Current bi thoughts

[Birobertb]

I find my desire for men growing. I still desire women very much and have good sex with my wife. But the male desire gets a bit stronger every now and then. On the street i prefer women and mostly look at women, but if every body walked around naked id probably look at men , and now im thinking maybe more. I absolutely love tits and the female everything but am more for women because i don't see men naked as much? Maybe. Unfortunately my conscience usually only likes men as friends. Saw a hot guy the other day and as soon as i heard him talk my desire faded. Strange.

[KDaddy23]

Eh, not so strange; our desire for both men and women normally ebbs and flows and literally from one moment to the next. Guys can go for long periods of time craving other guys and with little or no interest in women then, tomorrow, it's all about the girls and guys are just nice eye candy to look at. Some people are magnificent, appealing, makes your blood flow as hot as lava... until they open their mouth and say something - bummer. Interesting how a guy with a hot bod can eliminate himself from sexual consideration by having a whiny voice or even by saying something that you'd take as being stupid, immature, whatever.

[csreef]

Interesting how a guy with a hot bod can eliminate himself from sexual consideration by having a whiny voice or even by saying something that you'd take as being stupid, immature, whatever.

I once dated this "Twinkish" guy. So after a few dtes, i asked him what he likes to read... His response was comic books.... Needless to say. . .

[Robtiti]

Yeah, mine ebbs and flows too. Nothing in public either. It's all women I look at.

[JasonS]

Mine ebbs and flows. I don't do one night stands so it's hard to meet people.

[csreef]

Mine ebbs and flows. I don't do one night stands so it's hard to meet people.

It amazes me, that in the 21st century, with the Internet, Ect, that it is hard to meet people.

If you could " Rip the roofs off of peoples houses, WHAT WOULD YOU FIND ???? "

Thirty years ago one of my class mates at the University who was Psychic . She told me " If you want something, you'll find it!

Keep looking. . .

Seek and you will will find, Knock, and it will be opened on to you. Ask, and permission will be granted unto you.

I have been on this Earth for over half a Century. I have given you all the wisdom I can give. . .

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[playful808]

Is your orientation leaning in one direction? Wait. It'll change. Wait some more, change again.
Maybe "change is the only constant".

But don't worry that you are becoming gay, or that your orientation is permanently swinging one way or the other.
That might be insecurity talking.

[Birobertb]

True , it might be insecurity talking. Also he didn't say or sound bad, it was just I was put off. Although i suspect that might be societies conditioning saying you can't be with a man. The more older i get the more into men i am, i doubt ill turn our gay, but at the moment its like this: clothes on i prefer women, clothes off it seems to be men, now that is something i never thought id say, even a year ago

[Birobertb]

Also, im now living close to the beach and see guys more, when the guys have few clothes or tight clothes im looking at them the way i do women. Oh and im certainty not complaining, my interest in guys has increased and thats a good thing

[KDaddy23]

It's not that it's hard to meet people: It's hard to get the people you might be interested in to agree to meet you. If you're not a fan of casual sex, that makes meeting other guys even harder; while a lot of guys are turning more toward FWB, there are still a lot of guys who just wanna hit it and get in the wind. If you're FWB-minded, that's a more careful selection process because any candidate isn't just getting access to your body, they're getting access to your life as well and as much as you'd allow that; still makes meeting people difficult.

Then there's your preferences and depending on how deep they run or, bluntly, how picky you are about it, that'll eliminate a whole lot of guys right off the bat. Worried about getting outed? That, all by itself, will make meeting other guys difficult and more so when you're likely to be always thinking, "What if somebody sees me with him and starts asking questions?" Best way to avoid that problem is to not arrange any meetings... but that defeats the whole purpose, doesn't it? Too busy with other things in your life and really don't have the time to at least try to meet other guys? Maybe some careful time management might be in order to make some time without drawing any undue suspicion should you be flying under the radar. Keep running into pushy or flaky guys? That'll curb one's desire to go on the hunt as well.

