View Full Version : does anyone prefer blwjobs over anal sex?
PrettyFlowingGown
Dec 26, 2010, 7:46 PM
just wondering if theres any on here who dont like anal sex and just prefer headjobs and other stuff like kissing and foreplay. truthfully, i've had anal sex a cuppla times but i'm not too big on it. i like it better in the shower than in bed honestly, but i reckn nothing is better than a good lvely blowjob. recently i went out for a drive one night as a man with a bi-freind of mine and we parked under a bridge, he wanted to suck me so i let him undo my zipper and it was one of the greatest blow jobs ever!!! and after he did me, i did him. just my opinion.
NakedInSeattle
Dec 26, 2010, 9:56 PM
Me, me, me...I think ass holes are exit only (especially mine!) except for fingers and light play. But blowjobs ...I love to give 'em.
Realist
Dec 26, 2010, 10:56 PM
Some male lovers are better at giving head, some are better at taking anal.
boyinwilson
Dec 27, 2010, 7:06 AM
yea that is like me i can give bj's pretty good but sometimes it is easier to just go anal it feels good and it's faster most of the time.
jem_is_bi
Dec 27, 2010, 8:01 AM
I love to give and receive blowjobs. Blowjobs are the main theme of all my fantasies. I like blowjob porn and am turned-off by anal porn. I offered to try it with my present partner, if he really wanted it. But, he doubts that it would be a good experience for him, or me given that I do not desire it and he is so big. I am sure he is right.
NjbiGuy01
Dec 27, 2010, 12:10 PM
A fair compromise would be a blow job, while the giver has a toy or their thumb up the receivers butt. To me, pure heaven.:bigrin:
fpb09
Dec 27, 2010, 12:43 PM
Right now i love giving oral , yet to have anal done to me. I'm willing to try it once & if i enjoy it I will continue it!
sylar
Dec 27, 2010, 1:30 PM
I know I'm probably the oddball bisexual guy but I have absolutely no desire to do anal with a guy.. ever. I do enjoy giving blow jobs so definitely suck the cock over anal.
cornholejoe
Dec 27, 2010, 1:45 PM
like them both
69GENT
Dec 27, 2010, 3:55 PM
I love oral sex... giving and receiving. I don't play around a lot. I have had three male lovers at different times in my life. Two of them like me got totally turned on by oral sex and we stopped there but made it special by engaging in lots of cuddling, kissing .... very intimate love making.
My last lover liked anal also which included giving/receiving. I would rarely give anal but more often be the receiver. He had the ability to stimulate my prostate and take it very slow.... edging off.... restarting... and allow time for my prostate to get excited before increasing the pressure and intensity. When he did it just right it was a very powerful orgasm that is hard to forget.
I would love to find the right guy again.... but I love mutual oral and will always want that first and foremost.
AsianDream
Dec 27, 2010, 4:31 PM
I find oral and anal sex (both giving and receiving) are equally great.- Also love oral to anal (rimming).
But I guess how much variety you like in sex is less important than findng other people who have much the same tastes and boundaries as you do
jimd_wc380
Dec 28, 2010, 9:43 AM
yea that is like me i can give bj's pretty good but sometimes it is easier to just go anal it feels good and it's faster most of the time.
Question is a little harder to answer than I first thought - suprise to see response that anal is faster. Usually take at least some prep, need a good place, gotta be "ready" - for sure. But damn when its right - nothing like it! Still a fairly rare event for me anyhow.
Blowjobs are very portable. Not much prep, can be done just about anywhere and I can get the job done quick when needed. So I guess I'm going with giving a blowjow as my preference.
Biboz49
Dec 28, 2010, 10:44 AM
I really love oral. I need to be in the mood for anal and mostly fantasize about it. But I do love having my ass stroked during oral or hand jobs.
Intoital
Dec 28, 2010, 2:19 PM
Never had anal, Want to, just never had the chance. I like a dildo, and oral. So I guess, both equally?
69luvr
Dec 28, 2010, 2:56 PM
:bipride:I do too. I slightly prefer receiving a blow job over anal. but anal sure does feel good when done with care.
like them both Its also more satisfying to give a BJ rather then anal for me.
bottom's up
Dec 29, 2010, 12:42 PM
i would much rather have a nice thick dick in my ass than my mouth
feels so dayum good
bauer
Dec 29, 2010, 1:39 PM
Oral ... giving & receiving:bigrin:
dudw_guy
Dec 29, 2010, 3:06 PM
I would say: giving oral , topping for anal, receiving oral,
funbimm43
Dec 29, 2010, 3:40 PM
I prefer blow jobs myself. Anal has never turned me on, but I have had some very satisfying experiences with giving and receiving oral. :tongue:
sterculius
Dec 30, 2010, 3:59 PM
I know I'm probably the oddball bisexual guy but I have absolutely no desire to do anal with a guy.. ever. I do enjoy giving blow jobs so definitely suck the cock over anal.
Same here!!
jimisbi
Jan 29, 2011, 7:55 PM
I like to start off by sucking my partner's cock and then let him finish off by taking me anally.
pipeater
Jan 29, 2011, 11:17 PM
For me really depends on the guy i am with and what type of mood i am in. Some nights there is nothing better than sucking a hard cock then having him slowly penetrate me. Just my opinion
runwildtonight
Jan 30, 2011, 2:56 AM
I've never been a bottom yet so I can't say for sure. I love getting head though, and a finger up my ass while Im getting sucked makes it 20 times better. As for giving, I like giving anal but probably enjoy giving oral more.
I'm not into getting rimmed. Had it done to me once and it didn't feel comfortable. I might try that again with someone else but don't want to rim any guy though.
void()
Jan 30, 2011, 8:58 AM
I'll say undecided. Love giving head but love getting and giving anal too. Yep, undecided. Guess that's par for course what with being bisexual. :)
amiamema
Jan 30, 2011, 11:48 AM
I definitely love being sucked, as long as they are sucking the full length of my shaft, and I never feel any teeth. I also like sucking the few guys who are small enough for me to enjoy sucking their full length into my mouth without gagging. I do not have any desire for anal in either direction, but I do enjoy a carefully probing slender finger, either while being sucked or while inside vaginally!
bi42guy1958
Jan 30, 2011, 5:11 PM
Flip a coin. I like both equally. Love sucking a nice thick tool and taking it anally.:tongue: