First time with a strap on

[James2730]

Me and my girlfriend used our strap on for the first time tonight. Before hand my heart was going like the clappers and was nervous as hell. But after having done it I am so glad we did. I think I may have built it up in my mind that it was suppose to feel incredible and blow my mind. But then how many first time sexual experiences do you of that happening. A lucky minority probably. It didn't really hurt but found it difficult to relax. It felt abit more like an exercise than sex play. We done it doggy style position just as I did'nt have a f*ckin clue what other way to start. Over time I hope we will both be more comfortable with it and really start to enjoy it. The main thought/worry in my head was allowing myself to enjoy it in front of my girl friend. After talking with her she told me that she wants me just to cut loose and let go. If anything I am even more turned on by her that we can do this together.

How does this compare with other people's first time with strap on?

[cornholejoe]

i like it from the first time i did it just take your time and try it and be rexlaxed try other ways like bent over a table ride her cowboy style or lay falt on the bed you just have to fine out what you like

[welickit]

Learning to relax is important. No matter what you have done with fingers etc. that strapon is going to make you feel really full. A bit of discomfort when it starts going in is common.

Usually it won't hit your prostate unless you are either on your back with her on top or you ride her. Take my word for one thing........when it hits your prostate as it goes in and out ....relaxing will be the very last thing on your mind.

[Herculoid Poirot]

That sounds about right for a first experience.

Try laying on your back with your butt shuffled to the edge of the bed and your legs lifted. That way she can stand/kneel on the floor and have good acess to you

[Leo james]

Recommendation #1- Lots of LUB. Relax & enjoy it.

[bi4asplay]

Relax and lube lube lube.Anal O's will happen and will hook you on it.I get off harder and more often with a toy of cock in me that with a BJ or pussy. Both of which I love.

[Velorex]

My wife loves fucking me with her strapon, although we recently just got a new toy, the N'Joy Pure Wand. OMG! is all I can say. I saw stars that night! My cum shot about 3 feet in the air! My p spot has never been the same, and that's a good thing!

[09bluerex]

Thats about how my first experience was too. My favorite position is the cowboy position and also like lying on my back. Now that the first time is out of the way you will relax alot easier next time

[centillini]

I had an old g/f do me with a strap on once, it was so hot, she came twice quick, and I love the feeling