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Maggie6624
Apr 21, 2012, 6:19 PM
Whats your deepest darkest secret ???


Ill go first .... i have been in a relationship for 15 years and im in love w/ woman . HE doesnt know .

innaminka
Apr 21, 2012, 6:29 PM
One word

Cherie

No one except myself knows how close I was to ........................

Maggie6624
Apr 21, 2012, 6:40 PM
her.

Maggie6624

nutme
Apr 22, 2012, 9:40 AM
There ya have it......may be a new record; two posts into the thread an it's already off topic. This may not be a hair raiser, but I slept with my former wifes best friend, within days of the ink drying on the divorce. By the way Maggie, if those are your real boobs......you aint kidding about real boobs rocking. As a side note; me going to work with two different shoes on one day, should be my most darkest secret.

Jobelorocks
Apr 22, 2012, 10:33 AM
I want nothing to do with my Mother-in-law. My husband does know that I disagree with her on most things, but not that I wish that I could never have to see or hear from her again. The only reason I ever see her is to make sure she isn't bad-talking me to my husband when they visit with each other. She thinks that I am immature and selfish for not letting my hubby cosign on a $400,000 loan with her when she already owed her Father-in-law $200,000 and hadn't even attempted to pay him back (she paid $0 back in 7 years, and two years later she is still not even considering paying him back). She tried to convince him not to marry me, then tried to convince him not to spend our wedding night together and sleep over at her house instead, she is always saying I shouldn't go into cosmetology school, because I "can't handle any sort of competition or opposition" , showed up late to our wedding for no reason (she had a role in the ceremony and we almost had to replace her last minute and start without her), even though she only gets to see her son 1-2 times a year she is always canceling plans with us when we go home to visit and won't let him stay over at her house even for a night, and she is always bad-talking me even though I try so hard to be civil. i am so glad we live on the opposite side of the country from her.

Dead Account
Apr 22, 2012, 12:03 PM
The fact that I'm even curious.

darkeyes
Apr 22, 2012, 4:30 PM
I want nothing to do with my Mother-in-law. My husband does know that I disagree with her on most things, but not that I wish that I could never have to see or hear from her again. The only reason I ever see her is to make sure she isn't bad-talking me to my husband when they visit with each other. She thinks that I am immature and selfish for not letting my hubby cosign on a $400,000 loan with her when she already owed her Father-in-law $200,000 and hadn't even attempted to pay him back (she paid $0 back in 7 years, and two years later she is still not even considering paying him back). She tried to convince him not to marry me, then tried to convince him not to spend our wedding night together and sleep over at her house instead, she is always saying I shouldn't go into cosmetology school, because I "can't handle any sort of competition or opposition" , showed up late to our wedding for no reason (she had a role in the ceremony and we almost had to replace her last minute and start without her), even though she only gets to see her son 1-2 times a year she is always canceling plans with us when we go home to visit and won't let him stay over at her house even for a night, and she is always bad-talking me even though I try so hard to be civil. i am so glad we live on the opposite side of the country from her.
wooo Jobe... ur mum in law and my ex mum in law could almost be the same person... she is an ole bag an all an' God does she loathe the very mention of my name!!!

Polar Bear
Apr 22, 2012, 6:54 PM
No secrets in our house, or our relationship. Secrets are deceptive. deception leads to distrust. distrust leads to divorce.

PeterNZ
Apr 22, 2012, 8:13 PM
No secrets in our house, or our relationship. Secrets are deceptive. deception leads to distrust. distrust leads to divorce. I agree! I have been with men and women who were into keeping secrets and lying. Their issues with keeping secrets and not telling the truth broke us apart.

Randypan
Apr 22, 2012, 8:40 PM
Single now. No secrets.

Coastocoast
Apr 22, 2012, 10:07 PM
My deep dark secret is probably pretty common here, I am bisexual. Nobody I know that has any contact with my family, close friends or work knows this. It is hard to compartmentalize my life but with conservative catholic parents letting this out into the open would alienate me from my family that is otherwise close. I also have children and they have a great relationship with my parents and I do not want that to change over this issue and it would. I also work in a large organization and most of the men are the macho type and I have heard the talk about the few who are open about being other than straight. It would absolutely end my career. I am not looking for random hookups and want an ongoing friendship. As a result, even though I am single my finding a sexually open guy who is looking for the same thing has proved to be impossible over the last few years. After my divorce, I had one friend I worked out with and we eventually evolved into more than friends. After a year and a half he moved to chase a job and he is now happily married. I have seen where many gay and bisexual men dislike bisexual men who choose to be quiet about it, so I am careful about disclosing this to those who are GLBTG until I know them. It is a shame the world is what it is but I have accepted it and continue to keep my secret.

Jobelorocks
Apr 22, 2012, 10:13 PM
wooo Jobe... ur mum in law and my ex mum in law could almost be the same person... she is an ole bag an all an' God does she loathe the very mention of my name!!!
Yep, she hates my guts for not giving her everything she wants like most people in her life do. She is just so damn used to getting whatever she wants and everyone bailing her out when she puts herself in bad positions. I see through her shit and won't give in so she doesn't like me one bit.

coldfire78
Apr 24, 2012, 4:23 AM
My biggest secret is that when my last wife confessed to having an affair and wanting a divorce, I wasn't upset by the divorce or the affair (I was actually relieved, I had been wanting a divorce for 2 years). What pissed me off was who she had the affair with - I could've caught something!! Just plain nasty!!

lookin2tryit
Apr 24, 2012, 10:32 AM
after my wedding, my old gf followed me back to my apartment to say bye, and i slept with her!...i know...wrong....but what the heck!

