Newbie from Melbourne Aus

[Adam1983]

Hi all My name is Adam From Melbourne Australia, Having a hard time coming to the terms that I am bisexual, Just because of the life i live and the friends I have no one would understand me..Have only been with one guy before....But my urges are becoming stronger by the day, I mean I love women there smell there hair there body warmth, But wow there is nothing more hot that a nice big cock LOL sorry to be so blunt but I just speak my mind ( where i can ) Nice to meet all of you and hope to hear some of your experiences Thanks again Adam

[Realist]

Welcome, Adam.

You've found a good place with some brilliant folks, who have a lot of things figured out and they may help you on your journey.

In the end, you should do what you feel is best for you and your family.

Be warned, there are those here who may get on your nerves, so take what you want/need and ignore the detractors.

Good luck!

[Adam1983]

Thank you my friend, And I am sure you are right 99.9% of sites on the internet has them!!!

But thank you for the warning !

[Visexual]

Don't worry about labels. You don't need to explain to anyone why you like cocks and how you still prefer women. Labels just get in the way of happiness.

[Adam1983]

Very true mate :)

[newbiguy09]

Adam, welcome to the site. I'd have to say that you've already taken the first and in my eyes, the hardest step. You've admitted it to yourself.

I spent the first 32 years of my life trying to figure out, why I didn't feel like I knew who I was. Something about my life wasn't right. I got outed when my wife found gay and bi porn on my laptop. It was the worst time in my life, because I had to admit it to myself for the first time. But looking back it was the first hurtle of me truly figuring out who I was.

Take some time, figure out how you want to proceed. My one recommendation. If your going to enter into a relationship with a girl, go into it being honest about your feelings. There are some pretty cool women out there. But going into a relationship, and hiding the fact you like to suck hard dick is just asking for problems.

Best of luck to you bud. Use the site as a resource. There have been many times, I found answers to my question on here.

[zigzig]

Hello,

Nice to have more international people here. I understand your struggle. When I was younger I felt like I was a lesbian, but in my 20's felt straight and those feelings were bouncing between men & women until I admitted to myself about them. :)

[Adam1983]

Thank you for the replies guys and girls been off line for a while, You have both made me feel better about my self and for that.....Thank you :)

[mas8092]

I have to agree with zigzig. Attractions and desires can shift. I gave my first blowjob in my mid-40's. I'm 50 now. My desire to play with another man's cock dates back to my early 20's. Took 20 years to act on it. The funny part is there was no shame when I finally dropped to my knees, unzipped his pants and put his penis in my mouth. There was no shame when I was bent over my bed and a man put his dick in me. I don't need a cock every day. But, I desire one every once in a while. My urges build until I go through with it. I have no shame when I play with another man's cock. The hard part is simply doing it.

[Newmarriedbiguy]

Hi all not sure if there is anyone from Melbourne still here.
mom new to the site and happy to chat with anyone wanting too ��������

[csreef]

The only person you have to be comfortable with is you! Explore, and get comfortable with your Sexuality, and when you do, your life will become so much more balanced and free! Good Luck! :bibounce::flag3::flag1:

[Grant_Norman]

Welcome Adam!

Sexuality is a fluid experience, and in my opinion, it's just not worth worrying about. I've been bisexual my entire life...starting sucking cocks at7 (with other kids) but mostly stopped and acted full-blown hetero (with a few bi encounters along the way). At 65, I became fulltime bisexual and wish I had started 40 years earlier...love it that much. Now, at 71, I usually have a couple opportunities to suck and swallow every week...sometimes more...and have a completely non-sexual wife completely non-sexual wife and am deep in closet. I recently arranged a twice a week job (which my wife doesn't know has benefit of swallowing a couple loads) each time I go...so finally have the best setup.

Pursue your desires and work to be as open (or not) about it and enjoy. Like me, you don't want to wait until you are older...enjoy as many cocks as you can with as many guys you want...it really is a wonderful life.