2020, 10:30 PM
Having been in the same boat as you. I've had amazing sex with women. The kind you wanna brag in a locker room to your buddies. However, when it comes to men. As a bottom, nothing compared to a couple of the men I've slept with. Not only was it amazing sex, but it left me in that orgasmic blissful euphoric high for what seemed like hours afterwards. None of them actually made me cum, or so I thought. It was prostate orgasms, and they kept going after we were done. At the time, I didnt know that was even a thing. But over a half hour after the fact I'd still just randomly start shaking and feel waves of pleasure radiate from my core all the way to my toes and finger tips.
OMG, that is amazing, it's so erotic! I would LOVE for that to happen to me. I have finally fucked my first man, as a top, and loved it so much. But I'm still a bottom virgin (except for the pegging my now ex-girlfriend did to me a bunch of times), but I fantasize about another man fucking my ass all the time and want it so badly. I've given myself many prostate orgasms with a dildo, pretending it's a real man's cock that is making love to me, and some of those prostate orgasms were even hands-free, and out of this world. For that to happen with a real man, that would be 1000 times better. But your experience, OMG, what a dream come true. Thank you for sharing, and in such an erotic way! ❤️
RisingBi
Sep 23, 2020, 10:52 PM
To tell you the truth, Tag, for the most part I have found sex with guys not as good as I expected or fantasized. But there might be many reasons for this, not least of which because it was anonymous oral sex in different gay sex venues for the longest time. So it was missing that personal connection that I might need. But there were some exceptions that rocked my universe. That was especially the case with the first man that I fucked, 20 years after the first cock (and 100+ cocks after that) that I sucked. I think it was because it was my first anal experience, with both rimming and fucking, and therefore, for me anyway, true intimacy with another man for the first time. It really awoke the more deeply hidden gay part of me like never before, and for the first time I was finally able to accept that gay part of me, and in fact love it. That rocked my universe, and changed everything for me.
KDaddy23
Sep 24, 2020, 4:18 PM
"To tell you the truth, Tag, for the most part I have found sex with guys not as good as I expected or fantasized."
Yep... that happens, too, and the reason, I've found, is that usually other guys just don't live up to our expectations or we're not having the sex in the way we really need to, like and as many say, because there's no personal connection other than sex. For most guys, that very first time is all that and a bag of chips: I mean, who really knew that having sex with a guy could be that much fun and so good? Then again, that first time doesn't make a guy feel that way... but if there's a next time, yeah - best thing since sliced bread and all that. And then it just loses its luster and appeal because all along the line, we change but our "perception" of how the sex is supposed to be for us doesn't really change so much. We set in our minds that this is the way it's supposed to be but actual experiences doesn't always register against what we've set in our mind. We know it... but it's "weird" because sometimes, if it's broke, we don't bother with fixing it or, worse, I think, we fix it in a way that will only result in it not being all that down the road... and the really fucked up part is that if it's not all that, it's not really your fault if some other guy isn't of a mind to give you what you want and exactly how you want it and that, fellas, creates a pretty big disconnect and, I also think, because we want what we want and in the exact way we want it, it makes us unhappy to have it in any other way, say, to get with a guy you don't have any "feelings" for or who doesn't have any for you. In this, of course it's not gonna be all that you hoped it would be.
It really does ebb and flow and unpredictably because our thoughts and feelings do the exact same thing. It's da shit right this very moment... and five minutes from now, it ain't all that and now it's about why you think it isn't. And there is a lesson to be learned in this...
tommyswing
Sep 25, 2020, 1:06 PM
The first time I sucked a cock, I did it out of curiosity and thought it would be disgusting. I didn't feel attracted to the guy I was with. We were jerking each other off which bored us, so we decided to go down on each other. I was convinced I wouldn't like it, to my surprise I loved it. I was stunned at how pleasurable it was. I loved how hard and soft it felt at the same time, and how smooth and how it velvety it felt in my mouth. I knew then I was a cock sucker. I didn't lose my attraction to women which was confusing at the time.