The Internet has opened up the world to everyone who can access it... but one still has to decide what's going to be best for them in this. I'd say that the problem isn't meeting people - the problem is deciding whether meeting guys is gonna be worth the risks, both real and imagined, that and figuring out who might be that ideal guy for you to play with. The secondary problem is that in the absence of a meaningful, in-depth dialog, the only way you're gonna find out if this is "the guy for you" is to meet them face-to-face and, well, I'm sure many of us know how that might not happen.

What does this have to do with the ebb and flow of things? A lot more than you might imagine! That is probably the "I like guys!" part of you telling you that you need some, ah, contact with a guy... if you could first identify a potential right guy... and then if you're willing to meet with him.

[csreef]

If your desires Ebb and Flow, good for you ! You are Bisexual, enjoy it!

[Tight1-4u]

True , it might be insecurity talking. Also he didn't say or sound bad, it was just I was put off. Although i suspect that might be societies conditioning saying you can't be with a man. The more older i get the more into men i am, i doubt ill turn our gay, but at the moment its like this: clothes on i prefer women, clothes off it seems to be men, now that is something i never thought id say, even a year ago
I agree here I love both sexes.. but men are what gets my motor reving!! Man sex is my thing and I love it.. being naked and pleasing a guy is such an honor.. being a guy and being able to be with another guy and get him horny and hard and have him want to put his cock in me is very pleasurable.. to give up my pussy to another guy and have him fuck and want to fuck me is about the most erotic and exciting thing I can think of.. think about it you have sucked his cock he is now hard and wants to put his cock inside of you.. he wants to do to you what he would do to a girl.. but your a guy!! You have now made him so horny that he forgets all the stigma and he wants to fuck you.. kinda cool in my book��������

[whistle1]

I am very much attracted to women - even though the feeling is rarely mutual. I check them out everywhere I go.

By contrast, I am am not attracted to men and never even notice them when I'm out and about.

For the last several years, since I've been alone, I have been curious about cock.

I have never acted on the curiosity (and don't know that I ever will). It certainly does get stronger/weaker at different times though.

That being said, it does not seem unusual at all that your feelings/attractions change as well.

[csreef]

I have never acted on the curiosity (and don't know that I ever will).

If you don't try it, you are going to have regrets about what could have been. :2cents:

[Robtiti]

If you don't try it, you are going to have regrets about what could have been. :2cents:
This. Gotta at least try it.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I am very much attracted to women <snip> By contrast, I am am not attracted to men and never even notice them when I'm out and about.

This is a common theme in the forum -- you'll see a lot of guys, including me, express similar thoughts. There are various reasons for this. For many, I'd guess, it's the fear of being 'stigmatized' by others as gay or bisexual. Others, who may married or in a relationship with a woman, may question how this would affect that relationship or how their current partner would react. Lots or reasons!


For the last several years, since I've been alone, I have been curious about cock. <snip> I have never acted on the curiosity (and don't know that I ever will).

Whatever your choice, be honest -- with yourself, and with potential play partners. For your part of it, it you are reasonably well adjusted, you'll be the same person after you have had a dick in your mouth as you are today. You may find that you don't care for it. You may find that you LOVE it, and can't wait to gain more experience. Either way, or in between, it doesn't mean you're a pervert or a bad person.

Also be honest as you communicate with someone in contemplation of that first step. There are many real, decent guys who enjoy M-M sexual intimacy of this type, and we deserve the courtesy of openness and candor. I can't count the times that I hear from someone who's hot-to-go, then disappears or doesn't show up to meet. We can understand and accept uncertainty. Disrespect and lack common courtesy are entirely different things.

Good luck -- don't be afraid!

[Birobertb]

All true.
Ive already quite a lot of male experiences. And still usually never noticed guys on the street, just women. I'm guessing what has changed is that I'm seeing more with less clothes on, like everyday now.
I'm betting the guys that go to the gym have more male experiences or at least more male attractions than guys that don't or at least more than guys who never see guys with little clothes on.

