Ladies who masturbate please share your favorite toys

[midlifecurious]

Hey, ladies, I'm interested in learning more about masturbating. Any suggestions as far as your favorite items of pleasure or comments on using them with or on your lover m or f? I'd like to go shopping!

And for the guys, feel free to share your favorites as well I'd hate to leave you out. Hee, hee

[woolleygirl]

Oh my God what :smilies15 fun and endless subject. TOYS TOYS
Toys are great I have a G-spot Vib that is just wonderful. It is great when you are 69ing and while your other half is licking they insert that and hit the right spot and God you just :drool: feel like you went into orbit. I don't do this as often as I would like cause it is addicting :bigrin:. Also there is the rabbit that is fun to use it is right on clit and with someone else there to hold it for you as you cum. It is erotic to have someone watch with your toys too.

I think toys are also great when you have a partner who enjoys using them on you and vis versa . :2cents:

[NWMtnHawk]

[QUOTE=I think toys are also great when you have a partner who enjoys using them on you and vis versa . :2cents:[/QUOTE]

I soooo agree !

[Mrs.F]

I, personally am not fond of vibrators..they do nothing for me! :(

But it is so much more fun to use the toys with your partner and not by yourself. Nothing like both (or all) to be satisfied and have big smiles when all is said and done! :bigrin: :tong:

As for what we use...we have all sizes and it just depends on what either of us is in the mood for at the time. ;)

Mrs.F :)

[Long Duck Dong]

this advice from a friend... use latex not rubber.... warm it up with a hot water bottle or something or even use ice..... the pressure in you plus the different tempature is a great way to enjoy playing with toys

the key to using a vibrator or a dildo is to forget its one... so something like using a towel and a pillow, would allow you to ride it and the pillow and get a whole new feel and experience

straps are brillant... but the secret is the idea of being restrained..... like leather straps that release with the unclenching of the hands so you can hug ya partner tight when it counts

use massages and blindfolds... even masturbating takes on a whole new field when you have a blind fold on and youare masturbating or even letting ya partner massage you and masturbate you

[midlifecurious]

Thanks so much for your input.....I love this site, whatever questions you need answers to someone's right there to help you out! Thanks again!

[curvy_girl]

This might sound dorky...but soft music, candles, quiet house...take your time and learn your body. Learn what feels good to you.

I was never able to have an orgasm until I started masturbating. Then I understood what felt good and after making myself have them, I was able to relax with my partner and have them. Now they are uncontrolable! I've got a drawer full of toys from different sized vibrators (g-spot, jelly, bendable, big, little, etc.) clit stimulators (good for use alone or with partner), anal beads, etc. I love having my partner watch while I masturbate!

Good luck and enjoy!

[innaminka]

toys: They have their place.

Ok when alone.
Can be good fun with a partner. Usually evincing a lot more giggles than orgasms, but that's part of lovemaking too.

Decide what you want to get from the toy. Just don't fall for the trap of getting something too big if you are wanting penetrative fun.

Fun - that's the operative word.