Bi-Rõnin
Sep 26, 2020, 12:36 PM
I've had a few hook-ups. Usually just getting nailed. One of the first guys years ago rimmed me and took me from behind. Once he got his second wind he flipped me over, pinned my knees to my chest and really gave it to me. That had set the bar for me. Until a couple of weeks ago.
This time, I was on the receiving end of everything I wondered about. We met up at the hotel I was staying at (was working out of state) when he started to undress me and told me all the things you see in romantic porn. I wasnt sure what to do so I took his cock in my hand and slowly started stroking him. He felt like a steel telephone pole. I had never held another cock in my hand. All i could think of was how am I going to be able to get this inside of me when he came in and kisses me. That was another 1st.it wasnt anything like id heard before, his beard didnt feel weird, just felt natural. Guiding me to the bed he got me on my back, kissing the entire time. He went for my neck and really drove me wild as his fingers danced over my hole. I wasn't surprised when he worked his way down except when he went straight for my ass. Now for me, being rimmed from behind is way different than looking down between your legs and seeing someone burying their tongue inside of you. When he crawled up to get in position to enter me, he started kissing me again. Once he started burying his cock in me his tongue was deeply exploring my mouth. All I wanted at that moment was to wrap my legs around him and stay that way forever. It was amazing and I came hard. He actually stopped after I came and asked if he should continue, hell yeah continue. Mentally this was weird, he scooped up my cum and lubed his cock and started fucking me furiously. From that point on it just became more intense and thats where it becomes the better than ever expected. Being handled forcibly, not with aggression. But being pulled across the bed and grabbed hard as he rammed in me, being pu int different positions he put me where and how he wanted me. He took total control. All i could do was moan in acceptance. It was better than i ever imagined and more than i ever hoped for. Unfortunately, he set the bar pretty high now, gonna be hard to find someone who is willing to go all out again.
smoothy7
Sep 28, 2020, 10:25 AM
I was using female escorts to get massages, and found they were so disappointing and dishonest: #1 the pic in their ad wasn't them #2 Their ad had big promises of all the great things they would do for you, but none happened #3 They were terrible at massage, partly because I sensed they didn't actually like men's bodies ! Then on a hunch, I tried m2m massage...BINGO !....#1 They were honest-the pic in their ad was them #2 Everything they promised to do, they did, and very well ! #3 -Because they were a man, they liked men, and liked men's bodies, and treated me very kindly, nothing like female escorts......lesson learned
Jazminedress
Sep 28, 2020, 11:54 AM
I was using female escorts to get massages, and found they were so disappointing and dishonest: #1 the pic in their ad wasn't them #2 Their ad had big promises of all the great things they would do for you, but none happened #3 They were terrible at massage, partly because I sensed they didn't actually like men's bodies ! Then on a hunch, I tried m2m massage...BINGO !....#1 They were honest-the pic in their ad was them #2 Everything they promised to do, they did, and very well ! #3 -Because they were a man, they liked men, and liked men's bodies, and treated me very kindly, nothing like female escorts......lesson learned
I always wondered about that, their picture looks 25, do they show up looking 85
JamieDanie
Sep 29, 2020, 2:45 PM
My first M2M experience was in a gay spa. I went several times before I had sex. I would just watch or watch and masturbate. One night a guy started fondling me in the sauna. Blew my load immediately. Next time I started fondling a guy in the steam room. Finally dropped to my knees and started sucking. Had no idea what I was doing. He came in my mouth. I was hooked. Lots of oral before I finally had a guy fuck me. Threesomes (MMM) were next. I like to be in a guys ass and sucking the other one. Real turn on is to watch others (MM and MF and FF) and maturbate.
Joboo
Sep 29, 2020, 6:21 PM
The taboo of stroking and sucking another mans cock arouses me very much. Problem is I’ve only had a couple and I seem to have a very particular type I can enjoy this with.
middleagedinnj
Sep 30, 2020, 9:26 AM
It's a whole different experience, especially when I find a guy who loves to cuddle and kiss as much as I do before we get to my favorite part - sucking his cock to completion. I love the taste and feel and get very turned on when I feel a cock throb in my hands and mouth as it feeds me my delicious reward.
a_bx99
Sep 30, 2020, 11:41 AM
When I had mm sex I had never had mf sex so couldnt compare it to that at least.