[emerging]

It is funny how a lot of male for male attraction becomes more evident as we age. I don't know why. I knew I was bi in my early 30's(now 65) but was married, we starting having children and remained focused on that. Fast forward 30 years and the focus has shifted. I still regularly (2-3x's week) have passionate sex with my wife so am sexually satisfied but the male cravings remain. I shall remain loyal to her for a sundry of reasons. If for any reason we no longer have sex I am fairly certain I will find an FWB.

Gym, lots of guys checking each other out. I do like to shower w/ them.

I still look at women, especially older gals that have stayed fit. Most American ladies unfortunately have not. Men on the street do not do as much for me, just like you.

[Birobertb]

It is funny how a lot of male for male attraction becomes more evident as we age. I don't know why. I knew I was bi in my early 30's(now 65) but was married, we starting having children and remained focused on that. Fast forward 30 years and the focus has shifted. I still regularly (2-3x's week) have passionate sex with my wife so am sexually satisfied but the male cravings remain. I shall remain loyal to her for a sundry of reasons. If for any reason we no longer have sex I am fairly certain I will find an FWB.

Gym, lots of guys checking each other out. I do like to shower w/ them.

I still look at women, especially older gals that have stayed fit. Most American ladies unfortunately have not. Men on the street do not do as much for me, just like you.

Interesting.
You don't look at men on the street but in the gym you do right?

[Shelby57]

Our libidos ebb and flow. I personally think that the female body is the pinnacle of Gods creation. Having said that, when I watch porn and see a beautiful woman sucking a nice cock, I just as often want to trade places with her as I do him.

[eager4cum]

wow, all I can say is wow. I really thought that this only happens to me and it made me wonder how bi I really was. thanks for bring this out and sharing, it helps to know that these feeling are common. for my part, I (depending on my mood) will look at women or men out on the street that can get my cock started.

[NjbiGuy01]

I am the first to admit my libido and my sexual orientation swing back and forth periodically. I love sex with a woman (even with my wife !! lol), but sometimes I just feel the need to be with a man, even if only for a little mutual oral or more.

There are also many times I lose interest with the whole scene. I was on a few men's sites but (like the swinger sites) too many people talk a good good came, but many are dysfunctional people who frustrate more than they do excite me. Every few years I just get disgusted and kill off the profiles on these sites and take a break until my mood swings back.

You can truly get burned out simply from the damn chases and time-wasting. "Couples" who write back as "interested" and you answer, and then they disappear...assholes. Guys who think they will meet a movie-star looking guy with a porn-star cock, even post wife pictures (!) and then magically convince their wife to play...sorry guys, it don't work like that. Then you find guys who are "curious" but cannot get themselves to take the plunge. Or you meet a nice guy who simply can't get it up... :(... smh. I'm done ranting..

[Birobertb]

While I'm very aware of how sometimes im more into men than other times, the trend over the years is slowly but surely going up towards being more into men. Before i would be thinking of cock and then it would go for a while. Now I'm pretty much always into men on some level. I'm not sure what it is, am i more accepting with age, with male experience, who knows. I know to accept it, but as we all experience, sometimes I just can't help wondering why.

[curioustradesman]

Not sure I can add anything to this thread other then to concur with most of you. I too only look at women sexually. I was exposed to porn at a young age. (Much older brothers). Anyway I always found the woman’s body much more attractive but I think I always found a hard penis exciting. I liked to compare it to mine. I never acted on my “other” side until much later in life. I’ve never kissed a man or really had an intimate hug nor do I desire that. My feelings too , come and go. When I do desire it it’s a very strong desire. For me though it’s all about the penis That being said, I believe most men think like I/we do yet chose to repress it which is fine. For me it’s a tremendous release. It’s always good to talk to a read about men in similar situations.

[Billybuck55428]

This is an interesting thread. I was forced to suck cock at 5 years old and hated it. Started jacking with a friend at 10 yo and we sucked eachother once. Neither of us liked it. As I got older and sex with wife dried up. I started hitting on women and got a few chances. The best part for me was licking their pussies. I liked getting them off and they liked it. I should add here that the woman who lived next door to gave me my first blow job and taught me how to lick her at 13 yo. I was very popular in high school because I would rather lick than fuck. The girls liked that because they got off and no fear of getting pregnant.
As ive gotten older and watched a lot of porn I've gravitated to cocks cumming and guys sucking. Still like to lick pussy and wouldn't mind an occasional good fuck. But I like to look at the guys cocks at the gym and show mine whenever I can. I have sucked a couple of cocks later in life and liked it. Now that I'm getting to a point in life where get and maintaining a hardon is tough giving a blow job or licking pussy is the way to go if I can find someone willing and have time away from the Mrs.

[BigDanFL]

I am a total crotch watcher. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman.

[D2227s]

I agree with the ebb and flow discription...

I had an ex once ask me if I was bisexual. I thought about it for a minute and explained to her I was just sexual. As long as it's safe I like being with men, women, gay, bi, trans...doesn't matter, I just like the physical connection and touching that comes with sex. I'm the first to admit I'd much rather have a regular FWB situation with another guy but that is a hard thing to find.

For the record right now I'm obssesed with men...I need some man on man time.

[NjbiGuy01]

I agree with the ebb and flow discription...

I had an ex once ask me if I was bisexual. I thought about it for a minute and explained to her I was just sexual. As long as it's safe I like being with men, women, gay, bi, trans...doesn't matter, I just like the physical connection and touching that comes with sex. I'm the first to admit I'd much rather have a regular FWB situation with another guy but that is a hard thing to find.

For the record right now I'm obssesed with men...I need some man on man time.


I had a similar situation. I met an older woman (about 5 or 6 years older than me), who was divorced. We met through business. One day we're touring the building she managed (I was in sales), and we step into an empty rec room with a kitchen. I sensed chemistry all along and I finally took the plunge and kissed her...I got a hard on (she was short, chubby, big tits but cute !) and she felt it as I squeezed against her. She immediately said "lets go out to lunch". She told the office she was taking off the rest of the day ! We went to a sleazy motel nearby and spend a few hours playing...She ate my ass (one of my weaknesses), and had a set of vibrating eggs. She put one in my butt and one in her pussy. We laid on the bed and enjoyed the orgasms that came over us every few minutes ! My cock in her soaking wet pussy, we just laid there in the dark and moaned... She then took a strap-on out of her pouch (which she had in the trunk of her car, of all things), and put a strap-on on and proceeded to fuck me....I told her how I loved getting fucked like that...she was soaking wet and sweating...what a day.

We went for coffee afterwards and she said "so are you bi ?". I said "pretty much", and she said she "would never have guessed". I'm masculine, slightly high-ish voice, but not overtly putting out gay or bi signals I'm aware of...we are still friends. We fucked a few times since, but never put together a threesome, which could have been fun. She admitted she was "basically a crazy oversexed nympho" back then, as was I. She played with a female friend too. She said she was "situationally bi", which I think makes sense for me too.

I mellowed out since, but still enjoy playing outside the lines when I can and the people and vibes are right.

[hung4you]

As a bisexual married guy that loves pussy, i love cock as well. i am fortunate enough to enjoy both often. i share my wife with my fuck buddy and our encounters are to say the least exciting. Before my wife knew of my sexual secret i have enjoyed his cock for 2 years prior. He is a hairy beast with a gorgeous 8 inch cock and low hanging balls. He too is married so being able to indulge myself knowing i'm playing with a clean healthy guy. Making him cum is my favorite deed, whether i'm licking his cock or taking it deep in my man pussy its always fun and exciting. Since my wife is also a willing participant she enjoys spreading her legs for his cock, and i love seeing her getting creamed. My favorite is licking his cock clean after he cums in her, and she does as well.

