Too scared to swallow

[biblkman]

I've sucked 3 dicks in my life, once withe the first 2 men and 3 times with the last man.

And I've always wanted to swallow but am too afraid of STDs, I've performed oral sex on women a lot and licked and sucked there female juices, but it was with women I trusted and I heard that there is very very little risk of STDs doing oral.

And I keep reading mixed reviews on swallowing a man's cum, some say its very little risk as with oral with a woman, some say its better to spit, some say its better to swallow, but pretty much all the things I've read agree that having split or very chapped lips and having open sores or bleeding gums is very risky when performing oral on a man or woman.

So my question is...is swallowing a man's cum as low risk as swallowing a woman's and how safe is it or isn't it.

I know some will say just use a condom but I'm asking for answers cause I want to swallow cum...been a fantasy of mine and my birthday is next weekend and I thought I would do some freaky stuff with my lady and another guy and fullfill this fantasy, we've played before but neither of us swallows a man that is with a woman you pretty much don't have an option unless you use a damn.

[MtnMan]

My rule of thumb on the occasions where I get a chance for sex with men (not that many and after exhaustive interviews!) is to err on the side of caution. Sex of all kinds for me is better when the personalities are on the same wavelength, and the trust has to be there. Find a trusted guy first and you and your wife can go from there. It took me months to meet in person my first couple and we knew a lot about each other before we got there. The same has been true since. Personally, I wouldn't be having sex if any of us had open cuts, or ways that increase risk, even with the people I trust. If someone is willing to take that risk, I would walk away. Hope that helps, and Happy Birthday!

[ExSailor]

You can still get STDs from giving women oral sex. However you came to the conclusion that there's somehow in your opinion "very very little risk" when it comes to STDs from giving a woman oral sex you're wrong. If you do not want to swallow or are afraid to then don't do it.

[onesucker4u]

Ihave never swallowed. No reason, just dont want to. I have always spit it out. I dont see any reason to swallow, he has gotten to cum in my mouth and I keep on sucking until he wants me to stop. Done this 20 times since I was 14.

[biblkman]

ExSailor... Not in my opinion...its what I heard, in regards to oral on a woman

[jem_is_bi]

Best to get a regular male partner or just a very few such friends.
That will not be 100 % safe, but, likely much less risky.
Plus, there are other STD infections such as herpes that can happen where you may be a carrier and give to them and then think they got it from someone else.
Who is giving who what disease is not so simple always.

If you never swallow will that be OK for you for eternity?
Not me. My soul is at peace with that issue.

[dickhand]

If you take cum into your mouth at all , that is already the maximum danger . Spitting it out doesn't minimize it at all . Stomach acids will take care of any danger from swallowing .

[mnTIMIDguy]

I've heard that stomach acid thing for years, and also been told it's nonsense.

[Rabbit420]

Any bodily fluid is capable of transmitting a disease. Blood, semen, saliva, mucous and anything eminating from the female vagina. It just depends on what particular pathogen it is. Do some significant research or ask your doctor or both. If you're afraid to ask about semen then at least ask him about female bodily fluids. This is the only way that you will get the definitive facts. And as far as the stomach acid thing, it's already too late by the time it reaches your stomach. If it's in your mouth then you have a chance of contracting whatever disease it is. And that's a scientific fact.

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

Just go with what your heart and mind Tells you to do, Honey. If its already in your mouth, you Could be in jeopardy already. But if you choose to swallow, its your perogitive. Do what you feel is right for You, Hon
Cat

[jem_is_bi]

Just go with what your heart and mind Tells you to do, Honey. If its already in your mouth, you Could be in jeopardy already. But if you choose to swallow, its your perogitive. Do what you feel is right for You, Hon
Cat

This is the best advise I have seen on this issue.
Don't worry if it take a while to decide what is best for you.

[cbb83]

For the record... you can catch STD's rather easily from going down on someone, regardless of whether or not you swallow their fluids, and you're every bit as likely to catch them from a woman as a man in regards to oral. IMO the best advice is just not to have anonymous sexual encounters - only do things with someone you know and trust and be sure that you and they get regular STD testing done.