That said, it was better than I expected in part because before I tried it I had no intention of trying it or even properly thought about it so it was a pleasant surprise in the end.
RisingBi
Oct 22, 2020, 9:55 AM
"To tell you the truth, Tag, for the most part I have found sex with guys not as good as I expected or fantasized."
Yep... that happens, too, and the reason, I've found, is that usually other guys just don't live up to our expectations or we're not having the sex in the way we really need to, like and as many say, because there's no personal connection other than sex. For most guys, that very first time is all that and a bag of chips: I mean, who really knew that having sex with a guy could be that much fun and so good? Then again, that first time doesn't make a guy feel that way... but if there's a next time, yeah - best thing since sliced bread and all that. And then it just loses its luster and appeal because all along the line, we change but our "perception" of how the sex is supposed to be for us doesn't really change so much. We set in our minds that this is the way it's supposed to be but actual experiences doesn't always register against what we've set in our mind. We know it... but it's "weird" because sometimes, if it's broke, we don't bother with fixing it or, worse, I think, we fix it in a way that will only result in it not being all that down the road... and the really fucked up part is that if it's not all that, it's not really your fault if some other guy isn't of a mind to give you what you want and exactly how you want it and that, fellas, creates a pretty big disconnect and, I also think, because we want what we want and in the exact way we want it, it makes us unhappy to have it in any other way, say, to get with a guy you don't have any "feelings" for or who doesn't have any for you. In this, of course it's not gonna be all that you hoped it would be.
It really does ebb and flow and unpredictably because our thoughts and feelings do the exact same thing. It's da shit right this very moment... and five minutes from now, it ain't all that and now it's about why you think it isn't. And there is a lesson to be learned in this...
I just read this again, I just have to say that you have such true understanding and wisdom, K Daddy. I love you, bro!
Happy Cucky
Oct 22, 2020, 10:58 PM
Interesting question. Personally, I have had many excellent sexual experiences with women and a very few with men. However, two experiences with men have been exceptionally satisfying. One was very handsome, very feminine, very nice and very loving. I really got off on his feminine energy and felt very comfortable with him. The fact that he was also hung extremely well gave him a great appeal. I totally loved our time together and I really loved sucking his big cock. The other was one of my best friends who became very taken by my wife and she with him and they became a couple sexually, therefor making me their cuck. That has worked out tremendously well. My wife and my friend are great together. The energy between them is incredible and I love watching them together and being their cucky. Of course, I get to play with him too and that works out fantastically well.
So, the answer is up to you finding your way. There are a lot of people out there having non-conventional lives and having a lot of fun. Good luck!
babyrmd
Oct 23, 2020, 7:31 AM
Even though I starting masturbating a friend at 11 and the sucked him for the first time at 13yo, I only sucked cocks until I was 32 when one of the men that I was seeing and sucking their cocks, talked me into giving my ass up to him. That was 34 yrs ago and can't tell you how many men and women have used my ass for their pleasure and how many loads I have taken in me. From one on one, to small groups to large groups, I have known what I am supposed to do and I do it. So, if anyone is in my area of Maryland, check my profile and pics and let's do it ;)
missn3njerry
Oct 25, 2020, 11:46 AM
i love it when a guy is powerful and strong with me, with him fully in control of the situation and i simply surrender sexually to his strength, power and urges. If he kisses me, fondles me and whispers to me as he's getting pleased, that is even better.
It's not like that with a lot of guys, but when it is, it's magic - for me, way more exciting than with a woman.
BrokenQuill
Oct 27, 2020, 1:06 PM
I have had little experience with this as yet, but from what I have had I do enjoy it. The energy and thrill of sex with a man is so different, but intense. I hope to have many more experiences like this.
LVTOGP
Oct 27, 2020, 1:41 PM
My first mm after just curiosity for so long was fairly uneventful not much of a feeling, years forward I became incredibly attracted to a guy I worked close with and ended up hooking up and it was incredible, thick cock knew where to push and the first to cum in my ass, nearly came again when I felt the drip oit
of me
Jozyxt
Oct 27, 2020, 4:36 PM
The BJs I have had form men are mostly better than I expected. It is so much easier than courting a woman. Just agree on a time and place, both of you know what they are there for so there is little to do but strip down and cum. And guys want to suck your cock and are grateful for the opportunity. Some are very willing to please in any way.