[Homersfield]

I'm just thinking about sucking a genuine and friendly man with a good hard shaft. It would only be my 2nd

[Hotdogsandbuns]

This whole ebb and flow thing ha really melted my head, wondering why I was turned on at the idea of being sexual with a guy yet at other times pussy was all. I'm only now accepting I have been in denial about wanting, well cock really but at the same time as women. The female body I adore and lust after, my wife is perfect as far as I'm concerned, however I have never felt such raw sexual desire as I have now I'm out to myself as wanting cock.

[friskyous]

I've had interest in guys from an early age... or was it just convenience? Through most of my years it has been all about women with the occasional interaction with an old buddy of mine, always just an oral exchange and happened only on rare occasions over the course of 20 years. Even then i frequently thought about what it would be like to get fucked by a man... I often played with objects and toys.. even seemed to lean towards panties and silky stuff but still was 99 percent female oriented. Even in the years my wife and I were swinging, it was always about women. When menopause took hold and my wife decided my sex life was over, I had to fulfill my owns needs which took me back to anal insertions and gay fantasies. Relationships with women can be complicated.. with men, things are much simpler so I wonder if these feelings are resurfacing or am I like the frog that changes sexes, no girls around? be a girl.... adapt to your environment. Either way, those feelings are much stronger today than when i was younger and sooooo glad I finally found a guy to experience anal with.. never dreamed it would feel that good. I wish I had started that years before.

[mpine86]

I have always just exclusively checked out women, never noticed any other guys unless I was looking at their dick in porn. But, I can honestly say that as I get older my desire for men is definitely increasing. I still don’t look at other men in a sexual way, unless it’s in the context of sex or jerking off, but I think about sex with men more and more. And when it comes to women, I adore everything about them, while I’m really just into dicks when it comes to guys. But it is strange that sometimes I go through periods where the only thing that will do it is a penis. Sexuality is a strange and wonderful thing, and it’s ways will forever be a mystery to me! Even just the fact that I love dicks so much baffles me lol. Here I am, totally obsessed with women most of the time, and yet dicks turn me on so freakin much but not so much the guys they’re attached to.

[delpark]

I look at women, enjoy seeing tits and ass, entertain the thought of sex with them. I'd rather have sex with men, it is fulfilling for me that sex with a female never quite captured.

[csreef]

I am glad that I have explored my Sexuality, and by becoming Bisexual, I am now Living My Truth! :)

[Grant_Norman]

For me, the hot romantic feelings and sex with women is great...can't get enough of looking at them and would be all over them if I had chance. For men, it is all about the cock. Must be clean, but other than that I do not care....give me cock to suck and I'll be all over it, especially if there is a nice load to swallow...does not matter at all what they look like etc. Women, I prefer to feel romance with, but since I've been chasing (and sucking) cock so much the last few years, I'd also love to eat any pussy any time...focus on sex organs is the goal

[Leehebs]

I was much the same loved women and men some times more, some times less, however since my wife passed away last year, I have much stronger like of men to the point that I don,t really look at women sexually any longer. I have done it before many years ago, so I think I could quite happily have a long term relationship with a man, well as long term as being sixty allows.

[mike r]

well said

[Flypaper]

I am still much much more likely to admire a woman’s ass boobs and body than those of a guy. Most of my male admiration is online or with my few regular masseurs. My bi desires definitely ebb and flow, but that’s a natural part of my fluid sexuality I think.

Occasionally I’ll be at lunch and joined by a coworker or friend of one and I can sense he is gay. I have thoughts but rarely have been attracted to gay men I meet. I do see how far I can get with flirting though, just in case....

[LowkeyBreeze318]

I’ve always been & always will be attracted to women. But my attraction to guys is moreso with the cock. I’m not interested in a relationship even if I do go through with it 1 day & like it. Sometimes I have fun fantasizing about guys. I’ve learned to stop labeling myself & just go with the flow with how I’m feeling & where I’m leaning towards.

[zgay73]

I’ve learned to stop labeling myself & just go with the flow with how I’m feeling & where I’m leaning towards.