Searchingfortwo
Apr 24, 2012, 2:50 PM
Plenty of secrets. No lies told.

Not out purely because I don't want my life or any family members lives turned upside down. I won't ever deny it if asked but I don't feel the need to tell the world just yet.

I'm pretty happy that I've never had a s/o's parents that were terrible people. My condolences to both of you that do.

jackbirdjay
May 1, 2012, 2:59 AM
My secret is not telling my wife I am a cock sucker and cross dresser. I have told me wife I want to share a cock with her so she thinks I am only bicurious. She tells me no.

æonpax
May 1, 2012, 4:29 AM
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I'm of the belief there are just some things that should remain a secret...forever.

darkeyes
May 1, 2012, 5:38 AM
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I'm of the belief there are just some things that should remain a secret...forever.
I agree with this... there are some who believe that we should have no secrets irrespective of the justification for them, and no matter the mayhem and pain which opening the book may cause.. I am not one..

beenthereandback
May 1, 2012, 1:25 PM
we had a house guest staying with us for a short while 'till he found a job...one morning after i left i had to run back in and get my wallet....i turned the corner and quietly came in so as not to disturb anyone and saw my wife naked on her knees giving very erotic head to our houseguest..he was only wearing a t shirt and his eyes were closed enjoying it..she had her hands on his ass and he had his hands on her head and she was loving it...i watched the whole act and she gave him a very happy ending....how did i feel???i had a rock hard erection and i realized that i was a vouyer....really improved my sex life.... she never knew what i saw....any one else turned on by watching a family member getting it on????

realitychek
May 1, 2012, 4:16 PM
I'll tell you a real secret; it's not dark but has the light of life to it. One of the most popular members of this entire website is in love with me, and me with her.

P.S. Thank you, Drew for without your site, it would never have been so.

Charlietuna
May 1, 2012, 4:39 PM
There is nothing wrong with a woman loving other women. My wife was almost thirty-nine when she realized she loved sex with other women. We were out dancing one evening at Sue Ellen's and a former dancer came on to her. They were together that evening although conditions were less than an ideal for a perfect evening. We subsequently became members of an off-premise swinger's club and a sexy blonde housewife seduced Janet. My wife was in lust with her for months following a night when they were in bed together. After that, my wife Janet, had a number of relationships and I enjoyed a FMF with her on more than one occasion. Today, Janet prefers sex with other men and I enjoy that as well. Perhaps that's why I am on this site!

void()
May 1, 2012, 8:37 PM
Recently, I allowed a secret about military stuff to my wife's dad. He is a retired Master Chief Warrant Officer third class, we did not go into exact details. I asked him how he felt about a place. "Built a road there." And it is true, a road was built there. There was also some other things happening at the time.

I mentioned not quite understanding what it was that happened. We did it anyway because it came down that was required. He nodded. "And the fat cat generals lined their pockets. Don't worry too much about it son, did as you were told in uniform."

Still refuse to discuss it comprehensively. I was told as it was off books, nothing got on hard cards, nothing to be known. "Shut yer yap, never happened. You're beyond the curtain, everything stays here." Chief did not need to remind me of that from back then. He also did not ask anything further. No need, never happened.

I'm just batty in the noggin for no real reasons.

SuckerMC
Nov 8, 2020, 8:18 PM
This is my secret. No one knows that I have bi-curious thoughts about cock. I did have one girl friend tell me that I should try sucking cock but she was just joking. And another girl that I fool around with tell be that I should get with another man. Don't know where that came from. I just told her no and we didn't talk about it again. Other than those two mentions being close no one knows about my thoughts of cock or coming onto places like the forum here. The word is Secret.

Jazminedress
Nov 8, 2020, 8:51 PM
not sure what mine could be......hmmmmmmmm let me think on that one ......lol

Polar Bear
Nov 8, 2020, 8:52 PM
I was born with a penis and a uterus...

stevelover
Nov 9, 2020, 11:14 AM
I agree with this... there are some who believe that we should have no secrets irrespective of the justification for them, and no matter the mayhem and pain which opening the book may cause.. I am not one..

I think many things are on a "Need to know" basis. Nobody needs to know my wife and I are open, except those we are trying to play with, same for our bi exploration, BDSM play, etc.

There is a part of me that really wants to brag publicly about how orgasmic my wife has become, but I resist. Mostly, LOL

darkeyes
Nov 10, 2020, 6:14 AM
I think many things are on a "Need to know" basis. Nobody needs to know my wife and I are open, except those we are trying to play with, same for our bi exploration, BDSM play, etc.

There is a part of me that really wants to brag publicly about how orgasmic my wife has become, but I resist. Mostly, LOLI'm pretty open about me really.. Yet however open I am there are things I keep to mesel and intend to always. Such things only get told if and when I have a reason to tell. It's a bit more than need to know.. Some things people never need to know...

sissyjackie
Nov 11, 2020, 10:41 AM
Only the people i been with no one knows I love being a sissy faggot.

Flounder1967
Nov 11, 2020, 11:09 AM
I want to be involved relationship with my wife and another male for a long period of time. Live in an house go to family events and just live a quiet life. I live in a very small town in the Midwest, so that never going to happen.

DD788Snipe
Nov 12, 2020, 3:04 AM
I agree with this... there are some who believe that we should have no secrets irrespective of the justification for them, and no matter the mayhem and pain which opening the book may cause.. I am not one..

Absolutely spot on!!!