Flirtisms....:}

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

I am a Huge flirt. I dont care if you're male or female. I do it to tease, make someone turn red, or to let them know I am interested. Mine is mainly playful flirtation, and meant to make someone smile, or laugh, and feel good.

For instance: I asked a waiter how he was doing in the resturant the other day as he was waiting on a bunch of us girls. (Lord, thats another whole thread in itSelf) (Shup Richard. ) lol

He replied, "I feel really good today, thank you"

I looked up at him, leered and said, "I'll just Bet you do, Darlin" where he blushed to his toes and couldnt say a word as the Kittens snickered and grinned at him. Once he got over the first initial shock, he waited on us beautifully and dilligently and was left some good tips.

What's You flirtism? A smile, a sly wink, a cheesy remark like mine, tell me, tell me...lol

Your Bad Cat:tongue:

[falcondfw]

Definitely a bad cat.:devil: But a fun cat. lol

[Dapper_Fellow]

I am incredibly naive about flirting. I always give honest compliments to people, and as a result I always take their compliments as nothing more than pleasantries.

So I suppose my flirtism is honest compliments...

[falcondfw]

Nothing wrong with that dapper. If more people were truly open and honest with their compliments, we would all be better off.

[dafydd]

Nothing wrong with that dapper. If more people were truly open and honest with their compliments, we would all be better off.

er.... are you crazy?
Or does my bum look big in this?

[Dapper_Fellow]

Well dafydd, If you were to inquire as to my opinion by asking "Does my bum look big in this" then I wouldn't be giving you a compliment, rather an answer to a question. A better example of me giving somebody an honest compliment would be me saying, "Nice tattoo, what does it mean?" You know, an unsolicited compliment. That particular line of inquiry actually did lead somewhere, although it was entirely because I wasn't trying to flirt but actually just wanted to know what the tattoo was about.

[Bisexual Explorer]

Cat you can flirt with me anytime you want. I adore it when someone flirts with me. Flirting is never 100% innocent meaning that when someone flirts they find me attractive, even if only a little bit. I like to flirt even though it's lead to trouble from time to time. Once, I flirted with a large muscular guy when we were alone in a locker room. It's a long story that could have ended much worse than it did.
Bisexual Explorer

[dafydd]

True true Dapper _Fellow..

Flirting is not reliant on complimenting. As D_F illustrates complimenting is simply expressing an appreciation of somebodys/ something for no other reason than a pleasent 'credit where credit's due.'

Flirting is compliment for an ulterior purpose....sometimes it's not even honest complimenating. You over-egg, feign interest, pretend fascination, smile, grin, genuflect, nod and nod and nod....even though you don't agree. Fliratation can be credit where nothing is due....with the express purpose of getting an inflated return on investment.

Gearbox however, is a fucking stallion. Now that's a compliment..because it's true, but it's also a flirt...because of my motives. It's a flirtiment.

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[void()]

Always have trouble with flirting. Sort of person that hears a compliment or praises and instantly thinks "okay, what am I screwing up" or "what can I do better"? Makes it rough to read other people flirting, also rough to flirt, figure others might think like me "what's wrong?"

This is probably part of mental illness, probably some 'easy' solution that I just can't grasp.

[Realist]

I go to the same local restaurant, at least once a week. The waitress there is a nut! We've been bugging each other for some time.

She's a cute gal of about 40 with a great body and knows it. She's fast and efficient, but I will sometimes complain about the service being slow, or tell her she brought the wrong order! (She has never gotten an order wrong) I usually go there with friends; she is respectful and nice to them, but complains when I come in. (This is all put-on, though...she knows I will tip well and really do appreciate her)

One evening, I told her that my tip was going to be some advice..."Don't buy Lucent". (A stock that fell into the basement after 7/11)

She said that if she didn't get a better tip that that, I'd find my tires slashed!

I told her, "Sheese, You're way too cranky....what you need is someone to take you to bed, then leave you there, in flames!"

Her reply was to get right up to my ear and whisper, "Why you old Fart, I'd kill your ass!"

Actually, that wouldn't be a bad way to go!

[Gearbox]

Women are easy to flirt with, but it's men I have trouble with.
I was in a PO in a nearby town this week paying a bill, and the bloke there was blipping my (very crap) gaydar. I'm sure I blipped his, because he was very uncomfortable and avoided eye contact etc. (NO I'm not scary in person!lol).
I stood there like a dick, wondering how I could subtly flirt with him without giving him away to others or making him cringe. But all I could manage was a 'knowing smile'.
FAIL!:oh:

[darkeyes]

Poor Gear.. I've never had any difficulty in flirting with men (*giggles*).. I still do it even now.. a lot.. and with women too..of whatever sexuality.. its natural, its fun and mostly its harmless whoever we flirt with. Str8 women often flirt with each other sometimes even in an overtly sensual way... it doesn't mean they want to bed each other or any woman.. its fun and a part of living..it helps bring people closer to each other and develop friendship and is often a sign of great affection between two people... it is part of the complexity of human relationships and interraction...but like all flirting it's best being careful with whom and just how we flirt and how far we go with the flirting... no matter the gender or sexuality of those with whom we flirt.. sometimes we can give quite the wrong impression in one way or t'otha..

[i_shoot_blanks]

I wink if the person (female) and I are not acquainted. If we're on speaking terms then the situation dictates my flirtation. In the gym one day a lady friend was on the big stair stepper in a pair of gorgeous black pants (I'll admit it, I'm an "ass man"). Told her "her pants might cause health problems with some of us older folks". In return I received a gorgeous smile and a "thank you".
Dirty ol' men need love toooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[falcondfw]

er.... are you crazy?
Or does my bum look big in this?

YES!!! IT LOOKS HUGE!!!!!! lol. Sorry. Couldn't resist.

[Satyr352]

How about this one:

Whenever some says to me "have a good one," I reply "I do."

Satyr

[darkeyes]

Cushy day 2 day.. start of exams. Bloody invigilator flirted wiv me this mornin'.. winked, smiled an blew me a kissie as 'e went in2 the hall.. Christ... 'e is 'bout 110.. well ok... 60 if 'e is a day.... well.. hope none of the kids saw...they will make me life hell.... am gonna keep a low profile for rest of day just in case... cos if some1 did it will b round like wildfire... the daft gett!

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

*Grins cheeky at Fran and winks* Well like Blanks said, "Dirty old men need love too" lol

One of the bus drivers that transports my students always delievers me a compliment or cute remark almost every morning. I'll get one of the kids off the lift and he'll pop off with "Good Morning Gorgeous" or "How's your beautiful self today?" And I'll pop back with "You flirtin' wif me Young Man??" and he'll go "All ways in all ways, M'Lady. Maybe if I do you'll decide to go out with me!" and give me a naughty grin.
I usually smile or pat him on the shoulder and go, "Well you just keep up the good work, Darlin. I might say yes one of these times" lol. (Frankly I'd Break something that little. Mama gets a little rough with her toys sometimes....). (Hush Jim)

Flirtatious Cat

[elian]

True true Dapper _Fellow..
Flirting is not reliant on complimenting. As D_F illustrates complimenting is simply expressing an appreciation of somebodys/ something for no other reason than a pleasent 'credit where credit's due.'


Yes, I often remark about how it gives me great pleasure to express an appreciation of somebody's something .. quite frankly I'm surprised I don't get smacked more often.. :)