Good way to be.

[JeffT]

I'm primarily attracted to women, being a 3 on the Kinsey sale. I also have no trouble recognizing an attractive male with a nice bulge and a nice tight ass. It seems that would be the basic definition of being bisexual.

[JSX1575]

Equally attracted to men and women. My cravings change though. At the moment I’m craving a smooth blonde long haired twink about 25 years old with a perky booty. Tomorrow Incould be craving a shaved muscular built guy.

[jem_is_bi]

I look at women, enjoy seeing tits and ass, entertain the thought of sex with them. I'd rather have sex with men, it is fulfilling for me that sex with a female never quite captured.
Yes! Same for me.
Women are wonderful to look at and stir thoughts of sex. But, for me, those thoughts rapidly turn to thoughts of sex with men!

[Grant_Norman]

I am still much much more likely to admire a woman’s ass boobs and body than those of a guy. Most of my male admiration is online or with my few regular masseurs. My bi desires definitely ebb and flow, but that’s a natural part of my fluid sexuality I think.

Occasionally I’ll be at lunch and joined by a coworker or friend of one and I can sense he is gay. I have thoughts but rarely have been attracted to gay men I meet. I do see how far I can get with flirting though, just in case....

Hi flypqper, how hve you been...still have some excellent video of your cock cumming...thanks.

Wanted to let you and everyone know that now that I am openly bi, I may have come across a new way to get some action. I'l be staying for over two weeks in a nice beachfront hostel with 10 beds in the room...I'm going to make sure all the other guys know all they have to do is come to my bed and they'll get a blow job or whatever. Since I no longer care if anyone knows, hope to have some bicurious (or outright bi or gay) join me when lights are out...looking forward to it.

[NjbiGuy01]

My desire clearly ebbs and flows...I have no sex at home anymore. Long story, but mostly on the wife having issues of various kinds and me being pretty tired and disgusted about fighting over the same shit. I have an awesome GF now who's amazing and fully open minded. My play desire has died down and the Covid-19 think put a damper on it. Sucked one dick, got a sore throat and asked myself "why bother and why take the risk ?"...

We both discussed our past and we are truly kindred sexual spirits and fwiw, I feel in a comfortable zone knowing she accepts me for who I am. It was like telling her I liked garlic, "so what ?"...she played with women (not really enjoyable for her, despite a few encounters), played with many men, but tells me I make her body and mind feel like nobody ever has. She squirts (never before), I work her ass and pussy for all it's worth, and she screams while we have a great time. Sometimes these sessions last 2 or 3 hours (at 62 I'm proud, she's 46), and we're really happy. Not sure if the future is together, although it's looking like it...

We talked about my being bi, my sexual needs and she is fully supportive. We discussed playing together and supporting one another, in whatever form that might take. Honestly, my drive for hookups has dwindled to near zero. Why ? Because she's such an amazing lover and partner and such an understanding, empathetic and smart human being. I don't yet know how me saying "would you mind if I went to a guy friends house and fucked around ?". Would she want a full report ? Would she want to do something on her own in response, or would she want to watch or join ? She's said she might want another man to join us (she's done two men before), but (in my mind), I'd really want the bi window to be open, so it would need to be the right partner. Not sure how I feel about another man just being with her...we're so happy and fulfilled now, not sure how this is even needed.....

Sorry if I ramble, I'm happy :)

[Fred_Brice]

I do accept my own Bisexuality, and my true desire, is for men! Although, I often and still do, desire women body very much and I did have great sex, with my wife, prior to losing her to Cancer. It can be hard, to find another woman, who was as my good, as my wife was before her death. I absolutely love, the female form and body. Since the passing of wife, I find that I still have sexual needs and the desire for a male, is just a bit stronger than being with a female. Taking in consideration and all the excess baggage and the problems, that most women have. Maybe if I was out and about, I would still, desire a women and I mostly do, look at women. After the wife passing, it was just much easier, for me to find another man, to exchange mutual oral pleasures with, since most men, are in a hurry, but they also they have desires and sexual needs, just to bust a nut or two with another man.