I still haven't found the right situation to suck a dick myself, but I bet that will be much better than I ever thought it would be.
Basin_Bouy
Oct 29, 2020, 10:13 AM
Not only better, I prefer M2M sex
Xantinan
Jan 6, 2021, 6:55 AM
To be honest, I've never been satisfied with women. Men gave me just great pleasure and orgasm. For the last few years, I've been living with a guy I've liked for a very long time. I was surprised when he FIRST came up and confessed his feelings. In order to hide our relationship, I married his sister, so my parents and his parents don't know anything about our relationship. Only a small circle of our friends know about our relationship. If you think that I have never had a normal girl who could not bring me to orgasm, then you are mistaken. Once I specifically turned to the London escort (https://aurumgirls.co.uk/gallery/) agency, which is one of the best agencies in order to check my orientation. I had an erection and even came at the end, but I didn't get any satisfaction from it (by the way, I forgot to mention that I'm top).
Robin Black
Jan 6, 2021, 10:10 AM
I would say that it is definitely better. In fact, I found that nothing ever quite topped my earliest sexual experiences when a friend my age penetrated me when we were pre-teen boys. Besides the thrill of just being naked with someone else, and the wonderful physical stimulation of having his penis in my anus, it was unexpectedly thrilling to hear the noises he made and feel him shaking when he climaxed.
proteindump
Jan 6, 2021, 11:01 AM
I just like sex. At my age it is very difficult to find a woman interested in having sex, but happily it does happen every once in a while. Unfortunately I have never been able to give myself relief, I can pump for hours til I actually bleed and am in great pain, so I don't even try. To keep my sexual drive under control and get some sleep I turned to men and found sucking guys off was a real turn on for me and I get relief for me as I do enjoy a good load of cum which I always swallow. I also have found that this is an avenue to meeting women as well, apparently he tells her about a terrific blow job he got and it goes from there, I don't ask, I just enjoy eating her out as well. Our local ABS has a couples and guest room and I will meet up with one couple about once a month for a lot of fun. It has huge windows and guys watch us which is also a turn on for me.
Bi_Dave
Jan 6, 2021, 11:18 AM
Married twice. Neither woman enoyed sucking cock. Had to coerce them. M to M is a natural two way interaction. Women suck at sucking. I would eat their pussy for hours if they let me. I still love to eat a nice pussy.
Robin Black
Jan 6, 2021, 11:42 AM
You have quite a beautiful bottom and penis! I can tell that a great deal of pleasure could be gotten from either one!
redngoldpride
Jan 6, 2021, 1:44 PM
I truely believe that its up to you and whom it is that you are with(m/f or couple) if you are completely comfortable and totally uninhibited and honest about your needs , wants , desires , cravings , yearnings you can find satisfaction for all involved which is not only fun and exciting but so hot I have found this with couples , females , males and in groups both large and small .......... Have fun everyone
curiousmwm99
Jan 7, 2021, 4:38 PM
Haven’t had my first encounter with a guy but really looking forward to it.
stonebow
Jan 7, 2021, 8:28 PM
I just read this again, I just have to say that you have such true understanding and wisdom, K Daddy. I love you, bro!
Yup...KDaddy's response was most insightful....he said it all.
stonebow
Jan 7, 2021, 8:36 PM
[QUOTE=Robin Black;349243]I would say that it is definitely better. In fact, I found that nothing ever quite topped my earliest sexual experiences when a friend my age penetrated me when we were pre-teen boys. Besides the thrill of just being naked with someone else, and the wonderful physical stimulation of having his penis in my anus, it was unexpectedly thrilling to hear the noises he made and feel him shaking when he climaxed.[/QUOTE
You were thrilled by the discovery that you had given HIM so much pleasure? That's a pretty gratifying feeling, huh?...knowing that you could bring a man such delight. I don't know that I was aware of it the first time a guy shot his load in my mouth but I knew something had changed for me and that I needed to feel that again.