Erection question?

[N.O.FUN]

Is it odd that I enjoy being with a man, going down on him, even letting him penetrate me, but can never seem to get an erection. I can get them at the drop of a hat with wife. A sly look and "Shazaam!", but not other men or women as a matter of fact. Any thoughts?

[blknproud]

your dicks in love with your wife, its that simple

[Gearbox]

^ But his mouth and arse isn't!:bigrin:

Joking btw!:rolleyes: You might not be accustomed to passive sex. Try turning the tables, see what happens.

[slipnslide]

Is it odd that I enjoy being with a man, going down on him, even letting him penetrate me, but can never seem to get an erection. I can get them at the drop of a hat with wife. A sly look and "Shazaam!", but not other men or women as a matter of fact. Any thoughts?

No, not odd. Perfectly normal.

[ohmymy69]

Is it odd that I enjoy being with a man, going down on him, even letting him penetrate me, but can never seem to get an erection. I can get them at the drop of a hat with wife. A sly look and "Shazaam!", but not other men or women as a matter of fact. Any thoughts?

My husband has the same issue that he's working through, this can be severely limiting for our play as many people view his inability to achieve/maintain an erection as their fault. (we play as a couple and are both bi) It appears at least with him that it's some form of performance anxiety. Once he is comfortable with someone(s) and is certain that he pleasing them the anxiety induced ED begins to disappear.

[Realist]

When I was in my early 20s, I lived with an older couple. It was my first poly relationship and the opportunity was somewhat daunting to me. By that time I'd been with a couple of other males, and had had no difficulty preforming with them at all. Even though I was attracted to and loved them both, I had difficulty getting erections with the husband, until we felt more comfortable with each other. It took some time, but soon I responded to him as we all wanted.

I think performance anxiety may be a viable diagnosis!

[maxtor]

when i am taking a cock in my ass my cock stays about half hard but then if i am being sucked it gets really hard and if he works on the head it will shoot so quick i cant stop it. my cock has always been super sensitive on the head. my GF was sucking me the other night and she hit that sweet spot on the head and it shot so quick that i couldnt get the words out to stop her for a while, and shot all my load in her mouth which she quickly swallowed and sucked to get the last drops out. i dont know if anyone else is like that but there is a spot on the head of my cock that triggers everything to blow out.

[dbltrbl69]

I thought I had ED until my gf told me how my being bi was a hot turn on... Problem solved. It seems my ex wife who was at first accepting decided to tell her friends I was Gay even though I've watched her eat pussy. Something so close to me that I trusted to her was suddenly a shameful slap in the face. Thank god I met my gf, we are waiting for our new friend to get back from holidays so we can explore a fantastic guilt free sexual adventure together. Mind over matter. Free your mind and your ass will follow... No pun intended Lol. Have fun out there all you horny sexy bi people. Its only sex!

[marius2846]

i have a friend that has a problem getting an erection because of medcine for depression but he works that out by doing other sexual things really good