Like the thread author mentioned, if everyone walked around naked, I would probably be more attract to seeing a man, and his cock, because my own cock, has been my best friend, for most of my life, my cock was always available and it never let me down, nor was never ashamed, to play with myself!

My current thoughts or desire, for sex with anyone, has died down, since the COVID-19 pandemic. My big problem, I do still have cravings sex with another man, and sucking his cock, until he explodes his warm load of man juices in my mouth, but I can wait, until this pandemic, is under control. Why would anyone want to risk their life, for a brief sexual pleasures, with a man or woman, if they know how to "Jack-Off" their own cock?

[Neonaught]

I do accept my own Bisexuality, and my true desire, is for men! Although, I often and still do, desire women body very much and I did have great sex, with my wife, prior to losing her to Cancer. It can be hard, to find another woman, who was as my good, as my wife was before her death. I absolutely love, the female form and body. Since the passing of wife, I find that I still have sexual needs and the desire for a male, is just a bit stronger than being with a female. Taking in consideration and all the excess baggage and the problems, that most women have. Maybe if I was out and about, I would still, desire a women and I mostly do, look at women. After the wife passing, it was just much easier, for me to find another man, to exchange mutual oral pleasures with, since most men, are in a hurry, but they also they have desires and sexual needs, just to bust a nut or two with another man.

Like the thread author mentioned, if everyone walked around naked, I would probably be more attract to seeing a man, and his cock, because my own cock, has been my best friend, for most of my life, my cock was always available and it never let me down, nor was never ashamed, to play with myself!

My current thoughts or desire, for sex with anyone, has died down, since the COVID-19 pandemic. My big problem, I do still have cravings sex with another man, and sucking his cock, until he explodes his warm load of man juices in my mouth, but I can wait, until this pandemic, is under control. Why would anyone want to risk their life, for a brief sexual pleasures, with a man or woman, if they know how to "Jack-Off" their own cock?

It's times like these I am glad I have a collection of Fleshlights!

[Wyoming]

I think we get too caught up in which way we want to go. Thankfully part of the joy of this is being able to see both sides and to Revel in both. It doesn’t mean you need to be mutually attracted to both or even one at the same time. Even straight friends talk about how their tasting porn varies. I think that is a reflection of our own human identity

[Rod_7_5]

I once dated this "Twinkish" guy. So after a few dtes, i asked him what he likes to read... His response was comic books.... Needless to say. . .

...you were cognizant of the fact that people enjoy a wide variety of entertainment, and it’s foolish (as well as not a little condescending) to judge all content just because of the particular format it’s in?

[JPBHacchus]

I am new to exploring my Bi side and my first time was an MMF. I've only gotten more interested as I've gotten older. It ebbs and flows for me but I am glad I am exploring it. I am a switch that likes power exchange but not into humiliation of any kind.

[zgay73]

I found as I aged, the desire became stronger and once I accepted my sexuality, time allowed me to become more comfortable with my desires and this is where my fluidity comes in. Started off as a Kinsey 2, went to a 3 shortly after and a year later, changed it to a 4. I guess sub-consciously a 2 made me more straight and 3 equal so at least my homosexual side didn't appear to be dominant. A 4 makes it dominant and I'm happy with that, but it did take time and I do realise that it may change up or down given more time based up situation or circumstance but at least it's not based on fear of being seen as more homosexual than heterosexual anymore.

[bnicks122016]

It definitely changes throughout life. When I was young I was strictly straight, very little thoughts of sex with guys. I didn’t have my first mm experience until I was in my 40s. Right now I primarily have sex with guys. My emotions still love women, but at least for me the sex is better with other guys

[DD788Snipe]

I look at women, enjoy seeing tits and ass, entertain the thought of sex with them. I'd rather have sex with men, it is fulfilling for me that sex with a female never quite captured.

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